Bypassing the sexting problem of increased expectations (Flake Prevention)

Sometimes girls feel too much expectations on them if you take it too far over text. I'm referring to sexting.

If you're going to sext with a girl you have to get ahead of the river and direct her interpretation of the sexting and how she should envision future meetups between you two. If you just let her go her usual mental course, she will get nervous before the date and not show up. This is to be EXPECTED.. girls have lots of life experiences that back have taught her to do this! So you must define things between you and her in a way that's mutually beneficial, or she will automatically lump you into the same "creeper" category.

So following this line of thought, and assuming you've just been sexting, a nice "I'm going to fuck you. May not be the first time I see you, but it's going to happen" will let her know you're not going to try to jump her bones as soon as you see her, and that you're aware there's more to this whole "meetup" thing than sex. It means you're emotionally aware and experienced with "guy/girl" stuff.

There are other ways of handling this as well. You can:

- Make sex seem a super casual thing
- Set up false barriers
- Keep the focus on something asides sex, like:
-- Not being able to sit there normally without being horny
-- Her being a sexual predator, and you telling your mom you'd be good (false barrier)
-- Making sure things were "normal" between you guys (e.g. accusing her doing the exact thing she suspects you might do- make things awkward)