15 day Xmas challenge
Fri, 12/21/2012 - 01:09
On month 2 of Manwhore coaching seshes so, as I'm on leave from work, I'm taking a 15 day challenge over the festive break. Blam.
Day 1:
Went out mid-afternoon, grabbed some Dim Sum with a bud, caught up and talked about his oneitis problem with this chick. He knows I'm into the game (he himself isn't), so he values my opinion on chicks. I basically tell him make a move and move on - if it works out, great, if it doesn't, leave. I think he finds it hard to digest but whatevs, he'll get there sooner or later.
See him off and then catch up with a wing around 6 and hit the streeeets. My wing is only around for a little bit as he's got a day 2, so we catch up very briefly. When he heads off, I open a cutie as she's walking on by. I realise I still get a little AA so I remedy by going for a directions opener warm-up. "Excuse me (loud commanding tone) - where's blablablabla". She says she doesn't know as she's a tourist from Germany, so I chat to her for a bit, fluff it out. When I say "cool, well, nice meeting you" and start to walk off, she continues talking to me. So I stay lol. She's not majorly cute, probably barely a 6, but I figure fuck it - she'd still look good bent over a table jammed with my dick. So we continue chatting about Germany, London, all that jazz. Since she's a tourist, I start thinking logistics. Find out she's only around for a couple of weeks - which is more than enough time to bang her three ways from Sunday.
I say "well hey, I've got half an hour to kill - let's grab coffee at the Starbucks nearby". And start walking matter-of-factly towards Starbucks. She says "cool" and follows.
Now there was a problem with this interaction. Since I wasn't initially going to flirt with her, it basically set the tone for the approach as very friend-to-friend and there wasn't much attraction generated. So I had my work cut out for me. I went with it regardless. No empty seats at Starbucks so took her to the local arcade and sat on a couple of arcade motorbikes - lol. Continued chatting, while I'm furiously thinking of ways to make it more man-to-woman. I realise it's distracting me from the interaction so I bring myself to the present. After a little bit I say "yo, we're going to check out Chinatown - it's awesome at this time of the night". She's down so I lead her out and we head over to Chinatown. On the way I'm squeezing her arm, poking her, tapping her while talking, all mild escalation for her to get used to my touch. I get a very distinct feeling that I'm not going to get far with this chick today so, knowing that I wanted to work on bar game today, I tell her "girl, I'll show you some decent places in London - give me your number so I can whatsapp you".
She doesn't have whatsapp (and I'm too cheap to be texting international numbers). So I say "Facebook then".
"I deactivated my Facebook account a little while ago - haha". I tease her on this, and then say "okay - if you don't have an e-mail address either, then you must come from the 19th century". She laughs, I claw her in, and then pull out my phone notepad and give it to her assuming she'll give me her e-mail address. She does. I see her off at the station, and then head back down the streets to try a little more street game before hitting the bars.
I see a cutie walk by so I let her walk by, then jog after her and turn around a couple of metres in front. She walks up and stops as I hold my ground. I go direct, tell her she's cute, etc, and she looks totally confused haha. She says "thanks! Sorry, I was just in a world of my own there." I ask her what she was listening to since she had her earphones in - she says K-pop. LOL. I know a few K-pop artists so I say "Se7en? Rain? Wait - gagnam style???" and tease her. She seems really happy that I know about these people, but then cracks up at gagnam style. We chat for a bit, and it's becoming increasingly clear that she's a little lonely walking around London. She's Romanian, been here for a month, and staying for a year. She's not selling herself very well at all as she starts saying "I see all these people walking around with someone, and it's a bit depressing".
Uh, okay. I get a serious morality clash as she clearly has low self-esteem, but she looks quite fuckable. So I think fuuuck it, instant date.
"We're getting coffee then, let's go". God that's the second Starbucks today. I need to stop hitting that place. I grab her arm and wrap it around mine and march her there.
She's clearly a tad broke as she says she doesn't want to get anything, and she made it sound like she was broke while we were chatting earlier. I get myself a latte and chill, offering her a sip. She doesn't like coffee anyway. But we hit it off. She takes off her coat and I get a boner. She has cute hips. I tease her on all kinds of nonsense - her hate of coffee, how she has self-hate for Romanians, etc etc. I even tell her "Girl - I have heard you complain about everything under the sun so far. Is there anything you DON'T hate?" whilst locking my eyes with hers. She starts to qualify herself, and I'm hoping I made it quite clear that I don't appreciate whiney girls. Of course I realise it's just who she is so I just go with it, projecting my reality, and taking command of the interaction. I squeeze her arm while talking to her, practising some sensual tonality, then bringing it back to engaged and positive. I grab her number as we talk about spicy food. "You been to Nandos? You DON'T KNOW NANDOS?! Ok girl, we're getting Nandos - put your number in my phone". And I hand it to her. Funnily enough she seems hesitant at first. Which is crazy because she's clearly into me. I keep chatting though as if it's nothing, and she says "Give me your number". Haha yeah right. I say "sure - give me a miscall afterwards". She smiles because she knows she's been caught out. There's no way you're getting out of this that easily girl. She calls me there and I save her number as "K-Pop girl", pointing it out to her, as she's saved me as "Tourguide guy" lol.
