Lay Report.. “Drama Style” texting results in banging Italian tourist
This is a rather interesting lay as it includes some pretty serious “drama game” action. Not like this “Julien” nonsense where you call a girl a dog and tell her to bark and think that’s “good game” lmao, but where emotions actually run high at some point during the interaction and you have to do some serious state management and frame control (hint: it’s not what you guys think..) to get the girl back on track to getting intimate and kinky with you ;). Usually this happens because the girl gets pissed off or angry at some point, or there are other such bad emotions involved. In this case the girl actually flipped out, was cussing like a sailor at one point and trying to put on a show of “panic”, and left my place in a cab even though I’d already offered her a ride back to the club. The reason? No reason at all, lol, she just went into berserker mode when we were two blocks from my house. Now back in the day both Jeffy and I would have told the guys, “Yo if a girl shows clear “crazy” signals.. you run, boy!” But these days it’s simply par for the course and only makes …
How To Conquer All Negative Emotions And Be Completely Congruent
Emotional states can range anywhere from boundless inner joy to seemingly endless depression or angst. And then there’s all those little states in-between; impatience, boredom, excitement, satisfaction, sorrow, nostalgia, pleasure, heartbreak etc. The more aware I’ve become, the more I’ve noticed how many states I move through in just one day, let alone a week. It’s important for us masculine driven guys to not let these states distract us from our ultimate purpose and mission, even if the mission is as simple as grocery shopping.
We’re conditioned to judge ourselves when we have negative emotions, whether it’s anger, frustration, depression, fear, sadness, etc. Men are especially considered “unmanly” when experiencing certain emotions. Many people have fanciful views of Enlightenment as the end of all negative states, and New Age philosophy backs this notion with the idea of staying positive all the time. First off, it’s unnatural not to have a range of emotions, second, this mentality promotes self-judgment and self-delusion. I’ve seen countless people deny their true feelings and intentions even to themselves, in the attempt to stay “positive” or seem “above it all”. Denying present emotion is no better than blaming others for your emotional state.
There’s pleasant and unpleasant feelings. …
Practical Presence for Players Part 1
The Purpose of Practical Presence for Players
“Positive” thoughts in the mind create positive emotions in the body, and positive emotions in the body give rise to positive thoughts in the mind. Naturally, positive thoughts in the mind and emotions in the body create “positive” behaviors. Positive behaviors propel you forward in life with a purpose. They enable you to successfully reach your goals through overcoming challenges and hurdles.
But this isn’t going to be an article about the commonly-held notion of positive thinking. I am going to lay out a process by which you can take control of your thoughts and emotions, thereby taking control of your behavior and ultimately your life.
The foundation of realizing everything that you want in life as a man is presence. It is the bedrock of self-mastery and self-discipline. From the position of presence you create and allow positive thoughts in your mind, which in turn create positive emotions and generate positive behaviors. For the purposes of this series, I will be using the terms “presence” and “mindfulness” interchangeably.
What is Presence?
At the most basic level presence is being present to what is going on both inside your body and outside your body right now. Internally it …
Sexting with Nurse from OkCupid.com Results in First Date Lay
This is a very interesting lay report from online game (OkCupid) because it includes sexting and naughty pic exchanging BEFORE the meetup, which typically does not work out well in most cases because even though the girl enjoys the sexting at the time it’s happening, she later re-rationalizes it to feel slutty about it and refuses to meet up. In fact this ALMOST happened with this girl! However I handled it properly, by “qualifying” the bejeezuz out of her, added plenty of “false barriers”, and even used some slight NLP “anchoring”/inception type stuff to cement the meetup- I’ll explain all of these below.
I also sort of kept her in a state of “flux” by using what Alex of RSD would call “deliberate illogicality”. What I mean by this is too often guys act way too “normal” and/or boring in their texting. By keeping things illogical the girl doesn’t really have a chance to categorize you and subsequently dismiss you or grow bored of your attempts to get her to meet up. So by sending her wacky, seemingly non-sequitur type texts it keeps her slightly on edge and never bored ;). This is actually a VERY powerful texting technique.
Another thing I do that is also very counter-intuitive is I …
Displaying Dissaproval Increases Attraction, Decreases Flakiness
Social Psychology has a strange tendency to be counterintuitive, especially when it comes to attracting women. Culture and customs condition us towards automated communication, even if it’s kind of fake or phony.
“How’s your day?”
The person asking doesn’t care and the person responding is doing so robotically. Becoming an attractive man is about saying what you authentic, not what’s automated. Sure, at work it’s best to do what’s “normal” (avoid being a target if money is involved) but outside of that, you should hold yourself to a higher standard of expressing the truth.
With women this is crucial because it sets you apart from those who are friend-zoned. Women friend zone those who still feel the need to walk on eggshells around her or treat her too highly, politely using social customs and not being too provocative I.E. being predictable, normal, standard and boring. They are not being a CHALLENGE to the girl. They like her by default, thinking intuitively that liking her, complimenting her, and accepting her for who she is going to make her like them. WRONG!
Not being a challenge to a girl is like slathering yourself with friend zone butter, extra smooth! It’s boring for her. When someone blindly …
“Superhero in the Sack” bonus vid for Superhero Bulking product
This is a bonus video product I did for kinobody.com, it’s a private unlisted link and I’m letting you guys check it out for free
We go over what it takes to be great in bed, what it actually is that women are looking for when having sex with a guy, for the first time or otherwise, and what “high value” male sexual escalation looks like so a girl recognizes you as a boss and is sexually compliant to you
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