Is this woman just an attention whore?
There is this cute woman who I met from POF. She's European, very classy. She is constantly on POF like 8 hours a day. She says shes only been on POF for a few weeks and already went on a few dates but didn't like the guys.
The 1st date went well but she would only give a kiss on the cheek at the end. Before the date was over she said that I should go to her town next (she came to my town for the 1st date). She told me to text her sometime.
The next morning she texts something generic like "Have a great day" to which I responded you too.
Since then I sent a few texts such as "brrr its cold outside...what's that you want to bring me hot cocoa? How nice of you!"
She never responded.
I'm wondering if she just looking for attention or am I not using the right approach?
Idk hard to say but your follow up texts were pretty weak.
If a girl texts me something like "Have a great day" I would just completely ignore that and use some callback humor about your date. "You too" is about as gay as it gets...
Read your last text. If someone showed me this text conversation and put a gun to my head, I would think she sent that one.
Thanks G-money. Here is some follow up convo. Sometimes she replies quicky and sometimes she does not respond at all, like after the last text below:
Her: Hey how r you? 1:35 PM
Me: Getting more awesome each day 1:37 PM
Her: Surviving the snowpocalipse:)) 1:45 PM
Me: Snowpocalipse? Is there where snowmen turn into zombies and attack? 1:49 PM
Her: Lol some men are zombies as they are!!! 1:50 PM
Me: We must hide in the FEMA camps...I'll start packing... 1:56 PM
Her: Sign me up!! 1:57 PM
Me: Okay you bring the food, I'll bring the weapons 1:58 PM
Her: Bring strawberries and chocolates we'll make it romantic :)))) 2:16 PM
Me: mmm and whipped cream 2:18 PM
Me: Speaking of romantic, when are you cooking me a romantic dinner?
This is when I get the feeling that they're bored and you're entertaining them, but that's all they're interested in, an amusing diversion.
This is when I get the feeling that they're bored and you're entertaining them, but that's all they're interested in, an amusing diversion.
true that. A week ago I might not have seen it that way. I'd say reel in the romance until you get the meet
There's nothing wrong with not texting back for a while either. You're at her beck and call so when she doesn't text back you run to the forum.
just chill out and take your time. When she sent that chocolates text I would have responded with something like "Perfect, you bring the wine and you got a deal. Thursday or Friday. What's best for you"
G-money - thanks for the tip. How long do you wait to reply, several hours, severaly days?
It just depends. You wanna switch it up. If she's highly investing you can start rapid fire texting. I usually wait a while to respond because I'm busy at school, at the gym, etc. you need to portray that you have a life or even better, HAVE A LIFE.