She's trying to Friendzone me WTF! (quick help)
Mon, 12/31/2012 - 11:00
2 weeks ago (12/18/2012) this French girl came into my store. She slid her number over my counter in front of my managers lol.
Our interaction at my work was mostly rapport based. Last weekend she flaked on me, i ignored her even after she texted me on Wednesday asking if i was around. I hit her up Saturday (12/29/2012). I was focusing on getting her out asap and not wasting time "gaming" her through text because it was in French which i'm forgetting, this texting is pretty basic.
===12/29/2012
ME: I saw you on State st. yesterday then you disappeared
HER: Really?
ME: Yeah I love your style. I think you were dressed in black with brown boots.
HER: Yes wow!! You should have called me!
ME: Hahaha what's your schedule looking like tomorrow? I'm headed to L.A right now
HER: Great have fun there! We can meet up tomorrown afternoon if you can!
ME: Cool i'll call you then Have an awesome afternoon
HER: Perfect! have a great day! kisses
===12/30/2012
ME: Morning Marine! Shoot I sleept like a big ass baby you should have seen me!
HER: Good morning! me too I just got up, i was so tired!
ME: Typical saturdays, Anyways i'm ready to have fun again today, and you?
HER: I just caught a cold so it wasn't such a great night. So what are we doing this afternoon?
ME: Ok i'll call you in 5 minutes pick up
I called her, we did some fluff talk then talked logistics. We were to meet at 2PM. My mission was to sneak into my cousin's room, retrieve the spare car's keys, jump start the car and pick up the gal.
I got the keys and texted her a couple of hours before the meet.
ME: I got access to the car so i could pock you up
HER: I live on ***** St, but it's not far from downtown so i can walk. Let's meet downtown ok?
ME: cool
HER: You like Yogurtland for ice cream?
ME: Never been there. You're bringing me there then? haha
HER: Yeah it's super good!
ME: Ok i'll see. We'll meet there
HER: Yes do you know where it is?
HER (10 mins later): What are you doing on the 31ST?
ME: I'll probably be watching fireworks with you ;D.... But i need to check my schedule 1st
HER: Cool let me know!
Fast forward we eventually meet at 2PM. I got there a little late looking for parking. I spotted her right away, we hugged and i gave her 2 kisses on the cheeks. I noticed she was wearing a peacoat from my retail store. I grabbed her hand spun her around i told her i liked her style.
We got into the store and played a little game with her. I would have to sample whatever flavor of ice cream she samples, then we would reverse roles... It was really fun. We got our ice cream then I led her to the beach. She warned me that at 5PM she has to watch over her host parent's kids. We got to the beach and sat really close to each other. I self-amused, Push-pulled, qualified.
I called her out on being adventurous which she agreed on, so i asked her if she wanted see something adventurous, she was keen. I leaned in for the kiss, she turned away and said she's not looking for love because she's here until September...blah blah blah. I said I wasn't looking for anything serious either, she tried to detract me by saying "you're just saying that", I ignored it lol.
Fast forward I have her grab my arm and tell her we're leaving. She asks where we're going, I tell her to my car. I asked her if she's ever been in the new Mustangs, she got all EXCITED and said no, and went "OMG You drive a MUSTANG???" I told her i knew someone who would let us drive one. We got in the Jetta drove to the Ford dealership, test-drove the beast. She had fun in the backseat recording and being tossed around. After that we made a quick stop at CVS because she needed some make-up foundation bottle then i dropped her off in her neighborhood.
Throughout the entire time we were together, i was shortly clawing her, playing thumbs war in the car, and she emphasized that on the 31st she had nothing to do and to let her know if i was free.
She then texted me this BULLSHIT this evening, i was honestly amused.
HER: It was awesome this afternoon!
HER (20mins later): I just want us to be friends, on the other hand I want you to understand...
hahaha, I did not respond to this. I just want to confirm what my course of action is here....
Do i kick it into high gear and go super aggressive or what?
Our interaction at my work was mostly rapport based. Last weekend she flaked on me, i ignored her even after she texted me on Wednesday asking if i was around. I hit her up Saturday (12/29/2012). I was focusing on getting her out asap and not wasting time "gaming" her through text because it was in French which i'm forgetting, this texting is pretty basic.
===12/29/2012
ME: I saw you on State st. yesterday then you disappeared
HER: Really?
ME: Yeah I love your style. I think you were dressed in black with brown boots.
HER: Yes wow!! You should have called me!
ME: Hahaha what's your schedule looking like tomorrow? I'm headed to L.A right now
HER: Great have fun there! We can meet up tomorrown afternoon if you can!
ME: Cool i'll call you then Have an awesome afternoon
HER: Perfect! have a great day! kisses
===12/30/2012
ME: Morning Marine! Shoot I sleept like a big ass baby you should have seen me!
