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I came up with an exercise for sexual dominance

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I've had some eye-opening experiences from this and I'd like to invite you guys to try it:

Next time you fuck a girl, forget about her pleasure and focus solely on taking your own pleasure from the experience. 

I obviously have to add that you need to be aware enough about her to make sure you're not hurting her and that she's comfortable with what's going on. But beyond that, try not giving a fuck about her enjoyment at all. Make it all about you.

I'll be really interested to hear some of your thoughts and experiences and also sharing some of mine

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Yeah, I can say this makes

Yeah, I can say this makes for some very good times. I was fucking this girl in the shower doggystyle and grabbed her by the hair, yanked her to the side and bent her over the side of the tub. It's something I've always wanted to do. Shower curtain got pulled down, water spraying all over the bathroom. I just kept pounding her against the side of the tub, while pulling her hair. Not giving a fuck. Later she was like, "Oh my GOD. I've never been fucked like THAT before!"

YESSS. *fistpump*

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That's actually part of the

That's actually part of the training program dude. That's specifically from it. 

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Manwhore wrote: That's

Manwhore wrote:
That's actually part of the training program dude. That's specifically from it. 

 

Haha yah we went over this BIG time for the very first session I ever did with MW. It helped massively 

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Ha yeah I don't really care

Ha yeah I don't really care about the chick when im fucking her.

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Ok I posted this without

Ok I posted this without realizing that it was part of MW training. I straightened it out with him and he's decided to allow it to stay up. I recommend trying it and posting thoughts/experiences. I had a powerful epifany over this

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Keyser wrote: Ha yeah I don't

Keyser wrote:
Ha yeah I don't really care about the chick when im fucking her.

yeah some guys are naturally that way. I wouldn't necessarily say that its the best approach to sex either however, but its good that you're not attached to any need to satisfy her 

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Oh yeah I didn't want this

Oh yeah I didn't want this taken down or anything I was just amazed that Jack had come up with it in pinpoint accuracy. But that's what I've come to expect from Jack.Ruby ;) I'm actually going to incorporate this into a larger YouTube vid I'm doing on erectile disfunction. Wait did I already say that? 

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C'mon... Anyone else wanna

C'mon... Anyone else wanna share some stories?

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A few years back, one of my

A few years back, one of my good friends from highschool was looking for someone to come live with him (and I was looking for a place to stay) because he had broken up with his fiance. I absolutely HATED this girl. The bitch just wouldn't move out of the apartment. She had her own seperate room and bed but she was obviously fucking some other guy because she was gone at night. So I was like, "fuck it dude, I'm just gonna take it over and force her out." I called my FB, told her what was up, she came over and we fucked our brains out on the ex-fiance's bed. I was pushing her face into the pillows and shit. She's screaming her brains out. My friend is in the other room like, "WTF have I done?!" This girl was really sexy, she was a lifeguard, nice body, D-cups, and I just BLASTED into my condom. I pulled that thing off and tossed it away randomly. I didn't even know where it went.

Next day I show up with my stuff all ready to move in and the ex-fiance is there. She comes up to me with her panties all in a twist and says, "I found your condom in my laundry. You're disgusting."

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There's this Swedish girl

There's this Swedish girl i've been banging for several months, almost every day.

I remember one evening when I must have busted at least 5 times because I would get hard again within like 2minutes of cumming.

It had her saying something along the lines of "WOW i'm sore, you're ready already?? you're quick!" then banged away anyways. We woke up to a mountain of napkins laying on the edge of my bed lol :P

She stll talks about it till this day

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A bit of a perpendicular side

A bit of a perpendicular side tangent I'm about to bring up - but yeah I love Manwhore's advice because at the end of the day, I'm really starting to think that women were only put on earth to please men.  Probably not true, but true. Take it as you may. So in short, you sticking your dick in her, is gonna please her regardless, so you might as well just focus on what you like. 

LOL @ ED - that shit is real ;)

So what about going limp after fuckin a chick you've already blown a load in.  I call this the "boner litmus test of attraction". And I practice safe sex, so I'm talking about with condoms.

I have a girl sleeping over right now, and on the 2nd round I got fuckin flaccid inside her. This is the 2nd time it's happened w/this girl. Cute girl but not my type. 

I was trying not to come after fuckin blowing my load in the 1st 5 minutes, but that just ended up having my dick going limp. Either I'm not getting enough veggies or am I a full fag now?  

I do have this theory though about the boner litmus test of attraction. If you fuck a girl and on the 2nd round (after you've busted a nut) - you eventually go limp, she's not for you. Time to find something else. Or maybe I'm gettin old ;)

How about you other players - similar experiences with this "boner litmus test of attraction"?

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Oh yeah I didn't want this taken down or anything I was just amazed that Jack had come up with it in pinpoint accuracy. But that's what I've come to expect from Jack.Ruby ;) I'm actually going to incorporate this into a larger YouTube vid I'm doing on erectile disfunction. Wait did I already say that? 

