How to make her reconsider
Thu, 05/09/2013 - 05:46
Went on a 1st date with this girl some time around last week. Met her off of POF
We had a 1hour-ish meeting outside an ice cream place before I had to drop her off.
She asked me to hit her up again when I wanted to hang out.
There was physicality but I hadn't kissed her yet for whatever reason.
Anyways we've been texting back and forth ever since. I tried calling her in between but she never picks up, saying shit like
"Sorry i'm in the car/ I was on the phone with my bff but i'm going to bed now too/I'm watching a movie"
Anyways I tried to get her out today, but she gave me more excuses. Was Heere is what went down:
5/6/2013
ME: Tasty food to take out and beach day for us gangsters :) what's your schedule looking like this week
HER: Free besides the times I box
ME: Cool, i'm free Wednesday after 5, i'll call you in a bit
*call, no response* *She texts right away*
HER: Hey i'm watching a movie
ME: Without me Brittany that's a crime
HER: Lol don't trip chocolate chip
ME: haha dork ;) Have you watched Ted?
ME: Actually "21 and over"
HER: I've seen ted i haven't heard of the other one
ME: If you enjoyed project x or superbad, this movie is for us. When is it a good time to call, i'm snuggling with my pillow soon
*called her 20 mins later anyways*
HER: Sorry I was on my phone w my bff for a min, but i'm about to go to bed too
5/8/2013
ME: Psst!
HER: Hey what's up
ME: Not going to eat out but i'm doing to hang out girl! (Meant to say "down")
HER: Huh? lol
ME: 21 and over or american wedding
HER: For a movie?
ME: uhm fuck yeah! :D We may need to go out and get popcorn 1st though!
HER: Aw haha.... I'm hella sick
Honestly my gut tells me she is playing hard to get lol. what's a response for this
We had a 1hour-ish meeting outside an ice cream place before I had to drop her off.
She asked me to hit her up again when I wanted to hang out.
There was physicality but I hadn't kissed her yet for whatever reason.
Anyways we've been texting back and forth ever since. I tried calling her in between but she never picks up, saying shit like
"Sorry i'm in the car/ I was on the phone with my bff but i'm going to bed now too/I'm watching a movie"
Anyways I tried to get her out today, but she gave me more excuses. Was Heere is what went down:
5/6/2013
ME: Tasty food to take out and beach day for us gangsters :) what's your schedule looking like this week
HER: Free besides the times I box
ME: Cool, i'm free Wednesday after 5, i'll call you in a bit
*call, no response* *She texts right away*
HER: Hey i'm watching a movie
ME: Without me Brittany that's a crime
HER: Lol don't trip chocolate chip
ME: haha dork ;) Have you watched Ted?
ME: Actually "21 and over"
HER: I've seen ted i haven't heard of the other one
ME: If you enjoyed project x or superbad, this movie is for us. When is it a good time to call, i'm snuggling with my pillow soon
*called her 20 mins later anyways*
HER: Sorry I was on my phone w my bff for a min, but i'm about to go to bed too
5/8/2013
ME: Psst!
HER: Hey what's up
ME: Not going to eat out but i'm doing to hang out girl! (Meant to say "down")
HER: Huh? lol
ME: 21 and over or american wedding
HER: For a movie?
ME: uhm fuck yeah! :D We may need to go out and get popcorn 1st though!
HER: Aw haha.... I'm hella sick
Honestly my gut tells me she is playing hard to get lol. what's a response for this
Thu, 05/09/2013 - 06:22
#1
Ya nvm, i'm wasting my time
Ya nvm, i'm wasting my time with her lol
Thu, 05/09/2013 - 06:25
#2
idk if you do this but I
idk if you do this but I ALWAYS try to bang on the first date/day 2/hang out. I found out by going on dates that some girls like won't talk to you after you chill or something happens where you can't meet up with them again or something. So I learned to bang on the first date cause you might not get a second chance.
Thu, 05/09/2013 - 12:54
#3
yeah your texting looks weak
yeah your texting looks weak sauce, too needy.
don't call so much, it's overcommunicating.
don't call so much, it's overcommunicating.