Skip to Content
-->

Threesome with my girlfriend, help me develop this completely

14 replies [Last post]
Meow's picture
Offline
Joined: 03/27/2013

Alright guys, my girlfriend is into having threesomes and exhibitionism stuff, I need help developing the dynamic further as things aren’t going as smooth as I’d like them to. I’m going to lay out a few interactions that occurred and give a brief critique of how I could have done better, then you guys can ask some questions and we can dive deeper.

 

Interaction #1: On NYE I show up to a big party with my girlfriend, one of the first people she meets is a friend of mine that I fucked a few times. Later in the night, the friend tells me that my girlfriend is hot and that she didn’t know that I was seeing someone. I go off and talk to some people on my own, I come back and find the friend and my girlfriend talking. They then start making out, and I jump in. Everyone laughs and we go have some drinks. We all hangout together and they make out again, now the friend has another friend that starts making out with them too. Everyone is very drunk, I jump in and make out with all three of them. This doesn’t last more than a minute, and everyone laughs it off again and parties more. Somehow, the friend of my friend (makeout girl #3) leaves the area. There are around 50 people downstairs so I tell my girlfriend and the friend we are going upstairs.

 

I lead them upstairs and we go into a bedroom. I start making out with both of them and take my dick out, my girl sucks on it for a bit. My friend’s brother comes in and I tell him to get out, though it was his room. I guess I was a bit harsh with him, I had too much to drink. He leaves and I take my girls pants off and push her on the bed, the friend is taking her pants off too. She ends up going down on my girlfriend. I’m taken back by this for a second but they both enjoy it. I have my girl suck my dick some more. The Friend starts saying she wants to see me fuck my girl, but I’m not ready yet. First time I was having issues getting it up in a while. I wasn’t comfortable with the experience yet and felt a bit passive having the friend somewhat calling the shots more than me, also the booze didn’t help. I relax and tell them to both get on their knees and suck my dick. I’m feeling more grounded and I let them suck it for a minute or so before we get interrupted again, this time it’s my friend’s father! Someone comes in and pushes him away, he tells him he will take care of it to help me out. We try to move into another room but it’s off limits.

 

My critique of this scenario is that there wasn’t enough leading on my part, therefore I wasn’t in my personal power to handle the situation correctly. First off, I should have been nonchalant about being in that kids’ room and he probably would have gone out of his way to keep the door closed for me, he is 17-18 I’m sure he would have understood. Being a dick was a result of my surface discomfort. Furthermore, I wasn’t verbally assertive enough, I wasn’t shaping the situation well enough. In a perfect world, I would have had the girls doing what I wanted from the beginning, or at the very least found myself in a situation where I could have been fucking my girl a lot quicker. I had this overall sense like I was fumbling around. The friend told me she has had a few threesomes before and she definitely was more helpful than hurtful, that being said I did need to put myself in a more authoritative role. I picked it up at the end by having them suck my dick together, but logistically fucked myself from the beginning. Even though this threesome was botched, my girlfriend did tell me that she really enjoyed it and was thankful and proud she was a part of it as she expressed some fears earlier about incorporating another girl. I thanked my friend for taking care of my girlfriend because she truly was a sweetheart and made her feel comfortable. Later that I night, I sent the friend a video of me and my girl fucking at my house and we ended up getting invited to the friend’s place (or where she was staying) but we were so drunk from NYE festivities that me and my girl passed out. So yeah, less alcohol is needed! My girl and the friend are casual over social media but the friend was banging another friend of mine recently so that’s off limits. Now he had a threesome with her and make out girl #3 from earlier, damn!

 

Interaction #2: I invited my girl to party at the school I attend and she decided to bring a friend along, this was a few days after NYE so the concept of a threesome was fresh in my mind. They show up and they both look really sexy. I walk them over to the dorm rooms where we are partying and introduce them to everyone. My girl’s friend is quite the socialite and carries herself very well, she definitely gets more attention than my girl.  The three of us chat for a while and her friend is very engaging towards me. I am overtly sexual with the both of them. We start talking about tattoos and my girl shows off hers, as they haven’t actually seen each other in over a year. The friend then looks at us and pulls her jeans down to expose a tattoo right under her bikini line. She catches a few looks. Somebody is passing around a fake gun filled with vodka, I shoot vodka shots in both of their mouths, then go to shoot it in another girl’s mouth and get it into her eye!! My girl and her friend need to pee so I walk them into the restroom. They go in the big stall together and giggle, I can see my girl bending down so I reach under the stall and slap her ass.