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Girls are put here to please

Girls are put here to please men (Frame for a guy)

Men are put here to take us (Frame for a girl)

Proper frames proper life 

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I probably had the best sex

I probably had the best sex of my life last night dabbling with this stuff, fucking my girlfriend has gotten way better since I've started coming from a beginner's mindset - like this is the first and last time I'll ever explore her body, and I'm goign to try everything to make us have a crazy experience.

If any of you guys haven't heard of the morning prayer, it's a sex position encouraged by Taoism where you and your girl link legs and arms in the missionary position, and hold her in as close as possible while kissing and moving just enough to maintain an erection. I'd been fucking her pretty hard in the shower and made her come with my fingers, then pulled her into my room and started doing what I described above, only a lot faster and with deeper strokes. It felt like a huge ball of energy building at the base of my spine, accompanied by the urge to thrust harder (which is stopped by the position). 

5 minutes into this and she was going WILD - she says she's only had two 'proper' orgasms in her life, despite having a lot of sex, but there was about 3 times she came so hard my dick was almost pushed out of her. I started giving it everything because I wanted to cum, and she starts crying and screaming, like full emotional release. I just pull her and kiss her harder. The crazy thing about the intimacy of this position is that I was finely attuned to her every emotion, as she started to cry I felt the same emotion super strongly within me. I don't think I've ever felt such a quick succession of powerful emotions. Afterwards I couldn't get her to talk for at least 10 minutes lol.

Taoists claim that unhappiness could be ended with this position so get using it haha

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beargrizz wrote: Girls are

beargrizz wrote:
Girls are put here to please men (Frame for a guy)

Men are put here to take us (Frame for a girl)

Proper frames proper life 

ok these are good comments, I think a slightly better frame here might be

girls are put here to inspire men

Several months ago I read something that really drove home the idea that women are hard wired to respond to sexual dominance. As in, it's not a choice for them. When a man is so overwhelmed by his own lust and desire for a woman and he just ravishes her, takes her purely from his own passion just to have her; sexual excitement happens automatically, even unwillingly. I realized that on some level, I had always been attached just a little bit to the idea that she has to come first, that I sort of needed to make her come. Call it manners, I guess. What I now realize is that by carrying that idea around, I was actually unconsciously putting pressure on the girl to come, as well as taking away energy from my own desire. When I let go of that and just focused on taking my pleasure from it, it took all energy out of pressure on the girl and focused it all on my own passion and arousal, which is what fuels her passion and arousal. The result is biologically she feels my deep passion and arousal but without any pressure whatsoever. I felt really guilty at first letting go of this, like I was ashamed that I didn't care about her. I now realize that its not that I don't care, I do. The girl inspires me and I love seeing her go crazy on my cock, I just don't need to. And she doesn't feel that I need her to. She just feels completely free of expectation and judgement and can fully lose herself in her true feminine sexuality.

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Katalyst wrote: A bit of a

Katalyst wrote:
A bit of a perpendicular side tangent I'm about to bring up - but yeah I love Manwhore's advice because at the end of the day, I'm really starting to think that women were only put on earth to please men.  Probably not true, but true. Take it as you may. So in short, you sticking your dick in her, is gonna please her regardless, so you might as well just focus on what you like. 

LOL @ ED - that shit is real ;)

So what about going limp after fuckin a chick you've already blown a load in.  I call this the "boner litmus test of attraction". And I practice safe sex, so I'm talking about with condoms.

I have a girl sleeping over right now, and on the 2nd round I got fuckin flaccid inside her. This is the 2nd time it's happened w/this girl. Cute girl but not my type. 

I was trying not to come after fuckin blowing my load in the 1st 5 minutes, but that just ended up having my dick going limp. Either I'm not getting enough veggies or am I a full fag now?  

I do have this theory though about the boner litmus test of attraction. If you fuck a girl and on the 2nd round (after you've busted a nut) - you eventually go limp, she's not for you. Time to find something else. Or maybe I'm gettin old ;)

How about you other players - similar experiences with this "boner litmus test of attraction"?

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Oh yeah I didn't want this taken down or anything I was just amazed that Jack had come up with it in pinpoint accuracy. But that's what I've come to expect from Jack.Ruby ;) I'm actually going to incorporate this into a larger YouTube vid I'm doing on erectile disfunction. Wait did I already say that? 

lol@litmus test. So true haha

you're obviously not a fag lol. It could be an isolated incident and it could be chemistry too. If its a concern: good diet, exercise, not smoking or drinking are where to start. Also I recommend maca powder

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...Jack the Dick Doctor lol

...Jack the Dick Doctor lol ;)

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Call me Dr. Golden Johnson,

Call me Dr. Golden Johnson, L.D.