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So this chick i got somewhat emotionally invested in without fucking her and after many texts back and forth but no meet up I decided to cool off for a while and concentrate on myself/other women.

I get a group invite from her a week ago to some night of ping pong and free drinks. I ignore, not my scene, and a group invite is not enough bait for me. 

So cut to today get a text

"coming to the table tennis thing tomorrow? x"

I ignore for a bit then think maybe I can get her to meet up without going to this thing. 5 hrs later I send:

"Unfortunately it clashes with my hopscotch tournament. Might be about for a drink after"

She replies within 20 mins

"Its a bar so there will be drinks there! And its the site where table tennis was founded. I don't even know if I'm going actually, I'm poorly x"

Ha! The fuck? She's not a promoter of this night by the way, but certainly feels like it!

No idea what to reply to this. I'll probably just ignore but all input is of course, most welcome.
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Re: Strange reengagement
@macfuque:

Just to clarify I feel like she wants me to kiss her ass like:

"well I'm definitely not going if you're not"
Or "oh no! Get well soon"

Obviously don't want to go down those roads. the only thing I can think of is "well I'm definitely not going if you're breathing your germs all over me"

But I don't like that much either.

Like I say pretty invested.
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Re: Strange reengagement
She's invited you out twice mang. That's not a coincidence. Just meet up. Let her rape you. This is crazy you're not showing up. You can isolate from there/kidnap/do other things.

Ok hold on this girl is a promoter? Are these mass texts you're getting?
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Re: Strange reengagement
@Manwhore:

Nah she's not a promoter.

I dunno man. The illness thing threw me. Like hey come to this thing, but I probably won't be there!

Or was she just looking to start a conversation?

You're right though. Guess it won't kill me to go down and find out.

Unless they make me do that Thai hooker ping pong trick with my ass...
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Re: Strange reengagement
Do they make you catch them with your ass or are you just required to launch them.
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Re: Strange reengagement
Show up to these group events. It breeds a LOT of things we can discuss, it brings up a SHIT TON of opportunities to do yo thang.
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Re: Strange reengagement
@Manwhore:

Ha! Only launch.. I hope..

Ok cool man. I won't respond I'll just head down there and bring my awesomeness.

Watch this space
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Re: Strange reengagement
@macfuque:
You can respond too. You might as well I'm not sure why you wouldn't. But I also have a pug that likes to poop in my room, so what do I know.
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Re: Strange reengagement
@Manwhore:

Ha! Yeah I know. Just don't have much idea what to say. I see on her Facebook she's off sick from work so guess she's not going anyway.

Maybe just send: "cool I'll give you a call if I'm heading down"

Or. "you better not be breathing germs all over me if I come down"
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Re: Strange reengagement
Well what could you say. She tossed you a beach ball. Knock that shit out of the park. "Baby stop kissing all those homeless people. Just throw your change at them like the rest of us"

Stuff like that.
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Re: Strange reengagement
@Manwhore:
Haha. Thanks for the reminder man. Sent it. She replies

"how kind x"

Sassy
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Re: Strange reengagement
Ok so keep going. Your goal is to meet up, regardless of the circumstances. You're trying to hide behind text game and stall
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Re: Strange reengagement
@Manwhore:
You have a pimp motherfucker pug that graces you with shit in your room once in a while...get it right bro...faggot.
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Re: Strange reengagement
@Manwhore:
Yeah. Good point and that's what I did. I thought about sending 

"thanks, I am widely regarded for my bedside manner"

But I left it and now it's the next day so seems a bit odd to send now