Text Game: So I flaked off this cutie and now she's kinda butthurt, how to go from here? (quick response greatly appreciated)
Mon, 06/04/2012 - 02:03
She's a real cutie, a nurse I met out dancing with a great little bod. Solid 8, and not just a seattle 8.
Here's my notes on the first date, manwhore already gave me feedback on my physical escalation:
Tue, day2 with a Nurse. Met her at a bar a week or two ago. She came out looking really gorgeous. Progression of date was:
- My house to pick up random stuff. Had her pick out quarters from my change dish, while I made hot chocolate with booze. Lol
- Record store
- Arcade
It's funny how the dynamic changes when you meet up later. We danced a bit dirty when we met, but the dynamic last night felt totally first date.
She was really attractive but I could tell she was nervous in the record store. She was antsy and said something about needing beer. I bought her one when we got to the arcade. God, it's so bizarre seeing women get nervous—and me not being that nervous.
Went for a kiss in the arcade, she went "...here?" and it was just a quick peck. Kinda awkward, but I steeled myself to just keep pushing out fun, goodness, and relaxed vibes. I kept looking for the anime eyes, but they didn't pop up. This is why I want to communicate more man-to-woman, to get her emotionally amped up to fool around with me.
Walked towards home and then had a longer kiss, although from the way it went down I wanted a little more than she did. Then she got in her car, later sent a text "I just want to say, I had a really awesome time with you." Yay. I think I came off as awesome boyfriend material, which doesn't preclude sex, but it's just something I need to work on.
Texts since then:
2012-05-24 20:42:41 Me: I've redonkulous plans for the weekend, I'm sure you do too. We'll meet up Tues evening and swap adventure stories!
2012-05-24 20:50:42 Her: I'll be spending my weekend pushing drugs and hoping I don't have to do CPR haha not quite as redonkulous as I'd like.
2012-05-24 21:06:40 Me: Still stories to swap. ;) you own a kite?
2012-05-24 21:10:24 Her: No I don't but I love kites
2012-05-27 08:05:07 Her: Full disclosure I'll be ready for a stiff drink Tuesday
2012-05-27 11:15:52 Me: Noted. You bring the booze and I'll bring the kite.
2012-05-29 14:14:30 Me: Hey xxx, I'm ready for a chill, fun (CPR-free) evening. :) I'll see you at 7:30 at 35th and fremont
2012-05-29 15:12:14 Her: Hey I am so sorry Andy and this will sound like a terrible excuse but I've actually got a pretty bad case of food poisoning
Aw shit, she got sick.
2012-05-29 16:05:05 Me: Don't die! we'll meet up when you feel good :)
2012-05-29 16:14:11 Her: Ha only if I make it I literally can barely walk to the bathroom so this is probably it for me . Haha
2012-06-01 09:53:16 Me: Dude are you alive? One of my buddies had a date get food poisoning on tues night as well, lol. Cursed!
2012-06-01 09:54:20 Her: Yeah finally a bit better today didn't make it to work last night though that's for sure
2012-06-01 10:02:15 Me: A breakfast bloody mary helps with that! I hope you at least got to read a shit-ton
2012-06-01 10:03:15 Her: Haha I watched a lot more movies I was kind of too nauseous to do anything but sleep and lay in bed
2012-06-01 10:11:02 Me: When you're sick and watching filthy pornos for distraction, its nice to have something to cuddle with. I got a pet tiger. I hope you have a puppy or kitten
2012-06-01 10:13:40 Her: Haha I was always more into Barbie dolls. I have about twenty pillows so I think im covered
2012-06-01 10:20:03 Me: You don't like cuddling? Do you hate Christmas too?
2012-06-01 10:40:08 Her: I love cuddling but I never had stuffed animals
Going for the date.
2012-06-01 18:42:06 Me: I want to do something with you tomorrow at 2, if you're up to it
2012-06-01 20:35:27 Her: Big surprise?
2012-06-01 21:29:49 Me: Maker fair. It'll be a surprise, even for me
2012-06-01 23:08:09 Her: Maker fair? Hm
2012-06-02 03:21:16 Me: I changed my mind. Being both lazy and a genius, I thought up something easier and better for chilling with you :)
2012-06-02 04:22:35 Her: Is it still a surprise? Why are you awake at 3 am?
2012-06-02 10:43:09 Me: Why do you ask so many questions? Are you always this cute when you're antsy?
2012-06-02 10:45:35 Me: P.s. I'm definitely a night owl too
This was 10:45 in the morning and there was still no response at 1 pm an hour befor we're supposed to meet. I've gotten fucked on presuming we're going to meet when she doesn't confirm, so I canceled about an hour before:
2012-06-02 13:09:45 Me: Hey liz, I made other plans. I'll make it up to ya, xo
2012-06-02 13:30:57 Her: Ha.
2012-06-03 02:28:17 Her: Was kind of bummed you made other plans but I probably needed sleep anyway! Hope they turned out to be everything you dreamed
She sent me that last night at 2 in the morning, clearly a bit butthurt. And I have no idea how to address it. Obviously, don't make a big deal about it and continue being awesome. I was thinking something like:
"Sleep is good. I want you healthy. The park was... very silly today. Drumlines and bands playing oompa music. "
along with a pic of the bands playing
Here's my notes on the first date, manwhore already gave me feedback on my physical escalation:
Tue, day2 with a Nurse. Met her at a bar a week or two ago. She came out looking really gorgeous. Progression of date was:
- My house to pick up random stuff. Had her pick out quarters from my change dish, while I made hot chocolate with booze. Lol
- Record store
- Arcade
It's funny how the dynamic changes when you meet up later. We danced a bit dirty when we met, but the dynamic last night felt totally first date.
