Field report: making the AMOG want to bang you and gaming everyone

Haha!! Fucking awesome

Was she the most attractive girl at the party? 

'a couple of girs ask you to get food' meaning you left with a group of girls?

From what I saw yes

Yah

Yah the final pull is the obstacle. I meet them, move them, get numbers, everything goes great. My cold approach is actually getting good now. Bitches were doing cart wheels on the lawn last night cuz we told them too lol. 

I've always been like "my dorm shots" but this school is sorta anti-drug to a degree. I'm sure weed would work, but pretty much everyone is done drinking around 1 am. Gonna start just talking food and try to get pizza and sushi in the center of campus. I'm sure this isn't as big of as issue as I am making it.

I need to find another dude that is willing to wing. I actually enjoy going out without a wing the most and I just chill with the girls from my floor and whoever is out already. Normally though, its me and my buddy. Its kinda an odd dynamic in bigger groups of girls, and when there is just one girl someone is left awkwardly standing or we are both gaming her and that just is overwhelming for her and confusing for the both of us.

All excuses. Lame shitty ones too.

You've got these girls back at your spot already? Or you out at a house party. They were doing cartwheels because "we" told them to? Sounds like you can't do anything without help. Faggot 

house party

nah everything is all good with me.  I shouldn't have shared any of that, things will work out one way or another.

No you're supposed to share so I can point things out. You need to be running shit not just a part of the crowd, no matter how funny you think you're being. If you're not at the cause of events you will NOT be getting laid. Look it's all good if your boys have girls over and you're just running around being the idiot single guy, I get it. But if you ARE trying to make moves you got to start running shit. Going with the flow is fine only as long as (a) girl(s) you're interested in are involved logistically. 

Some people it seems after all this time just want to be "part of the cool crowd". I got over that a decade ago. You want to make your own kool kids klub everywhere you go.. not try to be "cool enough" to join the existent one. 

Maybe I'm overshooting, but it needed to be said nonetheless. 

Your interpreting it wrong everything is all good. Trust me.

Totally get what your saying but that has not been me at all. I roll with my one buddy that I've been friends with  for years, and we go out and strictly game and i'm doing 90 percent of the approaches. If not, its me and like 5 girls from my floor going out. I don't have dudes around me that I'm trying to feed off of. I say my hello's and I do my own thing.

Cool. 

Good point. The whole purpose of pickup is to improve social skills. So of course you should be gaming everyone but, you still have socially uncalibrated retards out there that only talk to girls they're interested in and ignore everyone else.

Are you seeding the pull? Using sexual disqualifiers?

'Too bad I don't know you better or I'd show you my stamp collection'

You can plant these seeds early on and make it easier to pull at the end of the night. Give her plausible deniability with any lame excuse. The real value is the D. She'll also sometimes offer up her logistics when she objects to the idea.

If not, then just ask the usual logistics questions:

Who are you here with? (and how do you know each other?)

What are you doing later tonight/tomorrow?

If logistics are fucked then take her number and call or text later that night after she leaves and splits off from her friends. You can even mention you'll do this by whispering it to her.

^ Yeah this is excellent obviously. Funny enough you can talk about this sort of thing in a forum post (which I've done for years) but typically it's not till you train a guy how to do it that he's able to actually pull it off. Hence why we drill on every part of it especially the fundamentals leading up to it. 

Good shit. 

I do those things, obviously not well enough but I do understand that

I almost always find out what dorm their in and who they are there with. Like I said earlier often times I'm just like lets go to my dorm n take some shots and this is too lazy and generic I guess. This works earlier in the night for the pre-game, but as it gets later girls just start leaving the parties randomly and i'm like fuck where did she go! Maybe I'm not keeping my eye on them enough. Maybe I'm drinking too much, who knows.

I send texts and snap chats later in the night, most of the time everyone is back in bed, maybe I'm sending them too late as well?. The freshman dorms are quiet so people aren't raging here when they get back. I need to switch the approach and keep it light, maybe just like come and watch a movie kinda shit. It's not like I walk around and see every other freshman dude pulling left and right lol, I do well socially and I mean that. 

Recently, I'll just walk the halls when I get back with my buddy or girls from my floor. We will fuck with the furniture and shit and have a great time and maybe this is something I can seed into an adventure and just recruit ladies. Me and my buddy got invited into a dorm this weekend by just doing this, and the hotties boyfriend was sleeping on her bed which was weird as fuck. I will definitely do this more often because there were a lot of people still up it was just surpising to see that nobody was still in party mode. This was at like 2 am.

My friend made a good point the other night about the late night texts and snapchats. I tend to not personalize them enough, and girls might percieve them as If I 1. wasn't looking for a response   2. sent the same message to a bunch of people. Like I said its always been some sort of lets continue drinking thing!

I probably need more of callback humor type shit that actually qualifiies the girl enough to know that I specifically want to see her.

Something will stick. I did not do this at all 1st semester, I had my crew I went out with and got too comfortable. I think I'm doing a lot of thiings right just haven't had enough refrence experiences.

Well the other thing is... were they expecting your text?

You need to be setting up some Future Projection so they know why you are texting them. Make plans with them before they have a chance to leave the party.

Same thing I told you with online game actually. You need to get these chicks invested in the actual meetup before you even get the number.

'You seem cool. Let's go vandalize a dorm.' Make her invest in the idea and agree to a specific time and place. Then number close.

oh good point, was not doing anything like that. Past few weeks I number close or get their snapchat 95% of the time but its more along the lines of lets hangout sometime, not lets hangout TONIGHT

Thanks for the info again Kim

I do all of these things I understand this shit its a matter of me taking action. I had spurts of success first semester had two girls got complacent. It won't happen again.

I am gaming like CRAZY lately. 

Side note, I've had plenty of ladies over for the pre-game. They either drink the booze and bounce or we lose each other at the party. 

Not sure how this fits into it all, but nothing is exclusive here. Any party is pretty much open to anyone, and everyone knows whats going down, so its not really like my "my buddy is having a party at blah blah blah and if you roll with me I can get you guys in."

Parties are always at senior suites with a massive backyard so people are going in and out of apartments and crowding the lawn. From time to time there is a house off campus, but even these parties let pretty much anyone in. Off campus is ghetto so girls do not walk alone, which seems like an advantage for leaving with them.

Bar is pretty big on thursdays and I have a car this semester so that should be kewl, never went last semester because of school work but imma work it out because this is important too.

pregame is usually 8-10:30 (9:30-10:30 for all the fags) and parties run from 10:30-1ishh then most people go eat and head home.

Those are the logistics if anyone has anything to say about that

Dude. I thought you were KILLING it. You should be banging a girl from every house party you go to. 

yep I know