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The Christmas warehouse party started out pretty slow- it might have been a good idea to have gone to another club for the first 2 hours and then come back, as the party was open till 6 in the morning. That being said, within 45 minutes of being there I had 4 girls on lock and was playing them on each other for who would snatch me first. 3 of those 4 were definitely fuckable. They all watched each other being seduced, and as much as society tells them it’s a bad thing, they all were happily pulled into it. Main point is there were obvious differences between what I was choosing to do with my time at the party, and what every other guy there trying to get laid was doing with his time.
Anyways I was at the party with a few other dudes I’d invited who were attempting to mack the girls at the party like I was. Here are some things I observed that they could probably work on:
Too invested in each single interaction:
Which caused some guys to sometimes not go in at all.
Follow-up:
Besides being afraid to get blown out (rejected) as soon as they walked up, I also didn’t see any follow-up. This makes or breaks it. Go in, shoot the shit, display some attractive alpha qualities, leave, COME BACK! Lol
Within half an hour I’d spoken with most of the people there,left without letting anything get stale, stayed when things were interesting, made people laugh, showed my naughty asshole side, left to increase intrigue.. and had come back to do it again. This is called fractionation. It’s an NLP concept that’s very powerful. Every time you go back in, the interaction gets more powerful, hooks stronger with a girl.
Vertical game vs. horizontal:
The event highlighted a very important point. I sensed some guys are used to being able to run low quality game on a bunch of available women that they can “bump” into, rather than focusing on a limited quantity. This gives the “out”; being able to eject and run the same stuff on new girls, without having to progress or escalate on the girls they’ve already interacted with. Play the game to win, yo! That being said, around 12:30 a bunch of girls showed up that blew my mind. And no one was talking to them! Pulling a girl out of the party to fuck was OPTIMAL as girls were there in 2s and 3s and were fucking horny.
BIGGEST STICKING POINT:
Being a dangerous man.
Breaking rapport, being the standard. Dominance to perspective
Taylor and I walked up to the same girl pouring water, a hot 6 foot tall one in a white dress. I was challenging her and generally giving her a hard time, within 30 seconds she was fucking wet in her panties and begging for my attention. He was looking to have rapport and be friendly. GAY. Be in charge of her, not trying to communicate to her that you’re on the same level. You are not there to be “nice”, you are not there to make people comfortable, to be friendly and make them think you’re a nice guy. Fuck that weak shit.
Girls do not fuck guys who are nice. They fuck guys who are dominant. Get this, understand it, internalize it, CHOOSE to communicate this.
Anyways I took one of the girls upstairs into a sectioned off area of the warehouse, set her on her knees and put my cock in her mouth. Did she get on her knees and take my cock because I was “nice”? No.. she did it because I was dominant. A bad ass guy is the only kind of guy she gets to be slutty with. She can’t lower herself to her knees for a guy that’s “on the same level as her”. Think about it..
BREAK RAPPORT. Challenge people in fun ways. Cocky/funny demonstrates that you expect more from people, and expect it from yourself too.
Be a dominant force. Speak with authority on everything. About Christmas trees, where the water fountain is, what kind of blanky you prefer. I tell a story how my mother taught me how to pee standing up. How do you think I sound when I tell it?
Important point: if a girl doesn’t want to fuck you the same night.. why would she want to fuck you later on? If you can’t game her to the win that night.. why would she give you her time later? She’s right in front of you.. face to face. Top sales guys call it “high-value time”.
Let logistics fuck it up for you, don’t fuck yourself.
Some guys feel the urge to be entertaining, to make girls laugh so they “like” them. Bullshit. Girls aren’t attracted to that. Sure you can make them laugh, but don’t be trying to get them to “like” you.
Anyways back to the girl I fucked at the party.. even with her personal cockblock squad.
I first walked into the bathroom with her and another girl all nonchalantly. I think this is the biggest misconceptions guys have about bathroom pulls. It’s much much easier than they think. Just WALK IN with her, lol. Seriously, it’s just normal to walk into a bathroom with girls, it’s funny, shocking, and something that a bad ass dude will just find himself doing. So do it.
