Lay report: girls first girl/girl makeout turned threesome
There's not a lot of context here, the following is an excerpt of an email I shot over to man houre with whom I've been Skype coaching. He asked if I would post it for you guys:
Boss shit.
I need to find a chick like this. I'm getting bored with the girls I've been seeing on the regular. Need to spice things up. Respect
I thought I'd add just one quick note about this just in case it helps any of you guys. Not too long ago a story like this would have been pretty far removed from my reality, ie. I wouldn't have imagined something like this going down so casually. Obviously the same is true for this girl, Kelly. Coaching with Jonny Whorebanger has led me to several stories not unlike this one mainly because he was able to infect me with the attitude that its not such a big deal, it natural and its not really weird at all. Since I've integrated that mindset I've been able to transfer that attitude onto my girl and since we're both very comfortable with it, it's very easy to make other girls comfortable with it too. Throughout the night I could see that Kelly was a bit uneasy at times early on but gradually warmed up to the idea because she was taking cues primarily from me, also from my girl and falling into a relaxed, aroused sexual state.
If I were to turn this ideology into practical advice I'd say: don't get drawn into addressing her objections or concerns if you can avoid it. For instance, if she says something like "what about this other girl?" "I'm not doing a threesome" "I'm not having sex tonight", try and avoid getting drawn into the conversation and try to bring her back into the moment. "It's fine" "don't worry about it" "it's no big deal" "who said anything about sex, slow the fuck down". And just carry on and lead her into something fun, stay calm and present, and just keep working on escalating.
Yeah, this is a fucking AWESOME lay report.
That's cool as fuck.
Awesome work A.J.
Lol, what exactly did you say to Kelly when she resisted going into the bedroom dude?
We were physically pulling her a bit despite some token resistance. I was letting her know she was safe and that she could do whatever she wants, basically just telling her that we just wanted to continue what we were doing somewhere more comfortable. My buddy Alex gave me a smooth line that I have yet to use "you don't have to worry about sex, my girl and I are both going to get laid anyway so you can decide for yourself". Once we got to the bed the resistance came off and shit got crazy, lol. Good times.
going out with this girl friday night
Holy fuck dude. this right here is more than inspiring
I'll bump this one too, its interesting re-reading this. My girl and I did a pretty good job closing this one but I probably could have gone a lot more dominant here. She was clearly into it