Game is a tool that you develop, in return it develops you
Just listened to the 2nd teleconference, wanted to highlight an absolute Jem one of the guys dropped.
"The way I view that is that you're game is a tool, but it's a tool that only effective if IT'S WHO you ARE.
When you learn game for the first time, it's not THAT effective, maybe you get lucky, but that very tool starts to craft who you are. In your deamanour, your verbals, in how confident you are in your escalation, in your leadership, and how comfortable you are in expressing your sexuality, your charisma.
It shapes that foundation of who you are to where that tool becomes actually effective, and you're actually a creator with that tool."
Brilliant. I over-use this but. Become an amazing man. Become the tool. Assume game. You don't turn it on, you just are.
That's the end game, the tool becomes more and more consistent until you are living, breathing, game in the flesh. A man in his prime.
Develop your game, develop yourself. It should not be a character you play or even something that takes effort. Embody it.
You sexy boi niv
Feel like I cut loose WAY too hard after I already got the girl. Need to keep that game tight, best way to do so is by becoming it.
Then there's no cognitive dissonance or self sabotage when it comes to any relationship, FWB or otherwise because you don't feel like your "game" is what got the girl.
Rather it is you not a tactic you employ.