We bounce out, I grab her around the shoulder and pull her in strong as we walk. She is clearly really into me so it helps me feel comfortable getting physical with her. We chat fluff, a bit of rapport-building, and on the way I spank her to make things a little more sexual when I tease her. When we hit Trafalgar square, I lean against the fountain and pull her in, pressing her up against me. She says "what?" slightly shyly. I say "hi" in a sly way with a smile. I then triangle-gaze her, and go for the kiss. She smiles and turns so her cheek is facing me. I kiss her cheek, then pull away and look at her because I know she wants it. She says "don't kiss me". This does make me hesitate slightly, but I turn to kiss her other cheek, then nibble on her ear.
I then grab her by the hand and lead her around London a little more, chatting in a commanding tone, having that boss daddy thing going on. When we hit one of the bridges over the Thames, I push her against the railing and go for the kiss. she turns her cheek again. I start kissing her ear more and more, saying "girl - your ears are cold, damn". She laughs and says she's a reptile. I then lock eyes with her, and go for the kiss. She says "don't kiss me, please...". Ok I realise her low self-esteem is holding her back. So I say "shhh" and kiss her anyway. She reciprocates - haha. But this low self-esteem bullshit is a bit off-putting. I shake it off and imagine railing her, and I'm turned on again :)
We walk around for a bit more, and she gets more and more into me when I sit on a bench and pull her onto my lap. We make out a bit more heavily, and she's getting way into it. I kiss her ears, her neck, but it's pretty cold so that's as far as we get. She says she needs to go because she has work the next day, so I'm cool with it because I REALLY want to hit a couple of bar approaches. See her off at the station with a spank.
My wing's still on his date (sending me text commentary on how the date's going while he's on the date - WTF LOL), so I hit Aqua by myself and walk in like I'm the man. And then I realise I've never done a good bar approach in my life. And I head straight to the toilets, hahahaha. But no seriously, I needed a whizz, so as good an excuse as any.
When I head back out, I get AA, so I think to myself "okay - fuck it, I need to get used to just opening people at bars". I am a proper newbie when it comes to bar game. So I decide to go for directions openers, asking girls if they know where blablabla is, etc. At one point a girl shrugs but takes me to her friends, two huge black dudes, but the nature of my opener meant that I was cool directing it to them. Got the directions, get a PUA cocktail (water), approached another couple of chicks the same way, then headed back home.
Sent text / e-mail to the chicks I met today on the way back.
All in all, a pretty decent day. I'm quite happy that I did something at the bar considering I was by myself, as opposed to the last time where I barely approached at all.
Onwards.
Day 1:
Went out mid-afternoon, grabbed some Dim Sum with a bud, caught up and talked about his oneitis problem with this chick. He knows I'm into the game (he himself isn't), so he values my opinion on chicks. I basically tell him make a move and move on - if it works out, great, if it doesn't, leave. I think he finds it hard to digest but whatevs, he'll get there sooner or later.
See him off and then catch up with a wing around 6 and hit the streeeets. My wing is only around for a little bit as he's got a day 2, so we catch up very briefly. When he heads off, I open a cutie as she's walking on by. I realise I still get a little AA so I remedy by going for a directions opener warm-up. "Excuse me (loud commanding tone) - where's blablablabla". She says she doesn't know as she's a tourist from Germany, so I chat to her for a bit, fluff it out. When I say "cool, well, nice meeting you" and start to walk off, she continues talking to me. So I stay lol. She's not majorly cute, probably barely a 6, but I figure fuck it - she'd still look good bent over a table jammed with my dick. So we continue chatting about Germany, London, all that jazz. Since she's a tourist, I start thinking logistics. Find out she's only around for a couple of weeks - which is more than enough time to bang her three ways from Sunday.
I say "well hey, I've got half an hour to kill - let's grab coffee at the Starbucks nearby". And start walking matter-of-factly towards Starbucks. She says "cool" and follows.
Now there was a problem with this interaction. Since I wasn't initially going to flirt with her, it basically set the tone for the approach as very friend-to-friend and there wasn't much attraction generated. So I had my work cut out for me. I went with it regardless. No empty seats at Starbucks so took her to the local arcade and sat on a couple of arcade motorbikes - lol. Continued chatting, while I'm furiously thinking of ways to make it more man-to-woman. I realise it's distracting me from the interaction so I bring myself to the present. After a little bit I say "yo, we're going to check out Chinatown - it's awesome at this time of the night". She's down so I lead her out and we head over to Chinatown. On the way I'm squeezing her arm, poking her, tapping her while talking, all mild escalation for her to get used to my touch. I get a very distinct feeling that I'm not going to get far with this chick today so, knowing that I wanted to work on bar game today, I tell her "girl, I'll show you some decent places in London - give me your number so I can whatsapp you".
She doesn't have whatsapp (and I'm too cheap to be texting international numbers). So I say "Facebook then".
