Practical Presence for Players Part 1
The Purpose of Practical Presence for Players
“Positive” thoughts in the mind create positive emotions in the body, and positive emotions in the body give rise to positive thoughts in the mind. Naturally, positive thoughts in the mind and emotions in the body create “positive” behaviors. Positive behaviors propel you forward in life with a purpose. They enable you to successfully reach your goals through overcoming challenges and hurdles.
But this isn’t going to be an article about the commonly-held notion of positive thinking. I am going to lay out a process by which you can take control of your thoughts and emotions, thereby taking control of your behavior and ultimately your life.
The foundation of realizing everything that you want in life as a man is presence. It is the bedrock of self-mastery and self-discipline. From the position of presence you create and allow positive thoughts in your mind, which in turn create positive emotions and generate positive behaviors. For the purposes of this series, I will be using the terms “presence” and “mindfulness” interchangeably.
What is Presence?
At the most basic level presence is being present to what is going on both inside your body and outside your body right now. Internally it …
Sexting with Nurse from OkCupid.com Results in First Date Lay
This is a very interesting lay report from online game (OkCupid) because it includes sexting and naughty pic exchanging BEFORE the meetup, which typically does not work out well in most cases because even though the girl enjoys the sexting at the time it’s happening, she later re-rationalizes it to feel slutty about it and refuses to meet up. In fact this ALMOST happened with this girl! However I handled it properly, by “qualifying” the bejeezuz out of her, added plenty of “false barriers”, and even used some slight NLP “anchoring”/inception type stuff to cement the meetup- I’ll explain all of these below.
I also sort of kept her in a state of “flux” by using what Alex of RSD would call “deliberate illogicality”. What I mean by this is too often guys act way too “normal” and/or boring in their texting. By keeping things illogical the girl doesn’t really have a chance to categorize you and subsequently dismiss you or grow bored of your attempts to get her to meet up. So by sending her wacky, seemingly non-sequitur type texts it keeps her slightly on edge and never bored ;). This is actually a VERY powerful texting technique.
Another thing I do that is also very counter-intuitive is I …
Displaying Dissaproval Increases Attraction, Decreases Flakiness
Social Psychology has a strange tendency to be counterintuitive, especially when it comes to attracting women. Culture and customs condition us towards automated communication, even if it’s kind of fake or phony.
“How’s your day?”
The person asking doesn’t care and the person responding is doing so robotically. Becoming an attractive man is about saying what you authentic, not what’s automated. Sure, at work it’s best to do what’s “normal” (avoid being a target if money is involved) but outside of that, you should hold yourself to a higher standard of expressing the truth.
With women this is crucial because it sets you apart from those who are friend-zoned. Women friend zone those who still feel the need to walk on eggshells around her or treat her too highly, politely using social customs and not being too provocative I.E. being predictable, normal, standard and boring. They are not being a CHALLENGE to the girl. They like her by default, thinking intuitively that liking her, complimenting her, and accepting her for who she is going to make her like them. WRONG!
Not being a challenge to a girl is like slathering yourself with friend zone butter, extra smooth! It’s boring for her. When someone blindly …
“Superhero in the Sack” bonus vid for Superhero Bulking product
This is a bonus video product I did for kinobody.com, it’s a private unlisted link and I’m letting you guys check it out for free
We go over what it takes to be great in bed, what it actually is that women are looking for when having sex with a guy, for the first time or otherwise, and what “high value” male sexual escalation looks like so a girl recognizes you as a boss and is sexually compliant to you
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“Manwhore’s Coaching Program for Dating Success“
Fear of Taking Control/Leading
As you push this you will continually suprise yourself with what happens. People are looking for you to lead them to a better place. They want you to be that guy.
When you’re in an interaction and you don’t know what to do, tell your ego/pain body whatever that little voice is to shut the fuck up, it has no place here. You know where you want the interaction to go; that little voice is just trying to get you to give the burden of leadership to the girl and ultimately a one way trip to youjizz after you go home alone.
Reviews of the Skype “How to get Laid” Long-Term Training Program with Manwhore
This is the training program that teaches you Conversational Mastery, Verbal Seduction, Overwhelming Physical and Sexual Escalation Game (the kind of seduction no woman wants to resist), Demonic Frame Control, and even more mainstream skills like Public Speaking, Strong Vocal Projection, Time Management and Lifestyle Development. Reviews from guys who took the Skype training are below: