To Chase or Not to chase

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Mon, 05/20/2013 - 09:18

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my head's been warped lately between Distant Light's shit on 'not chasing', cutting out text game and letting her to do the work to get with you. if you follow him and Gravity's stuff on RSD it seems to be going pretty well for them; i've tried to some degree and i find it lazy at times, and an excuse to just dance all night in the venue.

also, it's quite the paradox with a lot of the stuff i like doing - like staying in set and watching the girl open up to you (her heart and legs).

i know MW ain't the biggest fan of this shit, mind airing your views thoroughly here? and others should chip in too !

Mon, 05/20/2013 - 10:24

Manwhore

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Well listen homey.. it's not

Well listen homey.. it's not that that stuff "works", it's that those dudes have so many options they're forced into a more "high value" behavior set than is necessary because there is too much available pussy flying around and they legitimately have to screen harder otherwise they'd accidentally start going on all kinds of wild goose chases. It used to be Alex's problem back in the day as well.

Either that or they're faking it and the whole thing's a sham. I don't think it is. But dude.. distant light doesn't have good "game", he's just swimming in pussy so he can act as coy and aloof as he wants.. which at that point only girls that are truly into him are sticking around. He just happens to be swimming in a large enough local pool. Here's why, he's an nyc club promoter. DUH lol

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Mon, 05/20/2013 - 17:58

killaB

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ya I'm not a fan of his stuff

ya I'm not a fan of his stuff at all. I think if you take him out of his element/comfort zone the dude would be struggling to get numbers let alonge one night stands. I do however think he paints a great picture of how building a great social circle and making connections can bring many rewards in the form of hot tail without much effort once things get rolling

Tue, 05/21/2013 - 22:22

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haha this is interesting but

haha this is interesting but (and I'll probably make a real thread about my thoughts on this) what is chasing anyways? I get what DL and gravity mean by it but like I have a rule not to chase too but all it really means is that I never follow girls lead (unless I'm proactively giving them the lead) and I never ask permission or beg (to any degree) for their validation. So in theory I think DL and Gravity are right but also go about it to an unnescessary extreme. I think what they're doing truly is high caliber and will reel in the ladies to an extent but by going so extreme with it they put a 'cap' of sorts on how far they can take the lifestyle.