Met this girl at a Day rave saturday.
Meet her and see her later, trade massages, I ask her if she 'feels it' she goes "u mean us?"
I'm like "yeah that too, but I was talking about the molly" I bite her she giggles
she asks if i want to meetup later im like yeah and she puts her # in. Run into her again, tell her we're meeting up and then run into her again and come with them to watch the main act.
we're dancing and she's attentive, keeps checking back and looking at me. Was macking all over her body, had my hands down her shirt and pants
we go to the bathroom. she comes out and i build some comfort, tell her I'm glad I met her shes like "yeahh me too
We go to the steps to meet our friends and i have her legs in my lap, she leans on me. Im like "is that all i am to u, just a pillow" shes like "noooo ur amazing"
I tell her she can come back with me, she drove her car here tho w friend and lives 45 min away, so we agree to hang on tuesday
me: Hey it's Alex, where are ya
her: I'm in the crowd !
me: Lets meetup for diplo
her: I'm in crowd again !
me: Lets meet at the steps in 10
me: Be safe driving home
her: Ok thanks were already here *Blush Emoji* haha
me: Dang girl! U weren't supposed to beat me lol
her: Oh lol are you home now ? *blush emoji*
me: Yeah finallyyy took a shower. Even tho I kinda liked having ur cooties on me....
her: Haha I know I have cute cooties
me: Watcha up to
She hasnt responded, she still could but it's been almost 4 hours.. sooo
was thinking bout sending this
me: Don't ignore me punk ;)
What do you gentlemen think?
I think you should have banged her a the fair
okkk appreciate that, but is that text the right kind of vibe to go with?
or I could be like "Sounds amazing lol. I just got done making the worlds greatest tacos
I mean y'already know "Watcha up to" is a crap text, lol.
What do you mean by sounds amazing. What sounds amazing, her lack of a response?
This is proper setup:
Me - 7 mins later: Gawd I'm so damn hungry. Gonna make some grub before I start chewing the furniture
Me: I'm gonna look you up in the police database make sure you're not a axe murderer ;)
Girl: Uh oh you caught me
Me - 3 mins later: Figures lol. I'm lucky you didn't drug my drink you lil perv
Girl - 1 min later: ((((; that's a brilliant idea
Me - 1 min later: Whatever! I'm immune to your witchcraft buhbee it won't work
Girl: Lololol buhbee
Me - 1 min later: Are you going to watch the Chargers tonight. I'm going to blaze and watch them rape the cardinals
Girl: Working ;(
Girl: I feel the same
Me: What's your schedule like this week beb. Maybe if your police record is clean we can hang out
Girl - 1 min later: Work n school tomorrow. Then just school til Friday
Me - 4 mins later: Oh I love nerds
Yeah I was meaning it as her lack of response. Yeah man I should only send texts that are coming from a playful/accusatory vibe for awhile. And not send questions even if I think she likes me enough for it to be okay to send a question.
I swear im my own worst enemy
She ended up responding after 4 hrs
her: Just homework :p what about you?
I realize that texting is definitely a weak point in my game, im going to try and carry on this convo myself but I'm going to post questions I have in regard to getting this girl to come over on Tues. She lives 45 min drive away, so I may have to get her all amped up over the phone for her to come
Yeah she's into you and I do know what you mean, you want a little show of compliance, etc. and that's cool but I'd do it further on in the interaction after you've solidified plans for a meetup then it's actually a pretty effective tool.
her: Just homework :p what about you?
me: Just made the worlds greatest tacos
me: I'm gonna look you up in the police database make sure you're not a axe murderer ;)
I wanted to try out your line, thought it was funny and she'd respond immediately, but I can see that she read it last night and still hasn't hit me back
Did I do anything "wrong" here, or does she maybe not know what to say/ is a little apprehensive about hanging out tomorrow since we were so physical when we met
Obviously I need to get her smiling and take whatever pressure she feels about meeting up away, but I tried doing that with your funny text....
Ok look at the text.. do you not see? It doesn't require a text back from her. She's simply waiting for her test results back ;)
Ohh lol ok gotcha
me: So I checked the reports... turns out you HAVE been seducing cute guys at raves. Only to make them choke on their cheesy curly fries later... are u sure I can trust you? :)
Naw that's fucking terribad.
Does anyone have any ideas?
I've been trying to come up with some
me: So I checked the files... I've got a rare case of Perchalski cooties. the only way to get rid of em... is to throw you in the pool
me: So I checked the reports... Turns out I DID catch ur cooties. u so owe me icecream now
You got plenty of direction. Make it happen
As in reply with one of those 2 texts?
I thought about it, and while you're right that the axe murderer text doesn't necessitate a text back, it's enough of a spike that she definitely would've replied if she thought it was funny.
I would've texted back if she sent it
So the fact that she didn't, I'm feeling I should just re-engage her tomorrow with a completely new theme.
I'm thinking I should really focus on the minimalist style, keeping my texts as short as possible. There's this recurring theme where, no matter how much a girl was into me when we were together, once it gets over text..... it's like my texting calibration is off. like I tried using your hilarious line, but maybe it just didn't fit into the overarching vibe of the whole interaction as well as it did in the context you used it in
I would compare my interaction with this chick more towards the scale of your 'Dark Nimbus' post, than to a very playful and humorous interaction...
So I'm thinking, I need to tone it down with the ridiculous over the top "win big or go home" type texts, and simplify it a lot more, like as simple as I can possibly make it while still keeping a playful/accusatory vibe going
I'm curious what Patrick Bateman and Pottedflowers think. I tried changing the title of the post so they'd come in here
Nah man, I want to know what they think in general.
In general, is it a better idea to start on a different topic if you dont get a response? And to take the path of least resistance so to speak. It could be argued that by continuing along the same topic you keep a stronger frame, and then she'll feel dumb for not having responded in the first place
I think it's obviously a case by case basis, but it would be interesting to hear different viewpoints