best friend is a fucking chode

my best friend kicks ass bro. introduced me to the Game at 14 - first time taking LSD was together, and first time taking molly...feels closer to me than family funnily enough.

just let him be and lead by example - once he realizes that your path is more appealing he'll drop it like it's hot and start lending an ear to your advice.

I'm very curious homey.. why is he your best friend? With this much difference between you two, I suspect there is some kind of parisitic symbiosis going on. 

I'm living and working with a bunch of younger guys this summer.  They are all smart and decent looking.  Two of them are great looking and jacked.  Guess what?

Every single one of them has a terrible attitude about "game."  Their opinions range from, "I don't feel like it" to "I'll just get really drunk and find another really drunk girl."  Last night they were just standing there while I was approaching.  I even tried to call one or two of them over AFTER I had opened and they still stood there.  They're just like, "We take what we can get."  A few of them have a fake cougar "fetish" because "cougars get right to it and don't play games" and because "cougars don't just lay there like starfish."  I tried explaining that if you only fuck wasted girls there is a good chance they'll just lay there, but it was lost on them. 

It was raining last night and this group of girls came in.  The one had water droplets on her well-formed breasts and one of the guys commented on them to me.  I walked over to her and started talking.  I went back to him after her sister pulled her away.  He acted like I had never approached her, and then he went back to commenting on how nice her breasts were. 

lol i would rather kill myself than say "i don't feel like it" if i saw a girl i could approach.

seriously, that phrase hasn't been in my vocabulary for a long time...even though it creeps up now and again.

Sounds like you're killing it Archangus

Well i was hammered when i was wrote this. ( Clearly ) Hes been my best friend since elementary school. Weve both helped each other out and pushed eaxh other throughout the years but when I left to university ( he had graduated from then ) we kinda fell out of touch. After his first real gf he just kinda fell off man. Confidence went down, obviouslly chill to pull ratio went down, motivation went down. We became tight again. Instead of him pushing me its me pushing him now. Role reversal in every aspect. I'm def the leader now.... Except he doesn't fucking rise to the occasion now like I did when shit got tough. He straight up conceded last night. Ughhhhhhhh. Hes a brother man. I'm trying to return the favor he did for me when I was a piece of shit and he helped me pull myself out of a rut. And by help he just motivated me. I'm over it. He's a grown ass adult but if he's willingly going to let himself get shit on then so be it. His problem. Just dont wanna hear it. But to put it in perspective we've been basically inseparable since 8 years old. ( i'm 24 )

These changes are all pretty recent tho. Used to be him leading the troops.
SIDENOTE: i tell him to keep look out for ppl while i pee on a building. Fucker doesnt warn me and im ducking and dodging security, dick in hand and peeing. End up peeing on myself quite a bit but was pretty fucking funny lol.

Yes I really hope he gets his act together. He's my best friend for reason gogo, he's a solid fucking dude. He's like the cool guy in high school who fell off except he mainly just fell off when it comes to chicks. Like at one point after we had some girls to pull home he purposely told them to piss off because his girl was beat/rejecting his advances, but I think it still wouldve gone down. Anyway hes sloppy as hell and he just says " i CAN'T do this. I'm not you man, I hate this shit. I don't care, I'm taking my gf back. " Just face palmed pretty hard and didn't want to beat a dead horse because if anyone knew his situation they would all unanimously agree to dump her. I hopde that works to be honest. I got him to tag along with me to the gym and hes been making progress so I hope that will breathe some confidence back into him.

I left a lot of friends in the dust. I offered one guy a job from a friend whom I know it hiring. And he's like nah.. I'm too old to start something new.. Mother fucker! Your only 25!! And it's clearly a better job than the one he has. He's still my bud. But I cannot be best friends with people who make excuses. My best best friend just won 10 000 and 1st place in a fitness contest. A year ago he was skinny with a broken shoulder. Now he's 10k richer and helping a top notch nutrition as personal training company coach the next lot. That's my type of guy

Nice.

Yeah I had to let go two of my best friends for similar crap. Knew them for 18 years