"I deactivated my Facebook account a little while ago - haha". I tease her on this, and then say "okay - if you don't have an e-mail address either, then you must come from the 19th century". She laughs, I claw her in, and then pull out my phone notepad and give it to her assuming she'll give me her e-mail address. She does. I see her off at the station, and then head back down the streets to try a little more street game before hitting the bars.
I see a cutie walk by so I let her walk by, then jog after her and turn around a couple of metres in front. She walks up and stops as I hold my ground. I go direct, tell her she's cute, etc, and she looks totally confused haha. She says "thanks! Sorry, I was just in a world of my own there." I ask her what she was listening to since she had her earphones in - she says K-pop. LOL. I know a few K-pop artists so I say "Se7en? Rain? Wait - gagnam style???" and tease her. She seems really happy that I know about these people, but then cracks up at gagnam style. We chat for a bit, and it's becoming increasingly clear that she's a little lonely walking around London. She's Romanian, been here for a month, and staying for a year. She's not selling herself very well at all as she starts saying "I see all these people walking around with someone, and it's a bit depressing".
Uh, okay. I get a serious morality clash as she clearly has low self-esteem, but she looks quite fuckable. So I think fuuuck it, instant date.
"We're getting coffee then, let's go". God that's the second Starbucks today. I need to stop hitting that place. I grab her arm and wrap it around mine and march her there.
She's clearly a tad broke as she says she doesn't want to get anything, and she made it sound like she was broke while we were chatting earlier. I get myself a latte and chill, offering her a sip. She doesn't like coffee anyway. But we hit it off. She takes off her coat and I get a boner. She has cute hips. I tease her on all kinds of nonsense - her hate of coffee, how she has self-hate for Romanians, etc etc. I even tell her "Girl - I have heard you complain about everything under the sun so far. Is there anything you DON'T hate?" whilst locking my eyes with hers. She starts to qualify herself, and I'm hoping I made it quite clear that I don't appreciate whiney girls. Of course I realise it's just who she is so I just go with it, projecting my reality, and taking command of the interaction. I squeeze her arm while talking to her, practising some sensual tonality, then bringing it back to engaged and positive. I grab her number as we talk about spicy food. "You been to Nandos? You DON'T KNOW NANDOS?! Ok girl, we're getting Nandos - put your number in my phone". And I hand it to her. Funnily enough she seems hesitant at first. Which is crazy because she's clearly into me. I keep chatting though as if it's nothing, and she says "Give me your number". Haha yeah right. I say "sure - give me a miscall afterwards". She smiles because she knows she's been caught out. There's no way you're getting out of this that easily girl. She calls me there and I save her number as "K-Pop girl", pointing it out to her, as she's saved me as "Tourguide guy" lol.
We bounce out, I grab her around the shoulder and pull her in strong as we walk. She is clearly really into me so it helps me feel comfortable getting physical with her. We chat fluff, a bit of rapport-building, and on the way I spank her to make things a little more sexual when I tease her. When we hit Trafalgar square, I lean against the fountain and pull her in, pressing her up against me. She says "what?" slightly shyly. I say "hi" in a sly way with a smile. I then triangle-gaze her, and go for the kiss. She smiles and turns so her cheek is facing me. I kiss her cheek, then pull away and look at her because I know she wants it. She says "don't kiss me". This does make me hesitate slightly, but I turn to kiss her other cheek, then nibble on her ear.
I then grab her by the hand and lead her around London a little more, chatting in a commanding tone, having that boss daddy thing going on. When we hit one of the bridges over the Thames, I push her against the railing and go for the kiss. she turns her cheek again. I start kissing her ear more and more, saying "girl - your ears are cold, damn". She laughs and says she's a reptile. I then lock eyes with her, and go for the kiss. She says "don't kiss me, please...". Ok I realise her low self-esteem is holding her back. So I say "shhh" and kiss her anyway. She reciprocates - haha. But this low self-esteem bullshit is a bit off-putting. I shake it off and imagine railing her, and I'm turned on again :)
We walk around for a bit more, and she gets more and more into me when I sit on a bench and pull her onto my lap. We make out a bit more heavily, and she's getting way into it. I kiss her ears, her neck, but it's pretty cold so that's as far as we get. She says she needs to go because she has work the next day, so I'm cool with it because I REALLY want to hit a couple of bar approaches. See her off at the station with a spank.
My wing's still on his date (sending me text commentary on how the date's going while he's on the date - WTF LOL), so I hit Aqua by myself and walk in like I'm the man. And then I realise I've never done a good bar approach in my life. And I head straight to the toilets, hahahaha. But no seriously, I needed a whizz, so as good an excuse as any.
When I head back out, I get AA, so I think to myself "okay - fuck it, I need to get used to just opening people at bars". I am a proper newbie when it comes to bar game. So I decide to go for directions openers, asking girls if they know where blablabla is, etc. At one point a girl shrugs but takes me to her friends, two huge black dudes, but the nature of my opener meant that I was cool directing it to them. Got the directions, get a PUA cocktail (water), approached another couple of chicks the same way, then headed back home.
Sent text / e-mail to the chicks I met today on the way back.
All in all, a pretty decent day. I'm quite happy that I did something at the bar considering I was by myself, as opposed to the last time where I barely approached at all.
Onwards.