LR: Albanian Virgin through Instagram gets WRECKED
This first part is originally part of a write up I did for MW. He flipped a shit on me cause my problem was I would 'flinch' and not stay grounded. Towards the end he ended up verbally ripping me a new asshole. So I went back to some of MW's articles on escalation, and read through what I was doing wrong.
I make plans with her again for the following weekend. She is still very receptive of me texting her and even calls me.
So the original plans were to go see a movie cause I was feeling like going to a movie theater, but then I was like..this is lame way to meet up. So I changed the plans saying "Im not feeling these movies that are out, Ill grab a bootleg and surprise you". She says she hates surprises and I tell her she is going to have to be patient.
She takes a bus over to brooklyn, then I pick her up. She has a box full of pastries for me. She says its for my birthday coming up. I give her a kiss and thank her. I drive her back to my crib and I am giddy to find out what she brought. I try all the cakes and pastries and she is eating it up that I am enjoying it. I grab her and take her to my couch and I start the movie. This is where a change in my escalation occurs. Instead of before, where my mind set was that I am taking something from her, I flipped the script on it and realized that 'I am the prize' and she has to work for this ferrari of a cock. I would make some moves on her and place her hand on my cock. She would stroke and get into it, and then I would push her head down. She would then say 'not yet', and I say something like 'what are you waiting for?', she would say 'i dont know', so I just reply 'ok its cool if you dont want it well you missed your chance' while I put it back away. The idea of me saying and doing this made me much more independent of the outcome. Next time I go for the escalation, and I push her head to go down, she stops me, grabs my hand, and walks me to my bed room. I start to rip off my clothes and she starts going to town on my cock. I am getting really hot and I go to finger her, she goes to stop me with token resistance, I grab her hand with my other free hand and pin it down while I slide my finger inside of her wet pussy. She relaxes with a sigh. Soon after fingering her for a bit I undress her and put on a condom. I go to enter her, she is feeling pain right after I enter my head. This girl wasn't kidding about being a VIRGIN. I warmed her up to it a bit, but it was still difficult. I just go to her 'there is more dick where that came from', and she gets these bugs eyes. After a little while it becomes to much for her. She tells me she has never seen cum before, I go 'oh yea, well you're in for a treat', as I finish all over her chest. After she cleans off we chill for a bit before I drop her off at the bus stop.
This girl has been hitting me up a lot and I don't want to set a precedent that we are going to be boyfriend and girlfriend, especially since I took her virginity. Any thoughts you guys could share?
If you don't want to get stuck in the boyfriend frame you can put yourself in that funky "lover of women" role. Let her know that you see girls and you like girls so much - then let her know, her too. This is just not a boyfriend kind of person, but neither are you out to deceive chicks or play with their emotions.
If you want to send her off with good vibes, you can be like: when your with me your my main girl. (Don't let any pity sink it, she will feel that and feel used or some kind of negative). What this does, it let's her know you adore her, but also that your naturally a womanizer. That's your reality. If she is curious about you, I feel like she will accept this reality and continue to like you alot, and look at other guys (free you from the responsibility of boyfriend)
If she is not so curious about you, or insecure, she may get offended - stick to your guns and she will come around... or not. But she won't feel cheated though.
Lmk if this idea seems/comes flawed. I feel it, and let girls know, and they respect it. I appreciate that