You guys who have done the Skype coaching with manwhore, what're your experiences with the drills when you're talking to a girl?

Very appropriate username

The aversion to implementing the drills is understandable. But let go of outcome and trust in the process. It took awhile for me to let go and then when I finally did BOOM! I'm actually thinking about adding a 3rd month of lessons to learn some new things.

Sometimes in life you have to take a step back to take two steps forward. Whether it's taking a pay cut to change careers or sacrificing time to learn a new skill set, you got to be willing to take a step back to take 2 steps forward.

What are the fees mang! I'm thinking of signing up next moth!

Make that your sole focus for a few nights.

You'll naturally get them and start using them when appropriate.

My favorite is accusing girls of shit. Manwhore describes a very specific way of doing it which is golden and every time i do it the girl usually has a beaming smile on her face and it sets the perfect frame too. Thumb wars is great too, havne't done that in a while but gonna do it next time I'm out.

This post is a good reminder for me to look at the drills again and make sure I"m doing them right.

I've found that when you don't have the balls to do things, it's an issue with your self-confidence. You don't feel that you're good enough for these girls. You can look in the mirror all day long and practice routine after routine, but like you're saying, it feels forced and that's because you feel like you're trying to get something that you're not entitled to (putting the pussy on the pedestal). You don't feel equal to the girl, instead you feel you're less than her.

When I took the manwhore coaching, I didn't take it to get good with girls. We all know all we'll ever need to actually pull and get a girlfriend. I took it because I knew that I had issues with controlling my emotions and getting my shit together. So with the coaching, manwhore taught me a whole lot about how to get control over feelings, how to cut ties with whom you're emotionally connected to, how to stop letting thoughts overcome your head etc. etc. For me, this is exactly what I needed. And manwhore got me on track fast because by the 3rd week, I was slaying girl after girl after girl and to this day, not a month goes by where I'm not getting laid. And I don't even try to get laid anymore, I go out maybe twice a month.

So if you're doing coaching just to get good with girls, you're already coming in with with the wrong mentality. You're trying to fill a void. If you're completely satisfied with who you are and your direction in life, you will never have a problem getting laid because there will always be girls that see these qualities in you and want to be a part of it. So trying to learn how to get laid when you're not addressing the real problems won't solve anything. You'll continue to feel shitty. You've got to figure out exactly what you think your issue is and if you don't know, you need to describe your current situations in detail to manwhore. Manwhore would have me write these very detailed emails about my current/recent relationship issues and my thoughts and actions and reactions and feelings, etc. etc. and this basically made it simple for manwhore to pinpoint where my real issues were so we can work on them.

I never even did the 4th call. Literally my mind shifted in the way it operated in that 3 week period. Really nothing else to say. If you saw me in the field, you'd probably think I suck. However, I still manage to pull consistently and I'm perfecting happy where I'm at and my direction in life and girls can smell that shit. I get approached quite often and conversations are simple because I have a lot to talk about.

I took only a month of coaching, forked up a portion of my financial aid money, and realized I had to get shit done or else it would be all for nothing.

You need to take action, and realize you would be wasting your money just to hear some theory without putting it to good use.

They may seem forced at first, but they're just "stepping stones" for you to learn. He's not telling you to copy him word for word, but rather follow the structure on what works and implement it into your game. What I did was focus on the drills he gave me for that week and practice them constantly on girls until I felt comfortable to do it unconsciously.

It'll come with time, just take fucking action.

I appreciate your response. I get that I need to do them. I was simply asking for the when and how of implementing them. So right after I approach, then she gives me the silence and the "prove yourself" face and boom! I launch into a drill?

@Jeff
Thanks.

Hmm....

Different ways of going about this but for me- it's like lifting if you're playing a sport

When you play football or basketball- you are told to "lift weights" so that you can be stronger for the game and that it will make you a better player

But it's not like when you get into the game- you're going to be like, "Okay, now I have the ball, so I'm going to preform a deadlift with it"

LMAO!

I get what you're saying. After only 4 days of being serious about doing the drills my verbals are freely flowing, and I've always been a talker. The nature of what I say has become more "present" and less agenda-oriented or judgy.

Ya buddah answered this

Certain of them come out sprinkled in to conversations with a woman. Others I'm constantly looking for and/or creating opportunities to plug them into conversations. Like I've told you before, there's one particular drill that probably makes up a good 70%-80% of my game.

Alright so the purpose of the homework, which you should not be afraid of, is to wire up in your brain a certain status that you hold in society. A status of uncaring

what people think of you, being able to joke around with women and placing them in a position where they are there to serve you. This of course being absurd in real

life it is humorous to beautiful women when you get into conversation with them. THis does not mean you approach women with the mirror drills and start talking

boss daddy drills to them. You just simply practice this at home and the high status attitude will bleed through your body language, through your eye contact, and

into your conversation, which is what ultimately captivates women in the first place. These drills are actually amazing and it does seem weird at first...so does

approching women at first but it becomes a part of you.

So in conclusion, you dont actually implement the drill when talking to a girl high status will just flow out of you, if you practice proplerly. It being forced and

unnatural is normal but this is how you will learn and transform. Thats why we are all on this site...to become better than we were before. To do this it requires

situations that are forced and unnatural. Gotta pay your dues homie.

It's weird seeing you write that as you were one of the best at doing the drills.