Anyways I walk in with her and there’s the usual “shock” she has to project just to protect herself. Then of course I grab her and pin her against a wall and start making out with her and she’s a cooked little turkey.
Then I heard a toilet flush, realized there was someone else in there, and walked out. ‘Cuz I’m a big pussy.
Anyways about 10 minutes later I walk upstairs with her, (I’ve been leading her ALL over the venue, just getting her used to following my lead i.e. taking her to bar, to snack area, to music area etc. so it’s natural when I take her somewhere private), and she sees my buddies up there so she tells me to hang out with them. I tell her no, scoop her up in my arms and walk off with her. I set her on a table about 20 feet away from everyone and kiss her. Grab her, pull her into a little room off the main floor and IMMEDIATELY hike up her skirt and go to town snacking on her little pussy. There’s little exclamations of “shock” on her part but this is her role, she HAS to do this. She needs to make it seem like it’s your fault, not hers.
Then I stand up, take out my cock, put her on her knees and put it in her mouth. Hot. There’s no way I’m going to come so after I’m satisfied I raise her up and play with her body some more. She gets some buyer’s remorse and I can see her state crash as she states “Oh Jon I feel like shit”
Her internal dialogue has kicked in and she’s feeling like a slut. As a dude it’s our job to dispel this and not let her soil herself internally with such nonsense. Anything sexual is our responsibility, our fault. I tell her this, but more importantly I raise her mood by just projecting a good emotional state myself. This is fucking important. This is 75% of getting laid.
Anyways about 45 minutes later I take her into another warehouse area of the party, hike up her skirt and fuck her from behind. Then I lift her up so I can face her and keep doing her. I like having sex with little hotties. Just thought I’d mention that. About an hour later I take her to her car and rail her in her back seat. She tells me I almost break her in half. Then she follows me home (about a 40 min. drive) and I rail her all night and in the morning. Booyah
Interesting thing, I couldn’t tell if her breasts were fake. They weren’t your typical fake breasts, they were only small C’s, but they seemed quite a bit more firm and perky. Whatever, they were delicious.
Manwhore is the dude that inspires me most in this game.
Manwhore
Animal! And I mean that in a good way.
Dominance is the part of the game where so many guys fail, I know you are an inspiration for those guys and a reminder for everyone else too grow a pair of nuts and always bring ‘em along.
Keep doing your thing.
Your point about follow-up hit home. That’s a big thing that I’m not doing. I like the idea of leaving on a high note and then coming back later to reopen. I’m sort of torn between burning sets to the ground on the one hand and ejecting too early and not pushing the interaction beyond my comfort zone on the other. Like some guys eject on a high note so they can feel good about themselves and leave knowing the girls have a positive impression of them. Which actually sounds pretty good, but if you don’t come back then it’s useless. A guy from my lair said that’s a big problem with newbies is that they eject instead of pushing the interaction beyond their comfort zone.
So many sets I’ve opened and left and just never come back. And the vertical/horizontal distinction fits in with that. I tend to run horizontal game until I find a girl where it is on.
Also I’ve wondered about the situation where you open a set, especially earlier in the night, and then do you just to stay there with her and hang in the set? I don’t want to be clingy chode. But coming in and out of the set sounds money and the way you are managing different sets. I need that.
Yep bounce then come back. I even let girls watch me talk to other girls.. it’s kind of a turn-on for them and they DO want to see that other girls are interested in you as well. Reinforces their attraction for you
When you walk in the bathroom with the girl did she say “I have to go to the bathroom” and you followed or did you take her to the bathroom?
Awesome read.
Your dominance shows me that I’m not being as dominant as I could be.
Cheers dude
Ya man dominance is a strange thing you have NO idea how far it can be taken. A lot of the time these days I simply push a girl to her knees and take out my cock. That’s how I close them. its fucking hot