is she a webcam model? (need help with this)
Me: Stay away from those weird dudes lol.
flakey18yearold - 2 mins later: Who is this .
Me - 1 min later: Your conscience.
flakey18yearold - 2 mins later:
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Me: It's Jason, so you don't think I'm a weird dude.
flakey18yearold - 2 mins later: Hmm send me a pic
flakey18yearold - 1 min later: Lol okay
Me: With butter
flakey18yearold: Mm
flakey18yearold: Mm
flakey18yearold: Mmk
Me - 24 mins later: So are you in high school?
flakey18yearold - 14 mins later: Yeah
Me - 5 mins later: Let's do something Sunday.
Me - 2 days 13 hrs later: I'll give you 5 bucks if you come shovel my driveway.
flakey18yearold - 1 hr 13 mins later: Lol no
Me - 2 days 10 hrs later: I had to shovel it myself. Meanie :(
flakey18yearold - 17 hrs 52 mins later: Who is this again sorry
Me - 3 hrs 22 mins later: This is Jason lol. Save my name
Me - 1 hr 50 mins later: Yeah so what are some cool things about you?
flakey18yearold - 15 hrs 47 mins later: Haha okay
Me - 4 hrs 54 mins later: So what's your job? I think I read on your meetme you dress up as a easter bunny
flakey18yearold - 1 min later: Haha yeah I'm a photographer for the easter bunny set. But that day I was the easter bunny.
Me - 8 mins later: That's cool. I'm a lot attendant. I get paid to get a workout pretty much. I had to be an Easter bunny at an electronic store before. Back in high school. My friend was the Easter bunny too and he was high when he did it.
flakey18yearold - 2 mins later: Hell Yea. That's how I was haha
Me - 1 min later: You were high? Honestly I had wine the morning I was the Easter bunny. I lived in Germany so when I was 16 I could buy my own alcohol.
Me - 13 mins later: So this photography stuff. Is it like glamour shots?
flakey18yearold - 14 mins later: Ahah that's so awesome
Me: Not really, I was an alcoholic back then. It was fun at the time, but looking back I'm like "that was stupid"
flakey18yearold: Haha yeah I got it
Me - 3 mins later: Have you seen Napoleon dynamite?
flakey18yearold - 37 mins later: Yes
Me: Is your job like that glamour shots girl in the movie?
flakey18yearold - 2 mins later: Nope haha but u do web cammodel haha
Me: So you're like a porn star now? That was unexpected.
flakey18yearold - 6 mins later: Haha what ever
This girl has flaked on me a few times. She's smoking hot. I deleted her number cause she was cussing at me, but later I found out it was some dude that got on her phone and she gave me her number again.
Whenever I ask her when she's free, she might tell me a day or not. Then radio silence.
Think of text game like your writing a book--you gotta be nice and flowey, and make transitions...or the reader will not be interested!
You asked her "are you in highschool?", she said "yeah", and you immediately asked "Let's do something sunday". This is far too abrupt, boring, and low value. Instead, ease into asking her out with some sort of creativity. It could be about anything, just spin it off the current topic within the conversation. The topic was highschool, so make something up about highschoolers. You could say, " well I know highschool girls dig ice cream, lets go rob an ice cream truck." Then she will most likely say something like, "yeah that sounds fun!" Now you can ask, "lets do it sunday"...and get the date.
Also, try to focus on one topic for a bit longer. You talked about highschool, then easter bunnies, your job, and finally porn star. You could have based the entire convo off of one of these topics, and the simplicity itself would have helped better the convo.
I like how you talked about yourself a bit, keep it up.
I agree with Meow. You change topics too fast and some of the stuff you text is random. For example, you texted "Have you seen Napoleon dynamite?" and then you go to "Is your job like that glamour shots girl in the movie?". Honestly, I would only text things that move the interaction forward. I don't think "Have you seen Napoleon dynamite" is helping you out or doing anything for you. Also, you do a lot of comfort building which isn't bad but you could definetly tease her and make the conversation more playful. For example, instead of saying you were an alcoholic you could say you made the Germans look like pussies when it came to drinking every single day.
lol thanks a lot. That's some kick ass advice. I'll have to reread this a few times.
Yeah I'm being abrupt. I guess I kind of run out of ideas when talking about just one subject. I'll try to do that more though.
Me: That's cool. I was just expecting you to be a mcdonald's employee or something. So when are you free?
flakey18yearold - 1 day 14 hrs later: Not sure
Me - 10 hrs 26 mins later: I heard high school girls like ice cream. Let's rob an ice cream truck.