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How to talk to girls

There are 3 main areas you must cover when learning how to talk to girls. They are: 1) Vocal Projection 2) “Lowering the Bar“, and 3) “Boss Daddy” Communication (instead of friend to friend)

1) Vocal Projection
When you talk to a girl, or a group of people, you must speak clearly, forcefully, and always have emotion in your voice. This conveys authority and conviction, two things that humans are hardwired to respond to with compliance. Most people think of an orator or a public speaker when envisioning someone with this kind of speaking ability. And they imagine they must have incredibly significant content to be “allowed” to speak with such power or conviction. But in actuality it has more to do with the physiological way in which the voice is projected (through use of lungs, diaphragm, and vocal cords to produce volume and “force” in the voice), rather than the content itself. Many public speakers and politicians, and even preachers, use incredibly simple rhetoric when speaking, yet are masters of vocal projection and therefore are incredibly compelling to listen to and watch. 

Good solid vocal projection is produced through: “diaphragmatic breathing” (proper breathing technique), “speaking cognizance“, and “modulated vocal …

Here’s a recent video of me  talking to some sexy ladies in the streets of Las Vegas. Great example of conversational dominance, unreactiveness while still maintaining my own frame, being physical, and just vibing in a super relaxed fashion.
Brad (of bradbranson.com) and I taught an RSD bootcamp this weekend but took some time on the side to record for our video blogs. During the set up for my recording, I stopped three hotties walking by and told them to come talk to me while I waited. The result is the video above. Brad cut it off halfway for reasons of questionable merit , but I gamed her up for a couple minutes more. Wish he’d recorded it, pretty much nonstop action then a quick kiss and a number.
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Awesome physical escalation tips such as:
- thumbwar
- how to use YOUR body most effectively to get girls chasing
- how to look sexy against a black background
- the best way to hold a girl
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I don’t do this a lot, but a contributor from my forum at http://manwhore.org/forum put up an AMAZING post where he verbally body slammed his sister’s future mother-in-law and really put an overbearing and meddling woman in her place in defense of his own mother. The way he handled it really deserves some scrutiny.
If you care to contribute to the discussion the original forum thread is located at: http://manwhore.org/forum/content/stopped-negativity-gaining-traction-and-flipped-script
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So yesterday, I was with my mom at my godparent’s house and they were all doin shit for my sister’s wedding
And at one point, the mother of my sister’s fiance comes over and they are all talking and eventually it gets to the point where the mother starts asking my mom about her religion and basically is like, “I don’t want my grandchildren growing up like that”.. and a bunch of bullshit like that..
Uhmmm…. well my mom was taking it like a champ, like totally answering this woman’s questions from a higher level of concsiousness. She was all, “Well, I am proud of who I am and if you are unhappy about something having to do with that, I think that’s something you’re going to have to deal with”
I was super amped for …

I wanted to write another post on how to get laid using “social circle game” as I got a lot of positive responses from my previous two articles on the topic. You can read those here “How to Build a Social Circle” and “An Example of How to Get Laid from Social Circle Game“.
Anyways I was discussing with a student how to handle logistics in the improv class he attends as there are several attractive females in it and he can tell at least one of them is attracted to him. However he was nervous about the potential for social awkwardness as this was a class he wanted to continue attending and he thought if he asked one of them out it might get weird later on.
So I told him how I handled a very similar situation
About a year ago I attended bartending class here in Las Vegas. As you can imagine there were a few attractive girls in the class. I attended it with Brian Burke of http://badassdating.com (formerly Brian Pettit of Vin Dicarlo.. you might recognize him as the guy from Vin’s product Pandora’s Box who is actually interviewing the girls). A couple days into the …