 

After the bathroom, I then lead them into a friend’s dorm that’s empty as he’s down the hall (I don’t dorm there anymore so I don’t have a room) We drink and listen to music, they are both sitting on the bed and my girl notices how I am looking at them. I move over towards my girl and start making out with her, but she’s not extremely receptive. Immediately, the friend says she wants to see my girl suck my dick. I come onto my girl again but she’s just not in the state I want her to be in, the whole situation is a bit fuzzy but I’m saying something along the lines of “Baby she wants to see you suck my cock, that’d be so fucking sexy.” I’m not really being all that fun or building a narrative between all of us. The situation is not appropriate to take my dick away so I back off. The friend comes up to me when I’m playing music and asks if she can see a video of me fucking my girl. I say something along the lines of,” oh you told her about are videos huh?” but my girl is still being somewhat strange. I’m about to show the video to this girl and realize that my girl is feeling left out and she doesn’t feel like my priority, so I tell the friend “yeah I don’t know about the videos, I barely know you these are special…you don’t exactly deserve em’ yet.” My friend then walks into his dorm and tells us that we are leaving to go out soon makes us leave so he can lock the door.

 

We head back to the party and shoot the shit. My girls friend gives me a titty twister at one point and my default response is to do it back. My girl playfully tells me I can’t be doing that but it clearly is not much of an issue. We head out to the parties and me and my girl dance all night, she  lightens up when it’s just the two of us. My girls friend is trying to dance with other guys and then periodically tries to dance on my dick, but it’s somewhat obnoxious. I get the feeling that she likes attention and my girl isn’t very close to her. This could be a big rationalization though. The girls dance for a bit at one point and they make out briefly, I do not think I did anything as I assumed the threesome thing wasn’t happening, which is retarded. We wrap up the night and they Uber home because I’m sleeping on someone’s couch, I try to head home with the girls but they are staying at the friend’s parents house.

 

I think my biggest fuck up of this night was that I didn’t show my girl enough attention in the beginning and she didn’t feel that she was a priority, which would have made a threesome stressful for her. The next day she was talking about how she knew I wanted to fuck her friend, she wasn’t judging me but she was implying that she wanted more attention. I also could have been more fun overall! I wasn’t doing a good enough job building a bubble between the three of us, that is why her friend trying to find other guys to dance with.

 

Interaction #3: This wasn’t much of anything, but me and my girl started talking very crude and sexual in front of her friend (different friend from above) and made some jokes about wanted to see her twerk. This girl accused us of trying to get her into a threesome and somewhat just shut down from any sex talk for the rest of the night. I really was unsure in this scenario because she was acting freaked out for real. I made some jokes about her having a dirty mind trying to make her out to wanting a threesome, which could have been true. She never really relaxed much though.

 

Current Game plan: My girl and I talk about threesomes pretty often and Incorporate it into sex dirty talk. She talks about how she wants to suck my dick with another girl and then have her watch us fuck. She also says that she couldn’t stand to watch me fuck the other girl and that she wants the other girl to be sad that I’m not fucking her, so she is working in a territorial angle. I probably could have side stepped this from the beginning if I had handled interaction #1 correctly, but I am fine going along with this for now. I think I can spin it at some point and fuck the other girl, even if it doesn’t happen the first time. I need to make sure my girl knows she is a priority and that the other girl is purely for fun.

 

My girl never talks about threesome with her friends, and If I bring these friends up she shuts it down. However, she does like this girl she met at a party we were at. Somehow, I never met her myself, but she told my girl she is a bisexual. She is a friend of a friend and I’ve been trying to get all of us at the same party again but no success yet. I’ve been thinking about DM’ing her on Instagram but my girl thinks that’d be weird and she is not comfortable messaging her. Clearly, we need to meet new girls together and go from there, or I need to get her to bring over more of her friends and try that in a more ninja fashion. We get a lot of attention when we go out together I just need to lock down my ability to make this happen.

 

Also, I’ve been dabbling with tinder but I’m somewhat clueless, I’ve been telling them that my girl thinks they’re sexy and trying to build the dynamic from the beginning but no luck there.

 

I’m moving out in a few weeks with very cool roomies so I will have the perfect logistics to make this happen very soon!

