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One anomaly of my life has been that I remain Social Rich, even while I am often Market Poor.
Although the two can be attained at together, this article is about understanding the two separate systems at work.
Society screams that the opposite must be true, especially as a man. We all know the story; you need the right house and vehicle, career, and bank account balance to attract the right women for you.
That’s how it works, right? Isn’t that what being in or out of the right league means? Having the stuff and status you need to get the women or woman you want in your life?
The idea that you must be market rich, or have enough STUFF, before you can be social rich, or have high quality relationships. It’s rarely spelled out this clearly, yet isn’t that really the point of it all? Is there a man among us that hasn’t felt like he doesn’t have the right STUFF to attract the people he really wants in his life?
Nothing could be further from the truth. There’s a reason why I have competed against investment bankers, tycoons, and other people slightly out of my league when we’re both interested in the …
In a world of increasing self development there are multiple ways of going about improving yourself. I myself, have gone through Manwhore’s Skype coaching and now I am working on becoming an internationally certified NLP Coach. NLP stands for neuro-linguistic programming – a study of excellence that enables you to be the one in charge of your own life and to communicate with other people much more effectively.
I have decided to compare NLP and Skype coaching. Both methods are very effective and powerful. Moreover, both schools of thought have many similarities and also elements that make them unique.
Being the focus of attention and influencing people
Manwhore believes that to influence people and to be a social leader you need to have the right vocal projection, emotion in your voice while also needing to be comfortable in your own skin alongside being in your own reality and projecting that reality and authority onto others. The way he gets his students to reach this level of social competence is by series of drills designed to unstifle and bring out the natural personality of a socially successful person. I experienced this first hand and was amazed by the results. The way people treat you …
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Manwhore answers a question on text game the members of his forum over at http://manwhore.org/forum had concerning running proper text game and using witty “one-liners” effectively.
What’s going on fellas, this is a lay report from an alumni of my Skype coaching program. I worked with him extensively to blast through his strict religious Islamic upbringing. For those of you that aren’t aware what that means, basically he wasn’t even allowed to talk to girls for most of his life! His father allowed zero contact with women aside from those in his immediate family, and in fact sex was taboo outside of the strict institution of marriage. Needless to say we had a lot of inner work to do AS WELL as developing his ability to converse and speak with authority to women (he had zero knowledge of this). After guiding him through a couple of failed attempts with different women, he started connecting all the dots and started being able to go out and meet women and become sexually intimate with them. Come to find out this dude is smooooth. Ha! Who would have known..
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Lay report begins below:
What up gangsters!
I’ve given a brief introduction about myself in my other 3-month training with MW-thread, so I’m gonna be very brief here. I’m 32, been gaming for about 1½ …
This is a rather interesting lay as it includes some pretty serious “drama game” action. Not like this “Julien” nonsense where you call a girl a dog and tell her to bark and think that’s “good game” lmao, but where emotions actually run high at some point during the interaction and you have to do some serious state management and frame control (hint: it’s not what you guys think..) to get the girl back on track to getting intimate and kinky with you ;). Usually this happens because the girl gets pissed off or angry at some point, or there are other such bad emotions involved. In this case the girl actually flipped out, was cussing like a sailor at one point and trying to put on a show of “panic”, and left my place in a cab even though I’d already offered her a ride back to the club. The reason? No reason at all, lol, she just went into berserker mode when we were two blocks from my house. Now back in the day both Jeffy and I would have told the guys, “Yo if a girl shows clear “crazy” signals.. you run, boy!” But these days it’s simply par for the course and only makes …
Emotional states can range anywhere from boundless inner joy to seemingly endless depression or angst. And then there’s all those little states in-between; impatience, boredom, excitement, satisfaction, sorrow, nostalgia, pleasure, heartbreak etc. The more aware I’ve become, the more I’ve noticed how many states I move through in just one day, let alone a week. It’s important for us masculine driven guys to not let these states distract us from our ultimate purpose and mission, even if the mission is as simple as grocery shopping.
We’re conditioned to judge ourselves when we have negative emotional states, whether it’s anger, frustration, depression, fear, sadness, etc. Men are especially considered “unmanly” when experiencing certain emotions. Many people have fanciful views of Enlightenment as the end of all negative states, and New Age philosophy backs this notion with the idea of staying positive all the time. First off, it’s unnatural not to have a range of emotions, second, this mentality promotes self-judgment and self-delusion. I’ve seen countless people deny their true feelings and intentions even to themselves, in the attempt to stay “positive” or seem “above it all”. Denying present emotion is no better than blaming others for your emotional state.
There’s pleasant and unpleasant …
The Purpose of Practical Presence for Players
“Positive” thoughts in the mind create positive emotions in the body, and positive emotions in the body give rise to positive thoughts in the mind. Naturally, positive thoughts in the mind and emotions in the body create “positive” behaviors. Positive behaviors propel you forward in life with a purpose. They enable you to successfully reach your goals through overcoming challenges and hurdles.
But this isn’t going to be an article about the commonly-held notion of positive thinking. I am going to lay out a process by which you can take control of your thoughts and emotions, thereby taking control of your behavior and ultimately your life.
