Flipping the Script on Negativity and Baiting for Sexual Compliance
A student and I had an interesting discussion today about negativity and bad behavior from women. He's basically "come into his own" recently and his regular buddies are telling him they're shocked he's coming across like a bad ass now plus has started pulling girls somewhat regularly (still working on his escalation though lol).
But there are still some inconsistencies we're having to iron out. He's telling me how he's stopping girls in their tracks with his death stare and demeanor when they act bitchy or do something shitty. Apparently one threw a drink at somebody (maybe him?) and another one pushed his friend recently. And he's getting them to start apologizing and become very supplicative. But that is pretty much it.. what he'd been doing so far was to let this draw out for a bit without saying much at all, then he either walks away or.. shakes their hand before walking off. Now obviously to me this is not AT ALL a satisfactory enough conclusion ;)
What I went into with him was how to turn this supplication into sexual compliance. And I told him a personal story about how I was going to meet up this girl, hadn't seen her for years had never hooked up with her, and how she had ended up pulling off a bunch of bullshit right before we were supposed to meet up. So I told her to fuck off. She got upset and asked me why, so I told her the reason why..
HUGE tip, when you can tell a girl that she fucked up then tell her WHY she fucked up, or how.. they get SUPER hot and bothered. 98% of guys simply do not know how to do it. But when a girl's being taught an actual genuine lesson by a dude she needs his cock at that point, she'll find a way no questions asked.
.. so at this point she apologizes profusely, and tells me she still wants me to come, etc. I tell her the only way I'm coming up now is if when I get there the first thing she does is get in the car and suck my cock. I was pissed and righteously indignant and this strongly carried through in my texting and overall vibe communicating with her.
She's shocked at first but agrees ;). So I show up, text her I'm there, she comes out and gets in the car. She's looking good.. I talk to her for about two minutes, we don't touch each other at all, then I pull out my cock and she looks at it. She goes "Really?" I'm like.. uhh, yeah. After a bit of hesitation she eases over in her seat, leans down and sucks my cock. Her eyes get REALLY big this was definitely a new experience for her lol
So I did some drills and exercises with my student on how to properly use tonality and vocal projection to convey enough emotional intensity to compel compliance from women, and then how to turn this sexual. 95% of guys are way too timid and subdued around women to be able to make constructive use of bad behavior, and the ones that attempt it usually end up sounding angry and butthurt. It's definitely an advanced skill set to learn.
By the way, before training this student I'm talking about was what I would describe as a "silly nerdy asian guy". This guy had NO preconceived social narrative for his successes- he learned how to speak with authority and project . He's not my only Asian student KILLING it either. Any sort of "social identity" can be tweaked and adapted to become charismatic and pimp.
ALL of you guys can learn to take a girl's bad behavior and leverage it into compliance of some kind, though sexual compliance is preferred ;). And all you poor beta bastards out there, this is the way real life works. Unless you want to end up a broken man in a marriage with a woman that easily tools you and emotionally manipulates you, you MUST learn this stuff. Plus girls LOVE it, they eat it up. Literally ;)
Text convo from a few nights ago:
me: I need a massage
her: me too
her: might be able to hook ya up with a rub down later... No word from my friends
her: nope :( my friends just showed up
me: they can go fuck themselves, tell them you're coming over tonight to massage me
her: hahahaha well now that wouldn't be very polite. Although I do miss your bed
me: fuck. Polite. They can come watch
her: if we charged admission we could probably make a good profit :)
me: they could watch you suck my cock too, we could charge them triple
her: can't possibly do that (my visiting guy friend) is still here for a few days, don't need to get him that excited
her: I'll suck it twice next time... No audience
me: and the massage
me: how's the bar?
her: massage and one bj. Kinda quiet but a few regulars
me: that's it?
me: 2 bjs
her: 2 bjs and a massage? That's a tall order my friend
me: or its 3
her: and what do I get???!
me: a spanking ;)
her: better be a good one
her: will you take that in instalments?
me: there might be interest, we'll talk about it
her: you better watch it mister!
That's more a friendly flirty exchange not what I'm referring to but that's fun.
her: and what do I get???!
me: a spanking ;)
her: better be a good one
Weak sauce lol.
Anyone else have any examples of this?
Wow thats enlightening! I never turned it into anything sexual but once me and some guy were kinda drunk and started saying some dumb shit, all the guys were laughing but this one chick got hella pissed off and told a guy to beat me up, but of course he didn't. Then she started to say some racist shit since im a minority lol. I had a rant about how she is close minded or something and then ignored her. I went to some cafe nearby and as im grabbing my food the girl walks up to me without all her friends and start flirting with me LOL. I dont really remember what i said but i already had 2 girls waiting for me and my friend at some table so i left her after a while.