If anyone has questions ask away, I know it's a lot of moving parts :P

 

 

 

 

 

Meow's picture
Offline
Joined: 03/27/2013
My girl is not 21 either, so

My girl is not 21 either, so we have to meet girls at house parties or she needs a damn fake ID!

Slick88's picture
Offline
Joined: 11/21/2017
I have no real valid advice

I have no real valid advice to add as I’ve never got to enjoy a threesome. However... thanks for posting these scenarios, we need more people to take the time to do this.... quality knowledge sharing 

Meow's picture
Offline
Joined: 03/27/2013
Thanks Slick :D Got any

Thanks Slick :D

Got any questions or anything that jumped out at you while reading? 

Offline
Joined: 01/18/2012
What the ever loving FUCK is

What the ever loving FUCK is this. 

__________________

The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away. - William Shakespeare & Pablo Picasso

I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student

Have you read the "Best Of MW's Forum" threads on Verbal Seduction, Physical Escalation & Sexual Mastery? Begin your education: Best of Manwhore.org/forum:

The ONLY Real "Drills-Based" Seduction Training:

Tap Or Click For More Information

Offline
Joined: 01/03/2018
^ LOL. I was waiting for

^ LOL. I was waiting for this.

​Dude, why aren't you like making them suck your dick all the time. You're letting the girls control everything. 

__________________

Meow's picture
Offline
Joined: 03/27/2013
Yeah i'm aware of that now

Yeah i'm aware of that now I was blind to how easy it should have been.

Are my critques correct or am I missing something?

Offline
Joined: 01/03/2018
Overall I think you’re just

Overall I think you’re just too “considerate” and the reality of how down and dirty and easy these chicks are hasn’t been cemented yet in your mind. You kind of believe it but not fully. Even if you’ve lived it, you’re not yet capable of considering that your girl might be eating pussy behind your back, for example. 

You think there needs to be all this shit in between the start and the ending rather than just starting at the ending. You can’t be a half a gangster.

Ok yes I know some calibration must be used but dude, you’re in a position where you can do whatever the fuck you want. Like you’re on the throne. Women resent it when they give you that level of power and “access” to the “secret society” and you are pussyfooting around jack.

What she wants from you is to make it happen, by force and aggression and to put her in her place when she pipes up on some jealous shit, she wants to show everyone she’s got a real man. It’s exibitionism.

Dont feel too bad about not knowing this dimension of male/female dynamics. Not many make it that far.

The thing is that something you’re doing is making her think you are this type of man, so you better deliver. 

__________________

Offline
Joined: 01/18/2012
Hey meow I found the news

Hey meow I found the news article of you and the two "girls". 

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/5835982/male-rape-sam-thompson-coronation-...

"Meow said: “My memory is hazy, but the next thing I remember is one of them pulling off my trousers.” What followed was an ordeal which lasted hours - with the two men taking it in turns to rape him. He didn’t fight back but froze. He has since been told by a therapist that people respond to trauma in different ways and the ‘fight, flight or freeze’ response kicks in. He remembers leaving the hotel at around 8am, after the men had finished. After finding his bearings, he staggered towards his home in a daze. At that point, he was unable to comprehend the enormity of what had just happened."

__________________

The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away. - William Shakespeare & Pablo Picasso

I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student

Have you read the "Best Of MW's Forum" threads on Verbal Seduction, Physical Escalation & Sexual Mastery? Begin your education: Best of Manwhore.org/forum:

The ONLY Real "Drills-Based" Seduction Training:

Tap Or Click For More Information

Meow's picture
Offline
Joined: 03/27/2013
Manwhore wrote:Hey meow I

Manwhore wrote:
Hey meow I found the news article of you and the two "girls". 

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/5835982/male-rape-sam-thompson-coronation-...

