The most fucking annoying shit test that is becoming far too common
Sat, 05/18/2013 - 16:42
I can't stand when these chicks randomly say "bye!!!" , in effort to get guys to shut up or actually leave. It's weak as shit, and has become a go-to phrase for every girl in my school. I shoot out a text and i get a "bye (name)", usually I ignore it and things begin to get on track. I just feel like it's at the point where I need to actually blow up on someone, because that's so fucking rude.
Where do you draw the line between ignoring a shit test, and actually confronting it?
Where do you draw the line between ignoring a shit test, and actually confronting it?
Sat, 05/18/2013 - 17:05
#1
Lets ignore for a moment that
Lets ignore for a moment that "blowing up" via text is a fucking joke--unless she's emotionally invested its the equivalent of you trying to piss at her in the wind and ending up with your socks wet.
"change her mood not her mind" still applies. But even before any of that if you're bringing enough value then she won't pull this shit in the first place.
If you're aware of your own value and out of your head, then "shit tests" only register after you've already "passed" them. Every such "test" is context-dependent but they are also all the same. she's testing your own self-perception. if your self-perception/self-image/self-esteem/self-confidence is right, then you will respond from a place of strength and pass them every time.
something that may blow your mind is that if you "open" strong enough--i get that highschool is different because you've known these chicklets forever, but still they are girls with biological buttons--you won't get any shit tests. if they can feel your value coming through in your voice, body language, and the way you touch them they'll be "cooked and hooked" in 10 seconds no joke.
even if you "fuck up" later and she tests you, its simply a matter of projecting your emotions onto her and taking the frame back.
one of the best things i learned from manwhore's coaching was "happy dominance." when you come from a place of strength and authenticity and fun all but the strongest minds will buckle and fall in step with you. girls do not have strong minds. they are designed to be lead by a powerful man. be that man.
your power as a man comes from self-mastery, and the heart of self-mastery is emotional control.
would a powerful man who is in full control of his emotions ever blow up over some shit a silly girl sent to him in a text?
read this now: clicky click click
"change her mood not her mind" still applies. But even before any of that if you're bringing enough value then she won't pull this shit in the first place.
If you're aware of your own value and out of your head, then "shit tests" only register after you've already "passed" them. Every such "test" is context-dependent but they are also all the same. she's testing your own self-perception. if your self-perception/self-image/self-esteem/self-confidence is right, then you will respond from a place of strength and pass them every time.
something that may blow your mind is that if you "open" strong enough--i get that highschool is different because you've known these chicklets forever, but still they are girls with biological buttons--you won't get any shit tests. if they can feel your value coming through in your voice, body language, and the way you touch them they'll be "cooked and hooked" in 10 seconds no joke.
even if you "fuck up" later and she tests you, its simply a matter of projecting your emotions onto her and taking the frame back.
one of the best things i learned from manwhore's coaching was "happy dominance." when you come from a place of strength and authenticity and fun all but the strongest minds will buckle and fall in step with you. girls do not have strong minds. they are designed to be lead by a powerful man. be that man.
your power as a man comes from self-mastery, and the heart of self-mastery is emotional control.
would a powerful man who is in full control of his emotions ever blow up over some shit a silly girl sent to him in a text?
read this now: clicky click click
Sun, 05/19/2013 - 02:34
#2
Awesome stuff man! Thank you!
Awesome stuff man! Thank you!