Yeah what do you make of that? That's what I'm talking about exactly, except somehow girls think they can do something so ill-mannered and low class, and then flirt with the guy afterwards because he defended himself and slapped away her bullshit. Uggh girls are fucking dumb
I basically grew up in the bar/nightclub business so my eyes were actually opened to this at an early age. Wether it be the girls you work with, or the way some female customers will act like they fucking own the place because they've graced your establishment with their presence. Anyway, years back me and some of my industry friends went bar hopping in our costumes for Haloween. The last bar we went to before heading to a big party at a club was a bar where I the owners well and went to often. We went to the back of the bar which was a quasi VIP area and they had a couple new cuties behind the bar back there who I had never met. They were rude and giving us terrible service for most of our time there. One of my friends ended up asking one of the girls if she could get off her fucking phone and get us a round of drinks. The girl marched around the bar and started pointing at us for security to kick us out. I stepped in immediately, looked her in the eye and told her that wasn't going to happen. She threatened to personally go get the bar owner to come and throw me out. I said you can do that and then I'll explain to my friend that you had been a terrible host to us all night. She took that as a challenge at first but I stuck to it and repeated to her that it wasn't worth our time. I ended up telling her to get back behind the bar and apologize to us by buying a round of shots. That's when she started smiling at me and apologizing for being such a bitch. I ended up getting her number and demanding a kiss as an apology before I left (felt pretty boss kissing the queen while she was at work). A couple weeks later her and the other girl behind the bar were in my friend's hot tub with me and my friend (guy who told her to get off the phone).
I can't recall a particular story right now but I do this all the time. When a girl is saying something stupid/incredibly bitchy I literally just say "Stop it." Andthg immediately plow over it and "so anyway..." Lol. It works ALL THE TIME.
Now that's what I'm talking about. Pretty sure this is the stuff our grandfathers forgot to mention/teach their sons. Derp
This is amazing. Going to go ahead and screen shot this and read it until I fucking memorize how to not let girls be rude and negative like that towards me for no reason.
Met this girl through a friend. We went out and came back to my buddy's place, me her and a good friend. We're on the couch and I say something gay, like how good of a kisser are you and she's like "Uh we're already kissing" lol me being a retard trying to use some PUA line at the wrong time.
Anyways she gets up tells me she's going to the bathroom but in a way where I got that she's probably not. I wait a little and she hasn't returned. My guess is she's going to sleep at my friend's bed, probably will give him blue balls, make out but not put out and try to get both of us to compete for her, deny us and try to get greater and greater compliance from us. I had gotten the power games vibe from her. I realize I'm not going to be waiting around for her to maybe come back and get things back on my terms. I grab a cigarette out of her pack, a beer and leave a note "Hey (girl's name) it's ___am, (like 3 mins after she had left) smoking a cig outside with a beer. Heading out if you're not back by then, come see me." or something like that.
Next day I get a bunch of texts from her. I get the story from my friend..yes she went to his bed, yes they made out, yes she gave him blue balls. I had called it, she was trying to use her pussy to have power over both of us and also have us compete against each other. Awww hell naw.
Next morning text
Her: I'm so sorry for last night sorry for being a bitch.
Me: It's cool, I have an idea on how you can make it up to me
Her: How? :)
Me: I'm thinking a back massage and a blowjob
Her: Uh. Ok..(get the sense she's trying to make me feel retarded and cave)
Her: lol silly at the same time?
Me: No, back massage first and finish it off with a blowjob
Her: Some response to make me want to cave
Her: (later at night) hey I'm in (town) crashing at my friend's place. Let's do that on ___ (her birthday)
My buddy and I went to her place soon after for her birthday. We went out, she gave me a lot of hot/cold moodswing shit tests, I remained unphased. Eventually I told her she was just acting like a crazy eratic bitch and it wasn't worth my time. She jumped me. Same buddy and I go back to her place with her and her friend. I pull out my girls tits in front of everyone and start sucking on them to get the party start. Go back to her room. I'm going down on her, she tells me to fuck her I tell her to wait. She takes this as a rejection, slaps me in the face. I secretly get turned one because I think wow what a fucking crazy bitch barely knows me and she has the balls to do this. I don't want to reward her so I'll act like I'm about to leave, make her beg and then fuck the shit out of her.
That all happens, she begs me to stay, starts blowing me and I start pounding the shit out of that tight little pussy. The sound of my balls slamming up against her pussy is loud and audible to everyone in the house, my friend is in the living room next room over (separated only by beads) fucking his girl and bursts out laughing.
Buddy: Bahahaa...Hey (my name)...uh..sounds like uh...you're having a lot of fun over there
Me: .....I'm making mashed potatoes
Everyone bursts out laughing.
That was beautiful.
Good stuff mang. How old is she? Younger than 20 I imagine
Probably 22 or 23 at the time this happened. What about her behavior made you think she was on the younger spectrum?
bumping this great topic
Also, is there a good way to call out a girl on not being available to meetup, but happy to text any other time. I mean it is mostly because I don't have enough value for them I guess, but some don't stop texting, so there must be something, I don't think that they are just that polite.
If so, would you do it on girls you haven't met IRL yet? So far it did not work for me, so I rather avoid these, as I can tend to logical, argumentative and it isn't what is need for getting laid.
We've actually covered this quite extensively ;)
But in your case it's because of the mistake you were making over and over again. No shit a girl would be resistant to meeting up lol