"Meow said: “My memory is hazy, but the next thing I remember is one of them pulling off my trousers.” What followed was an ordeal which lasted hours - with the two men taking it in turns to rape him. He didn’t fight back but froze. He has since been told by a therapist that people respond to trauma in different ways and the ‘fight, flight or freeze’ response kicks in. He remembers leaving the hotel at around 8am, after the men had finished. After finding his bearings, he staggered towards his home in a daze. At that point, he was unable to comprehend the enormity of what had just happened."

oh shit! Freezing up is a good way to put it 

Meow's picture
Offline
Joined: 03/27/2013
Yeah definitely too much

Yeah back on track now for sure :D

Offline
Joined: 01/18/2012
Naw I ain't fucking done with

Naw I ain't fucking done with you 

__________________

The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away. - William Shakespeare & Pablo Picasso

I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student

Have you read the "Best Of MW's Forum" threads on Verbal Seduction, Physical Escalation & Sexual Mastery? Begin your education: Best of Manwhore.org/forum:

The ONLY Real "Drills-Based" Seduction Training:

Tap Or Click For More Information

Offline
Joined: 01/18/2012
I know we talked offline (you

I know we talked offline (you were probably real smart to do that ;) ), but I still have to point out that old awful propensity of yours to lash out at others when you're feeling under pressure. It's a weakness that has caused you to do shitty things, going back years. But still, two chicks take their pants off for you and suck your dick, which you apparently can't handle, and so you yell at some 17 yr old kid? I mean... whatever, fuck'em you gotta kick people the fuck out under those circumstances. But dude.. what kinda pressure were you feeling from two chicks blowing you? And going down on each other? Did you feel betrayed by your girlfriend letting another girl go down on her? That's so beta. You shoulda just started rotating them on and off your dick. And yelling at them in cursive. 

Why didn't you just stay in the room? Why'd you have to leave? You'd already kicked his ass out. Ain't no one going back in there when you got TWO girls with their pants off in there with you. They're all waiting eagerly to shake your hand afterwards and congratulate themselves on meeting a real life hero.

The truth is you got scared and made an exit.

Wtf?? Don't you understand the POINT of all this? Fuck you dude. Get the fuck over that weakness and fear. It's fucking old shitty fake news 

don't want to make this easy for you. If you can't get over this weak business you're an idiot and a pussy.  Because you've got all the tools. You know full fucking well your mind is playing tricks on you. To keep you in check. You're not prey, dude. Stop acting like it. You should have a lot more physiological control over yourself by now. Mental and emotional control, awareness of stupid propensities like this, where they stem from, what triggers them. You should be in control by now. 

__________________

The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away. - William Shakespeare & Pablo Picasso

I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student

Have you read the "Best Of MW's Forum" threads on Verbal Seduction, Physical Escalation & Sexual Mastery? Begin your education: Best of Manwhore.org/forum:

The ONLY Real "Drills-Based" Seduction Training:

Tap Or Click For More Information

Offline
Joined: 01/18/2012
This is a recent video I made
__________________

The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away. - William Shakespeare & Pablo Picasso

I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student

Have you read the "Best Of MW's Forum" threads on Verbal Seduction, Physical Escalation & Sexual Mastery? Begin your education: Best of Manwhore.org/forum:

The ONLY Real "Drills-Based" Seduction Training:

Tap Or Click For More Information

Meow's picture
Offline
Joined: 03/27/2013
Like I said offline, I could

Like I said offline, I could have been nicer to the kid, but he must have had some issue with seeing me with two girls in his room. He walked in the first time and I told him to get out, and then he comes back again, which prompted me to tell him to "get the fuck out!" After this snap he tells me it is his room and gets his father to kick me out. I should have told the kid to give me a few minutes, knowing the circumstances that he's a bit odd. I was actually trying to be territorial and make this happen because i'm usually too passive to even isolate the girls. If I was more comfortable with the situation I would have been on point and handled all parties accordingly

All of that being said, I was still lacking control of myself too. I wasn't embarrassed to be in that situation as me and my girl have had sex in some pretty public settings before, but I was thrown off the fact that the friend was trying to run the show, which was probably an effect of my passiveness. I thought it was beautiful when she went down on my girl, but I wasn't being authoritative enough to make it go down the way I wanted it to. When I snapped back to reality and both girls were sucking my cock, I was being harrassed by people coming in and out. It was still awesome, I never meant to make this look like I fucked shit up and dissapointed everyone, me and my girl both really enjoyed it and thats why we are open to do it again. I just wish that I handled everything better and fucked em' both all night long. Actually, If I really was on point I would have just ubered back to my place with both of them.

That video is fucking great, that's exacty what I was looking for posting this. I think I now have a good idea how to lead the interaction. I like the concept of having the other girl as a play toy, It seems like it will comforting to my girl and open up possibilites to have fun with the other girl while still keeping my girl the priority. Thank you :D