I remember one time on bootcamp having to have a little infield “meeting” with the students because a few things just weren’t clicking for them and it was frustrating as hell to watch. I pulled them together in a tight circle right on Las Vegas Boulevard and channeled a bit of my former military style of training. “Look fellas, we’re here to meet women.. while being men. We are men. We are not bashful, we are not ashamed, we are not scared of girls. You need to LOOK A GIRL IN HER EYES, and not for a second flinch away or avert your gaze. You are a man. It is your job to soak into yourself her feminine energy, to NOT be afraid of it, to not look away or avert your gaze as you walk up and open her. You need to walk up, gaze into her eyes, pause, and look INTO her.”
A man’s role is to be unabated, unflinching in the face of ANYTHING. That includes any kind of bad emotions or drama a girl is experiencing that she inadvertently or accidentally projects onto you as you walk up to her. So if you walk up and she …

I want to begin this particular lay report with a disclaimer. This particular girl is definitely not what most guys come into the dating community hoping to hook up with or have a relationship with. She’s not exactly a good girl or even a nice person for the most part, and honestly any guy trying to come up with ways or techniques to control this kind of girl is not really going down a healthy path.
That being said it was at times enjoyable and the girl is definitely good looking. Latina/italian mix, fake tits, Las Vegas bartender, pretty much your typical she-wolf. I would never pursue any kind of relationship with her.
Anyways I met this girl out at a bar and got a quick # off her. We were flirty and somewhat touchy but there wasn’t anything really special about the first part of the interaction.. I did my somewhat typical # close where I asked her questions about what she liked (to do) and she said “Yes I like scary movies!” So I was like ok fuck ya we’ll go see a scary movie.
Anyways I sent her an initial text she didn’t respond to, and then another she didn’t …

I had a couple of my readers recently contact me with questions as far as how to handle stressful job interviews and how to frame-control and out-Alpha other dudes in social situations. What started out as a simple response became a very detailed breakdown of what frame-control and being Alpha is.
Just like anyone else I am faced with situations or questions that I do not know the answer to. My default response to the unknown is the trust and belief in myself that regardless if I know the answer or right course of action to take now or not, I’ll figure it out and get it done. Even if I mess it up I’ll learn- so no reason to falter. The best way to set myself up for success is to calmly and forthrightly look at a situation and either handle it or realize you can’t and pass it on and simply say “I can’t do it/I don’t know”. I carry that with me in whatever I do. This feeling/belief of self-trust is your right as a human being. It should be taught in school but it’s just not widely known yet. People think you either have “it” or you …

I like to have one focus when I go out.
Whether it’s “I’m having an adventure with the buds” or “I’m pulling a girl”, I keep myself focused on the mission at hand. It’s pretty hard to get me focused on anything else.
However- I think the main point here is that I do have a purpose. Whether I’m intent on banging, practicing a particular skill set, or playing pool.. there is something to what I’m doing. This is a big deal- and something I think a lot of guys lack when they go out.
What the fuck are you out for gentlemen..? Get on it. Stay on it.
This will give you clarity of mind and action; and your behavior will follow suit. And this is what girls get a sense of. I ran around last night gaming three girls in the same vicinity- they knew what was going on, but as I was serious and focused, they inherently did not question it.
Do you always have girls asking you where your friends are? It’s probably because they don’t get a sense of purpose about you.
And most people lack this.. so when you do have a …

Toodles,
Interesting phenomenon I see out in the field with other guys, or hear about..
Guys taking off to go home when they see themselves start to have a bad night.
We’re not here to feel good gentleman.  We’re here to get girls, or hang with buds, or increase our skills.  But we’re not here to feel good.  Sure there are some legitimate reasons for taking off- and sometimes hell ya it’s good to take a break; but if you’re slinking off more than one night out of the week.. you’re just being a puss.
I’m talking about state crashes.  A girl or two blows you out, the bartender is “rude” to you, some dude tries to tool you; and you start feeling down.  This is no reason to leave.  You came with a plan.. stick to it.
There were times when I was in the military life sucked.  But quitting wasn’t an option.   It wasn’t something I even thought about.  Besides.. I had others to think about.  Most of you only have yourselves to think about, and you shouldn’t be thinking about yourselves.  See the bigger picture- your skills, your purpose for being out, the people that depend on you for things even if …

