Social Rich, Market Poor
One anomaly of my life has been that I remain Social Rich, even while I am often Market Poor.
Although the two can be attained at together, this article is about understanding the two separate systems at work.
Society screams that the opposite must be true, especially as a man. We all know the story; you need the right house and vehicle, career, and bank account balance to attract the right women for you.
That’s how it works, right? Isn’t that what being in or out of the right league means? Having the stuff and status you need to get the women or woman you want in your life?
The idea that you must be market rich, or have enough STUFF, before you can be social rich, or have high quality relationships. It’s rarely spelled out this clearly, yet isn’t that really the point of it all? Is there a man among us that hasn’t felt like he doesn’t have the right STUFF to attract the people he really wants in his life?
Nothing could be further from the truth. There’s a reason why I have competed against investment bankers, tycoons, and other people slightly out of my league when we’re both interested in the …
A Comparison of Manwhore’s Skype Coaching versus NLP Training
In a world of increasing self development there are multiple ways of going about improving yourself. I myself, have gone through Manwhore’s Skype coaching and now I am working on becoming an internationally certified NLP Coach. NLP stands for neuro-linguistic programming – a study of excellence that enables you to be the one in charge of your own life and to communicate with other people much more effectively.
I have decided to compare NLP and Skype coaching. Both methods are very effective and powerful. Moreover, both schools of thought have many similarities and also elements that make them unique.
Being the focus of attention and influencing people
Manwhore believes that to influence people and to be a social leader you need to have the right vocal projection, emotion in your voice while also needing to be comfortable in your own skin alongside being in your own reality and projecting that reality and authority onto others. The way he gets his students to reach this level of social competence is by series of drills designed to unstifle and bring out the natural personality of a socially successful person. I experienced this first hand and was amazed by the results. The way people treat you …
Text Game Vlog: How “Overgaming” Leads to Flaking!
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Manwhore answers a question on text game the members of his forum over at http://manwhore.org/forum had concerning running proper text game and using witty “one-liners” effectively.
Laid..! Strict Islamic Student Overcomes Religious Upbringing & Discovers How GOOD He is at “Game”!
What’s going on fellas, this is a lay report from an alumni of my Skype coaching program. I worked with him extensively to blast through his strict religious Islamic upbringing. For those of you that aren’t aware what that means, basically he wasn’t even allowed to talk to girls for most of his life! His father allowed zero contact with women aside from those in his immediate family, and in fact sex was taboo outside of the strict institution of marriage. Needless to say we had a lot of inner work to do AS WELL as developing his ability to converse and speak with authority to women (he had zero knowledge of this). After guiding him through a couple of failed attempts with different women, he started connecting all the dots and started being able to go out and meet women and become sexually intimate with them. Come to find out this dude is smooooth. Ha! Who would have known..
If you want more details on the Skype coaching program, go here: http://manwhore.org/forum/content/testimonials-coaching-reviews-manwhores-skype-training-program-live-bootcamp-programs
Lay report begins below:
What up gangsters!
I’ve given a brief introduction about myself in my other 3-month training with MW-thread, so I’m gonna be very brief here. I’m 32, been gaming for about 1½ …
Lay Report.. “Drama Style” texting results in banging Italian tourist
This is a rather interesting lay as it includes some pretty serious “drama game” action. Not like this “Julien” nonsense where you call a girl a dog and tell her to bark and think that’s “good game” lmao, but where emotions actually run high at some point during the interaction and you have to do some serious state management and frame control (hint: it’s not what you guys think..) to get the girl back on track to getting intimate and kinky with you ;). Usually this happens because the girl gets pissed off or angry at some point, or there are other such bad emotions involved. In this case the girl actually flipped out, was cussing like a sailor at one point and trying to put on a show of “panic”, and left my place in a cab even though I’d already offered her a ride back to the club. The reason? No reason at all, lol, she just went into berserker mode when we were two blocks from my house. Now back in the day both Jeffy and I would have told the guys, “Yo if a girl shows clear “crazy” signals.. you run, boy!” But these days it’s simply par for the course and only makes …
How To Conquer Negative Emotional States & Be Congruent
Emotional states can range anywhere from boundless inner joy to seemingly endless depression or angst. And then there’s all those little states in-between; impatience, boredom, excitement, satisfaction, sorrow, nostalgia, pleasure, heartbreak etc. The more aware I’ve become, the more I’ve noticed how many states I move through in just one day, let alone a week. It’s important for us masculine driven guys to not let these states distract us from our ultimate purpose and mission, even if the mission is as simple as grocery shopping.
We’re conditioned to judge ourselves when we have negative emotional states, whether it’s anger, frustration, depression, fear, sadness, etc. Men are especially considered “unmanly” when experiencing certain emotions. Many people have fanciful views of Enlightenment as the end of all negative states, and New Age philosophy backs this notion with the idea of staying positive all the time. First off, it’s unnatural not to have a range of emotions, second, this mentality promotes self-judgment and self-delusion. I’ve seen countless people deny their true feelings and intentions even to themselves, in the attempt to stay “positive” or seem “above it all”. Denying present emotion is no better than blaming others for your emotional state.
There’s pleasant and unpleasant …
Practical Presence for Players Part 1
The Purpose of Practical Presence for Players
“Positive” thoughts in the mind create positive emotions in the body, and positive emotions in the body give rise to positive thoughts in the mind. Naturally, positive thoughts in the mind and emotions in the body create “positive” behaviors. Positive behaviors propel you forward in life with a purpose. They enable you to successfully reach your goals through overcoming challenges and hurdles.
But this isn’t going to be an article about the commonly-held notion of positive thinking. I am going to lay out a process by which you can take control of your thoughts and emotions, thereby taking control of your behavior and ultimately your life.
The foundation of realizing everything that you want in life as a man is presence. It is the bedrock of self-mastery and self-discipline. From the position of presence you create and allow positive thoughts in your mind, which in turn create positive emotions and generate positive behaviors. For the purposes of this series, I will be using the terms “presence” and “mindfulness” interchangeably.
What is Presence?
At the most basic level presence is being present to what is going on both inside your body and outside your body right now. Internally it …