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Joined: 05/20/2013

So I met this girl who is extremely adamant about moving very slowly and not getting to sex. She think it's better to wait. Actually that's an understatement, I've never before seen a girl talk with so much conviction about how having sex soon is the worst thing ever, not enoyable and pointless. She had a incredibly powerful reality, like super charged, I was starting to buy into what she was saying. Fuck I would have, but I know better thanks to MW ;)

Well I pulled her into my reality, made her extremely comfortable around me and eventually she couldn't control herself. We had sex on the second date and she was thinking it would take about two months. She told me that she's never felt so connected to someone before and it's crazy how quickly that happened. All she can think about is fucking me. I was pretty damn surprised with fast we fucked. I honestly didn't think it was going to happen, but once I broke through her ratarted beliefs and maintained completely present and non ego identified she was open and maluable. Then once I escalated she couldn't control the effect I had on her ;)

Well then she went crazy on me when we hung out the third time. I told her that I'm not the most affectionate person and I like to have my space. She freaked out. She has a very difficult time being with someone and not getting highly emotional around them. Like she's freaking me out becuase she is projecting sooooo much onto us. It's crazy. Honestly, I'm not looking for a relationship. I don't think that's at all for me. She htinks that you should only be seeing someoen if you think you could spend your life with them otherwise it's pointless (WOAHHH). 

I ended up doing some hard ass conviction on her, explaining what she was doing was crazy. I told her that she is so dependent on some crazy outcome. And she's trying to figure things out and make sense of everything instead of just letting it be. She's projecting so much, way too soon and it's ruining everything. Because that is not real, it's a mental projection of what the ego wants. 

The only thing that matters right now is this moment, us being together, trying to force something so soon is crazy and if you want me to jump on your agenda then I can't do it. 

If this moment and us being around eachother is not enough for you and you need me to bind myself to some crazy plan or expectation you have then this will not work and we should go our seperate ways. 

She was really upset lol.

Then she texted me the next day

her: Patrick, I want to apologize for tonight. I've been living with certain mindsets for a long time. Please be patient with me, as I will be for you. Maybe everything happens for a reson, including that conversation because speaking with you like tha, hearining you correct me made me realize how much I have to learn from you and about you. You are a self motivated intellectual with lots of ambition. There's really nothing I want than to simply be around you, and have moments over memories.

her: Goodngiht. XO.

her: Ps. Tonight won't/can't be repeated. It's out of the way for good. From now on it's smooth sailing. We're just gonna take it excusivley easy. Cause you're right, just living moments with you is truly enoguh. Also, I'm sorry for not kissing you goodbyle, just felt a little heart broken from the whole ordeal. Next time I will drive to you, if you want. 

her: Btw fucking in your palace is my ne wfavorite thing to do. Goodnight prince

NEXT DAY

her: Babe you're killing me with this silence 

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Joined: 06/04/2012
Ok, first of all she sounds

Ok, first of all she sounds like every girl who doesn't give it up "too easy." In the sense that she thinks she has strong will power but she pretty much melts at the sight of a throbbing cock. 

Secondly, you tolle'd her! Har har

lastly, text her back. It's cool to be aloof and nonchalant but she's actually putting herself out there now. Sex will only get better. You can train this girl to do some freaky shit.

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Joined: 01/11/2014
She might be coming around,

She might be coming around, she might not. Stick to your guns and you're good