I just got back from watching the new Transformer movie tonight.
Shia Labouf and Megan Fox had some great dialogue in the beginning.  Something along the lines of:
“I’m breaking up with you- I hate you”
“That’s great baby.  You sounded almost serious that time.. anyways baby, blah blah”
She threw several fast ones at him and he was completely unaffected by her seemingly scathing rejections.
It was surprising to see the media represent a non James Bond male character unperturbed by a woman’s emotional flutter.  Not that we can blame them.. they’re advertising to the “consumer”.  And apparently all consumers are women.
The point I want to make is that Lebouf had single-minded focus on his purpose.  Lazer-guided direction that could not be put off course by someone else’s emotional misdirection.
Sadly he didn’t get to this point himself- since later on in the movie, as soon as she threw anything else at him he folded like an origami pussy.  Obviously she started this type of hot/cold dialogue and he just learned to play along.
But imagine if he was always like this..
A girl could count on you to not get twisted up every time she had herself a crazy moment, or more importantly when life threw …

Check to see if your college has a campus tv station- then start a show. Get your buds on it with you. It could be about anything. Just look good doing it- the skills you learn here are obviously what I’m talking about. You could be 3 dudes sitting on a couch discussing college chicks and it would totally get an audience.
Tell the frats and sororities you have a tv show and want to promote their events, do the same with the sports teams. You’ll be cordially invited and well-received at all their events. Plus your show will be known for advertising all the upcoming parties. Face-time baby.. there’s nothing like it.
If you’re on a sports team then volunteer to be the publicist dude and contact all the sororities and frats asking for their support in getting people to come out to your games/matches/whatever. Actually only contact the sororities. It is amazing how sweet those sorority presidents are when they find out who you are and that you are asking for their “support”.
There are alcohol companies out there that are looking for motivated dudes like you to hardwire events together. Find a cheap venue, hook up with a local alcohol company- …

Fellas,
Something I touched on BIG TIME in my LMR Series part V, which can be found here, was the idea of initiating some kind of sexual dialogue with a girl you’re interested in.
If you are planning on SNLing a particular girl, or simply increasing your probability of doing so.. you need to do this.  Same as when I say you can’t wait till the end of the night and all of a sudden try to pull her, i.e. you need to have been leading her [around] beforehand; you cannot try to wait till the last second to all of a sudden make the encounter a sexual one.  Understand the only reason why you’d attempt to delay it indefinitely is because you’re scared to, in which case you have no business having sex with a girl anyways ; P.  Or you simply don’t know, or know how to.  It’s time to be made aware of this stage of logistics..
Girls are social creatures.   Put in terms easier to understand.. they respond to their environment.  It’s up to you to determine what that is.
Lots of guys have genuine conversations with girls; the girls are engaged- going back and forth with them- comfortable and …

I. Introduction- Owning yourself

A. You guys are too responsive to situations around you. You automatically respond negatively to a seemingly bad situation without questioning why you’re reacting like that, or feeling like that..

A girl acts bitchy to you, and you actually feel shitty- this leads to thinking it’s a reflection of you- so you start stuttering, your nonverbal communication takes a dive. And your thought process takes a dump. You get questioned by a cop, or some figure of authority like your parents, and you act and feel tense, nervous- you might even adopt guilty mannerisms.

Some of you guys say.. social embarrassment is the only thing I can’t get over. Dude.. it’s just a feeling. And you’re the only one feeling it! If you were to disregard it, it wouldn’t exist.

Guys.. those are just chemicals rushing through your body… You haven’t actually changed..! A lot of you guys feel owned by the physiological reactions you feel- that you have to respond to the horrible tense feeling in your gut. No… Disregard it- it’s only your body acting on its own. Divorce yourself from the feeling and do not dwell on …