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So I wrote this via PM for a guy on RSDnation because he saw some of my older posts. I feel like it encompasses the essence of social circle game for newer guys that have little direction or "know how". This is very general. I will expand or go into much further detail if anyone has SPECIFIC questions:

I focus mostly on social circle game. First and foremost, surround yourself with cool dudes. Find. Friends who are diverse. Some funny guys, some good looking guys, some chodey guys that are chill, etc. the most important thing is having great chemistry so that when y'all are together it's a good time for everyone involved. Then, once everyone invites the girls they know and they invite the girls they know, well you get the idea. Now you're branching out and building up your social circle. Throw small events every week. Pregame. Ask girls to go to the gym. Go to the movies. Even if you don't sleep with these girls, you wanna be comfortable around female energy. But don't let it overtake you. Be a dominant male figure that just loves hanging out with chicks because you love their energy. 

 

For there, it's pretty simple. Maintain your dominant vibe at all times. Add alcohol to the equation as a social lubricant and let the night just flow. Don't try to make moves unless they're blatantly obvious. You will know. The biggest thing is handling logistics. What are you doing after? Where are you staying? Wanna chill? Set yourself up for success. 

 

Once you do all of this regularly your female friends will want to set you up with their friends or talk you up to random girls they just met or wing you at the bar or where ever. And lastly, for God's sake, do NOT EVER EVER EVER tell your friends who you fucked. Don't tell girls. Don't tell guys. That shit is a secret at all times. Word gets around fast and sometimes your friends either have big mouths or they are jealous of your success. They will tell other people and it will not work out well in the end. Keep shit on the DL at all times holmes. I can't stress it enough. 

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Ha nice! I posted in that

Ha nice! I posted in that thread earlier. He makes some very valid points as well. 

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So my basic structure is

So my basic structure is this:

 

Open > Challenge > Vibe > Escalate > #close or pull

 

The open is pretty simple. Just go up and say anything. Comment on something she's wearing or what her friends are doing, etc. it doesn't matter whatsoever. From that point you're gonna wanna make some conversation. Keep in mind, all of this is with authoritative tone and body language. Maintain solid eye contact as well. Once she brings something up you genuinely don't like, call her out. Back turn her. 

 

Example: 

 

Her: yeah I'm from California. 

 

Me: Psst, I hate California. I can't talk to you anymore. 

 

Back turn her or look away. She'll either seek your validation or you turn back and be like just kidding....but you're not one of those stuck up Cali bitches right? 

 

From there just vibe and have a good conversation. Incorporate some touching. Take her to the bar. Play some pool. Play some darts. Dance. Aka, get physical. When the moment is right build up the tension and either make out or pull her home. For super hot girls, you're gonna wanna make them wait. Some girls get off on knowing you caved in and made out. You're gonna wanna tease the fuck out of these girls until they're begging for your cock. 

 

This is is a very streamlined process of what I do in bars. But honestly, it looks the same at the pool, on campus, etc. Just get comfortable teasing and doing whatever the fuck you want. Just put yourself out there and you'll see success. I also recommend messing with tinder if you're in a good area to up your text game. Another good resource is www.manwhore.org/forum

 

probably the best forum for game in my opinion. RSD has a lot of negative guys that don't contribute shit. Of course they have some amazing value givers, you just have to learn to wade through the shit to see the light.

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Okay holmes, you need to drop

Okay holmes, you need to drop statements of intent and pepper in escalation. This takes some calibration on your part. So say something like,

 

"Damn girl, you look cute"

 

"Thatshirt looks terrible on you...you should take it off" 

 

etc.

 

all of this is said with a smirk and a playful vibe. There should be that he's kidding...I think. Sort of vibe.

 

the peppering in escalation is SUPER EASY. Especially in college and I consider myself well versed in this area specifically. You wanna reward the girl when she does something you like...so if you guys score a point in beer pong. "Fuck yeah!" High five her. Or hug her. Spin her around. Basically just make her comfortable touching you. I also like to day things like, "This is why I love you." "I knew there was a reason I liked you."

 

Possibly the the most DYNAMITE line I've ever used (I have to start doing this again, works sooooo fucking well): "you're either the  coolest girl I've ever met....or a total fuckin weirdo..." Lol! My style is definitely natural but I do like to use some of these canned things from time to time because 1. They work. And 2. They give you a concrete example of the baseline or ideology you should be operating from when you interact with girls. once you start getting comfortable communicating this way it will become normal and these sort of statements will just flow. 

 

Now, ow, like I mentioned previously after you've taken it sexual start handling logistics. The sooner, the better. Always ask what are you doing after this? Say there's an after party. Or we should watch a movie. Anything works. I'm not gonna go over end game because there's too many subtle nuances to accurately explain busting LMR and shit. That just comes with experience in my opinion. Good luck man, keep me posted on your progress! Here to help if you ever wanna discuss specific situations. 

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^^ other excerpts from our

^^ other excerpts from our conversation. 

Thanks for the articles MW. you were one of the first guys I started following on RSD. Very knowledgable and applicable advice.