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Another Text Game Lesson: Emotionally Baiting, Absurdifying & Maintaining A State Of "Flux"

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This is a text game lesson for lengthy, more drawn out text convos...

We break down a lot of text conversations with girls on the MW forum, as they're occurring. One such took place today where a guy is doing decent push-pull but then the vibe slightly dips as he qualifies himself a bit too hard and the girl loses some attraction. Now this is actually very common and easy to do in longer text conversations taking place over a few days even a couple weeks (I've had plenty of text conversations take months before I met up with the girl and then slept with her). 

 
Anyway the rest of the conversation follows below:

her: Like that's not even funny

me: I know I'm a horrible person

(no response)

me: But gimme a break, I'm a child of divorce (american psycho quote lol) 

her: ...sigh

her: Sorry to hear

me: You can make it up to me by getting the first round of drinks 

me: and not sucking in pool

me: You can make it up to me by getting the first round of drinks

me: And not sucking at pool ;)

her: where do you live

me: Yonge and egg ish 

me: What's your scheduel like this week

her: Free tues and thurs evening

 
Now this actually worked out seemingly pretty well, but it remains to be seen if she's invested enough/wants to come hang out enough to actually show up.
 
My choice for him after her "...sigh" and "Sorry to hear" was:

"Yeah I made them divorce when they were late with my cheerios one morning"

 
So instead of entering her frame too much, or even accepting her "pity", which isn't always construed by a girl as "high value" masculine behavior, lol.. he drops a bomb on her. Absurdifying her emotional reality of the sitation. By emotionally baiting her like that, especially when going from "pity me" to "I just swatted your bottom", you're projecting lots of high value, continuing to invest her to the point where she can't let go (this is the same reason why women hang on in relationships with assholes- not that that is good, but it certainly happens), and you're also keeping her in almost a state of "flux" to where she's slightly always on edge with you, never bored, and can never possibly know what you're going to do next, and so also can never possibly disqualify you by seeing you as approval-seeking (which is a female's main screening mechanism in mating). Unpredictability isn't necessarily seductive, but it's certainly alluring as fuck and more importantly, keeps her guessing. I don't care how many cosmo magazine articles tell guys to stop trying to "game" women. First of all they've been doing it to us since Day 1, lol, and second of all they love it too much to ignore. "Curiousity killed the cat" is one of the oldest expressions known to man. And it's no coincidence the synonym for cat is pussy.

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Genius, genius, genius!  I

Genius, genius, genius! 

I wonder what some other examples are. My mind is running blank, can't think of any good ones. 

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They're going in the ebook

They're going in the ebook lol. 

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Manwhore wrote: They're going

Manwhore wrote:
They're going in the ebook lol. 

What if the girl really doesn't think the cheerios line is funny? I've had some issues with girls not liking some texts that I just think are hilarious but for whatever reason they just don't respond to it.

I'm trying to find the balance between calibrating to the girl and acknowleging when there is no chemistry between me and the girl and I should move on. Is there going to be a section in the book explaing when you should just delete the number and move on?

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tradingbr wrote: Manwhore

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Manwhore wrote:
They're going in the ebook lol. 

What if the girl really doesn't think the cheerios line is funny? I've had some issues with girls not liking some texts that I just think are hilarious but for whatever reason they just don't respond to it.

I'm trying to find the balance between calibrating to the girl and acknowleging when there is no chemistry between me and the girl and I should move on. Is there going to be a section in the book explaing when you should just delete the number and move on?

No there's not going to be a section on deleting the number and moving on. The reason why they didn't respond to your text/humor is because it was fucking terrible. 

Give me an example so I can shit on it and show you what's up. 

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Manwhore wrote: tradingbr

Manwhore wrote:
tradingbr wrote:
Manwhore wrote:
They're going in the ebook lol. 

What if the girl really doesn't think the cheerios line is funny? I've had some issues with girls not liking some texts that I just think are hilarious but for whatever reason they just don't respond to it.

I'm trying to find the balance between calibrating to the girl and acknowleging when there is no chemistry between me and the girl and I should move on. Is there going to be a section in the book explaing when you should just delete the number and move on?

No there's not going to be a section on deleting the number and moving on. The reason why they didn't respond to your text/humor is because it was fucking terrible. 

Give me an example so I can shit on it and show you what's up. 

I recall a thread last year (dont have a link) where the girl was a bit humorless with the poster and you responded that you would start screening the shit out her because you didn't want to waste your time, or something to that effect

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I found the

I found the post

http://manwhore.org/forum/node/410

"The issue here is her lackluster response to your display of brilliance. If it was me I'd cop serious attitude and figure out what's going on here. Her text shows she either doesn't have a sense of humor, or doesn't appreciate one, or is trying to project her bad day onto you, or is trying to stifle you, or all of them. A good chunk of the game is having standards, and then enforcing those standards. This for me in particular is one of my "hard lines". I'd be prepared to next her. If you let this stand, and even manage to get her to meet up, you're going to have your work cut out for you anyways. Better to potentially screen her out and see if it's even worth your time. Now will screening her probably set this right and even build her attraction for you? You betcha. But always be prepared to let the hard cases go."

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Sure but that has nothing to

Sure but that has nothing to do with you. That was that particular conversation and girl. You're at the point where you need to be looking at your game, not trying to put the blame on the girl. 

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