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Approaches: 15

Number Closed: 3

Experience:

Started off on an extremely positive note, basically got straight into action. No anxiety, no negativity, simply I want to approach, I want to interact with beautiful women and that is exactly what followed.

My first approach was an american girl, piercing blue eyes who halted at a bus stop as she was walking, Opened with “I saw you as you walked past me at the pedestrian I had to stop and say Hello” (standard). She appreciated the bravado, but she had a boyfriend. Because of her appreciation and genuineness I moved on. Facebook closed a Czech girl who was already meeting another guy. My game in this set was not solid enough to generate those emotional spikes which would allow her to rationalise the cancellation of the existing date, so I caught her at an awkward time, so she dismissed with a facebook link (lol). My friend pointed out a few detractors such as slanted posture, breaking rapport (which was a massive realisation) and push-pull. The following 3 sets were awful, basically making the same mistakes - not giving each approach 100% and giving the girl the time and frame control power, which will always be a disadvantage. So in order to shock the system, I started to approach two sets and girls who were taller than me and experimenting with outlandish behaviour. I approached one not so attractive girl smoking and said “feel sorry for the guy who will have your babies, smoking gives you cancer”. She replied “well I don’t want your babies”, I replied, I want yours, smiled and walked off. Her facial expression was fucking hilarious. That was for my own self-amusement, to get my mojo/state back, and it worked. This definitely sharpened the senses, hence the following approaches were a massive improvement.



1) Number closed an amazing colombian girl, who is working here, had AMAZING TITS HOLY SHIT. We talked about languages, as she is currently attempting to fine tune her english - I broke rapport, shit tested her but she was completely comfortable with it. Laser eye contact. For a moment I was entrapped in beta mindset as I began to crave validation and was about to say,  do you find me attractive ? But this was simply an internal battle which had to dissolve.



2) Number closed another portuguese girl, who I was walking alongside, this was great as I manage to transition from the opener to a general conversation very swiftly, which is difficult whilst walking with the girl in a substantial crowd. Our conversation was just back and forth games “guess where I’m from” etc. Broke rapport, entered banter mode by offering her a lolly by getting my nationality correct - in conjunction with eye contact. Decided to leave the set and number close. Exit was quite awkward as I offered a half ass hug, which was anti climactic.



3) Approached a slovakian girl, whose sense of style was very minimal and subtle, I used this as an opener which was expressed as an observational statement rather than a compliment. This was by far the most genuine, interactive set. A combination of banter and honest conversation about life in Sydney compared to her home town. I told her a little about my life - she showed immense interest, asking questions about myself and constantly flicking her hair and adjusting her stance. My phone went flat so I got her to message her name to my mobile, however I still have not received that text. Which probably means that the opportunity to d2 her is out of the equation. These mistakes hurt a lot. However this is what the journey is about.



Overall, on all 3 number closes I could have facilitated insta-dates. But a lack of game awareness kept me from making it happening. A shit ton of exposure to weaknesses, which is awesome because the only way from here is UP. Some solid references being in set.

Learn:

- have upright stance, in front of the girl

- break rapport, avoid giving the girl the ability to screen you. If you give her a pedestal, she will definitely hop the fuck on.

- add pressure with laser eye contact or sexualising the convo, then release the pressure (rinse and repeat).

- if you make a mistake, do not reflect on it in the midst of the set. Analyse it later. What you feel she will feel.

- If you have established a solid connection which you can capitalise, go for the date then and there. (Killer Instinct)

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informative write up Crazy

informative write up

Crazy just how deep eye contact goes. Like if your not making good eye contact your not even playing the game. A good piece of information I got from the art of seduction is that the eyes are the last place you want express negativity. You can be saying amazing sexy shit but those eyes better not give away weakness.

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One of my female friends said

One of my female friends said something similar the other day about a photo of me and my friend. She was like wow your friend looks really good but something is just off with his eyes, you can tell he is unsure of himself. Chicks pick up on that shit like crazzzzzzy.

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Definitely bro. This stuff is

Definitely bro. This stuff is only starting to register with me now. I realised cold approach has insane transferable skills - you only realise when you do it. 

Secondly, I have poor as fuck logistics, Shit results on Tinder. But day/night game is what I go to when I need to get out of my head. 

Sitting on 30 approaches and it is the middle of the month, time goes so quick. 

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Meow wrote: informative write

Meow wrote:
informative write up

Crazy just how deep eye contact goes. Like if your not making good eye contact your not even playing the game. A good piece of information I got from the art of seduction is that the eyes are the last place you want express negativity. You can be saying amazing sexy shit but those eyes better not give away weakness.


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Not always the case. Notice 41:15 Owen barely makes any eye contactwith the chick but she is loving it. Good eye contact is probably good for when you first meet a chick, but after you two are vibing it can be a fun thing to play with. 

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Good point he's obviously

Good point he's obviously doing the whole aloof thing. A better way of explaining it is that when eye contact is needed it better be good :)

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Well put

Well put

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How do you deal with girls

How do you deal with girls that don't want to fuck unless theyre your boyfriend or some shit. Just recently approached girl, and shes got that "im not going to see you if you're just gunna fuck me vibe", and from experience I smell. Don't know how to communicate in that instance. 

Will post text convo on the forum soon.