HER: Good morning! me too I just got up, i was so tired!
ME: Typical saturdays, Anyways i'm ready to have fun again today, and you?
HER: I just caught a cold so it wasn't such a great night. So what are we doing this afternoon?
ME: Ok i'll call you in 5 minutes pick up
I called her, we did some fluff talk then talked logistics. We were to meet at 2PM. My mission was to sneak into my cousin's room, retrieve the spare car's keys, jump start the car and pick up the gal.
I got the keys and texted her a couple of hours before the meet.
ME: I got access to the car so i could pock you up
HER: I live on ***** St, but it's not far from downtown so i can walk. Let's meet downtown ok?
ME: cool
HER: You like Yogurtland for ice cream?
ME: Never been there. You're bringing me there then? haha
HER: Yeah it's super good!
ME: Ok i'll see. We'll meet there
HER: Yes do you know where it is?
HER (10 mins later): What are you doing on the 31ST?
ME: I'll probably be watching fireworks with you ;D.... But i need to check my schedule 1st
HER: Cool let me know!
Fast forward we eventually meet at 2PM. I got there a little late looking for parking. I spotted her right away, we hugged and i gave her 2 kisses on the cheeks. I noticed she was wearing a peacoat from my retail store. I grabbed her hand spun her around i told her i liked her style.
We got into the store and played a little game with her. I would have to sample whatever flavor of ice cream she samples, then we would reverse roles... It was really fun. We got our ice cream then I led her to the beach. She warned me that at 5PM she has to watch over her host parent's kids. We got to the beach and sat really close to each other. I self-amused, Push-pulled, qualified.
I called her out on being adventurous which she agreed on, so i asked her if she wanted see something adventurous, she was keen. I leaned in for the kiss, she turned away and said she's not looking for love because she's here until September...blah blah blah. I said I wasn't looking for anything serious either, she tried to detract me by saying "you're just saying that", I ignored it lol.
Fast forward I have her grab my arm and tell her we're leaving. She asks where we're going, I tell her to my car. I asked her if she's ever been in the new Mustangs, she got all EXCITED and said no, and went "OMG You drive a MUSTANG???" I told her i knew someone who would let us drive one. We got in the Jetta drove to the Ford dealership, test-drove the beast. She had fun in the backseat recording and being tossed around. After that we made a quick stop at CVS because she needed some make-up foundation bottle then i dropped her off in her neighborhood.
Throughout the entire time we were together, i was shortly clawing her, playing thumbs war in the car, and she emphasized that on the 31st she had nothing to do and to let her know if i was free.
She then texted me this BULLSHIT this evening, i was honestly amused.
HER: It was awesome this afternoon!
HER (20mins later): I just want us to be friends, on the other hand I want you to understand...
hahaha, I did not respond to this. I just want to confirm what my course of action is here....
Do i kick it into high gear and go super aggressive or what?
Mon, 12/31/2012 - 12:10
#1
Re: She's trying to Friendzone me WTF! (quick help)
@Ghettoguru: i think its on. Ignore that, party with her and try hooking up then.
Mon, 12/31/2012 - 15:31
#2
Re: She's trying to Friendzone me WTF! (quick help)
@Ghettoguru:
It's on! Burn it to the ground!
I dunno what I would do because is not me in the actual situation, buuuut I still would go for that pussy.
I think I would respond the texts like this:
HER: It was awesome this afternoon!
"of course it was, imagine how would it be in the night time!"
HER (20mins later): I just want us to be friends, on the other hand I want you to understand...
"I love the way your left eye blink when you lie, I know I had you at hello when you where exposed to my gangsta aura, but relax this week your secret is safe with me.. UNLESS.. you don't deliver next week payment! And by that I mean: massage sessions while you cut my feet fingernails and feed me with grapes... I heard women can multitask"
And then take it from there and try a meet up.
Bear in mind I consider myself horrible at text I never "study" this part of the "game". So if you text this, is on your own risk.
Maybe this is not congruent with you, but that what I would do. lol
It's on! Burn it to the ground!
I dunno what I would do because is not me in the actual situation, buuuut I still would go for that pussy.
I think I would respond the texts like this:
HER: It was awesome this afternoon!
"of course it was, imagine how would it be in the night time!"
HER (20mins later): I just want us to be friends, on the other hand I want you to understand...
"I love the way your left eye blink when you lie, I know I had you at hello when you where exposed to my gangsta aura, but relax this week your secret is safe with me.. UNLESS.. you don't deliver next week payment! And by that I mean: massage sessions while you cut my feet fingernails and feed me with grapes... I heard women can multitask"
And then take it from there and try a meet up.
Bear in mind I consider myself horrible at text I never "study" this part of the "game". So if you text this, is on your own risk.
Maybe this is not congruent with you, but that what I would do. lol