The foundation of realizing everything that you want in life as a man is presence. It is the bedrock of self-mastery and self-discipline. From the position of presence you create and allow positive thoughts in your mind, which in turn create positive emotions and generate positive behaviors. For the purposes of this series, I will be using the terms “presence” and “mindfulness” interchangeably.
What is Presence?
At the most basic level presence is being present to what is going on both inside your body and outside your body right now. Internally it …
This is a very interesting lay report from online game (OkCupid) because it includes sexting and naughty pic exchanging BEFORE the meetup, which typically does not work out well in most cases because even though the girl enjoys the sexting at the time it’s happening, she later re-rationalizes it to feel slutty about it and refuses to meet up. In fact this ALMOST happened with this girl! However I handled it properly, by “qualifying” the bejeezuz out of her, added plenty of “false barriers”, and even used some slight NLP “anchoring”/inception type stuff to cement the meetup- I’ll explain all of these below.
I also sort of kept her in a state of “flux” by using what Alex of RSD would call “deliberate illogicality”. What I mean by this is too often guys act way too “normal” and/or boring in their texting. By keeping things illogical the girl doesn’t really have a chance to categorize you and subsequently dismiss you or grow bored of your attempts to get her to meet up. So by sending her wacky, seemingly non-sequitur type texts it keeps her slightly on edge and never bored ;). This is actually a VERY powerful texting technique.
Another thing I do that is also very counter-intuitive is I …
Social Psychology has a strange tendency to be counterintuitive, especially when it comes to attracting women. Culture and customs condition us towards automated communication, even if it’s kind of fake or phony.
“How’s your day?”
The person asking doesn’t care and the person responding is doing so robotically. Becoming an attractive man is about saying what you authentic, not what’s automated. Sure, at work it’s best to do what’s “normal” (avoid being a target if money is involved) but outside of that, you should hold yourself to a higher standard of expressing the truth.
With women this is crucial because it sets you apart from those who are friend-zoned. Women friend zone those who still feel the need to walk on eggshells around her or treat her too highly, politely using social customs and not being too provocative I.E. being predictable, normal, standard and boring. They are not being a CHALLENGE to the girl. They like her by default, thinking intuitively that liking her, complimenting her, and accepting her for who she is going to make her like them. WRONG!
Not being a challenge to a girl is like slathering yourself with friend zone butter, extra smooth! It’s boring for her. When someone blindly …
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We go over what it takes to be great in bed, what it actually is that women are looking for when having sex with a guy, for the first time or otherwise, and what “high value” male sexual escalation looks like so a girl recognizes you as a boss and is sexually compliant to you 😉
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“Manwhore’s Coaching Program for Dating Success“
Manwhore and the crew discuss how to have threesomes, how to text girls correctly, and how to get laid while maintaining a more chill, laid-back vibe.
As you push this you will continually suprise yourself with what happens. People are looking for you to lead them to a better place. They want you to be that guy.
When you’re in an interaction and you don’t know what to do, tell your ego/pain body whatever that little voice is to shut the fuck up, it has no place here. You know where you want the interaction to go; that little voice is just trying to get you to give the burden of leadership to the girl and ultimately a one way trip to youjizz after you go home alone.
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This is an article I wrote three years ago but resurrected because it MUST be made commont knowledge. The idea is that the things that chodes/society talk shit on the MOST, are what will actually get you laid the most. Because when it comes to being successful in life whether it’s health/wealth/or love, most people are quite simply, crabs in a bucket, and they would rather talk shit, than work at something themselves.
Since becoming an experienced internet marketer, I’ve begun to unconsciously pay attention to trends and success streaks in my own life.. rather than before where I was haphazardly going thru life pell-mell, with no thought to planning or strategy, e.g. “natural” style. In actuality there are trends you start to notice, things that seriously stick out and can be emulated.
Back in college I wore a lot of wife beaters. I was a young guy who hit the gym a lot- I always had a strong “warrior” identity, and so kept myself lean, mean and agile. The attention I got from girls was a bonus, but damn it was a NICE bonus.
But then of course there were the fratstar chodes, the dudes who grouped together into their own self-limiting chode niches. …
This is a text convo with a sexy ass Amazon NYC bartender I met on a trip with her family in Vegas a couple years back. Her brother was standing right next to us and apparently made a comment about how aggressive I was. I did not give one fuckity.
There’s a few things to learn from this convo. First and foremost it’s just absolutely ridiculous. When Alexander of Rsd used to talk about the concept of “deliberate illogicality” (which he invented), this is the kind of thing he’s referring to.
I’m also bold as fuck, but diffuse the tension very well. There’s even a point where I introduce another point of tension to take the attention away from an earlier point of tension that seems like it’s worse, when in actuality I knew exactly how to address it. I’m referring to the stripper/brother part of the convo it’s in the beginning. The convo starts off as I’m leaving the club I met her at. I find that when you have a good interaction with a girl and start texting her immediately, it really carries a lot of happy emotional momentum/investment into the text convo. This is super fucking important.
I also embedded a TON of social/lifestyle type stuff …