She was really attractive but I could tell she was nervous in the record store. She was antsy and said something about needing beer. I bought her one when we got to the arcade. God, it's so bizarre seeing women get nervous—and me not being that nervous.
Went for a kiss in the arcade, she went "...here?" and it was just a quick peck. Kinda awkward, but I steeled myself to just keep pushing out fun, goodness, and relaxed vibes. I kept looking for the anime eyes, but they didn't pop up. This is why I want to communicate more man-to-woman, to get her emotionally amped up to fool around with me.
Walked towards home and then had a longer kiss, although from the way it went down I wanted a little more than she did. Then she got in her car, later sent a text "I just want to say, I had a really awesome time with you." Yay. I think I came off as awesome boyfriend material, which doesn't preclude sex, but it's just something I need to work on.
Texts since then:
2012-05-24 20:42:41 Me: I've redonkulous plans for the weekend, I'm sure you do too. We'll meet up Tues evening and swap adventure stories!
2012-05-24 20:50:42 Her: I'll be spending my weekend pushing drugs and hoping I don't have to do CPR haha not quite as redonkulous as I'd like.
2012-05-24 21:06:40 Me: Still stories to swap. ;) you own a kite?
2012-05-24 21:10:24 Her: No I don't but I love kites
2012-05-27 08:05:07 Her: Full disclosure I'll be ready for a stiff drink Tuesday
2012-05-27 11:15:52 Me: Noted. You bring the booze and I'll bring the kite.
2012-05-29 14:14:30 Me: Hey xxx, I'm ready for a chill, fun (CPR-free) evening. :) I'll see you at 7:30 at 35th and fremont
2012-05-29 15:12:14 Her: Hey I am so sorry Andy and this will sound like a terrible excuse but I've actually got a pretty bad case of food poisoning
Aw shit, she got sick.
2012-05-29 16:05:05 Me: Don't die! we'll meet up when you feel good :)
2012-05-29 16:14:11 Her: Ha only if I make it I literally can barely walk to the bathroom so this is probably it for me . Haha
2012-06-01 09:53:16 Me: Dude are you alive? One of my buddies had a date get food poisoning on tues night as well, lol. Cursed!
2012-06-01 09:54:20 Her: Yeah finally a bit better today didn't make it to work last night though that's for sure
2012-06-01 10:02:15 Me: A breakfast bloody mary helps with that! I hope you at least got to read a shit-ton
2012-06-01 10:03:15 Her: Haha I watched a lot more movies I was kind of too nauseous to do anything but sleep and lay in bed
2012-06-01 10:11:02 Me: When you're sick and watching filthy pornos for distraction, its nice to have something to cuddle with. I got a pet tiger. I hope you have a puppy or kitten
2012-06-01 10:13:40 Her: Haha I was always more into Barbie dolls. I have about twenty pillows so I think im covered
2012-06-01 10:20:03 Me: You don't like cuddling? Do you hate Christmas too?
2012-06-01 10:40:08 Her: I love cuddling but I never had stuffed animals
Going for the date.
2012-06-01 18:42:06 Me: I want to do something with you tomorrow at 2, if you're up to it
2012-06-01 20:35:27 Her: Big surprise?
2012-06-01 21:29:49 Me: Maker fair. It'll be a surprise, even for me
2012-06-01 23:08:09 Her: Maker fair? Hm
2012-06-02 03:21:16 Me: I changed my mind. Being both lazy and a genius, I thought up something easier and better for chilling with you :)
2012-06-02 04:22:35 Her: Is it still a surprise? Why are you awake at 3 am?
2012-06-02 10:43:09 Me: Why do you ask so many questions? Are you always this cute when you're antsy?
2012-06-02 10:45:35 Me: P.s. I'm definitely a night owl too
This was 10:45 in the morning and there was still no response at 1 pm an hour befor we're supposed to meet. I've gotten fucked on presuming we're going to meet when she doesn't confirm, so I canceled about an hour before:
2012-06-02 13:09:45 Me: Hey liz, I made other plans. I'll make it up to ya, xo
2012-06-02 13:30:57 Her: Ha.
2012-06-03 02:28:17 Her: Was kind of bummed you made other plans but I probably needed sleep anyway! Hope they turned out to be everything you dreamed
She sent me that last night at 2 in the morning, clearly a bit butthurt. And I have no idea how to address it. Obviously, don't make a big deal about it and continue being awesome. I was thinking something like:
"Sleep is good. I want you healthy. The park was... very silly today. Drumlines and bands playing oompa music. "
along with a pic of the bands playing
Mon, 06/04/2012 - 02:17
#1
Also, I'm pretty sure I'm
Also, I'm pretty sure I'm going to get resistance when going for another meetup -_-
Mon, 06/04/2012 - 02:35
#2
Well.. you cancelled
Well.. you cancelled because.. she didn't actually say she was down to hang out.
"And you never confirmed so that one's on you toots. I'm absolutely not taking any blame"
"And you never confirmed so that one's on you toots. I'm absolutely not taking any blame"
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