LR: First hookup of the year

So yeah I turned 21 on January 4th, which means i finally get to go out clubbing with the roomies and putting in work.

The following Wednesday however I went with a male acquaintance, Nick. I had zero expectations going out with him.

I mean I like Nick's intense enthusiasm to get girls, but he's very uncalibrated in the field and easily beats me to the drinking finish line.

I drove us to this local bar where fellow students thrive on that night and drunks sing their hearts out on the Kareoke. The place looked more like a busy convention with a bar than anything. 

Anyways Nick hooked us up with a free pitcher of beer each, then we made our way through the loud crowd. Nothing special happened for the longest time. I chatted up a few sets and offended one by calling out this Asian girl for resembling a witch *shrug* 

Towards the end of the night this blonde crossed paths with me as I was pushing people out of my way. I believe she initiated contact by snatching my arm, and eventually dragging me to one end of the room lol. Needless to say things escalated quickly with make-outs, dancing and rubbing. I don't think we talked that much. Another thing I should point out is that her reflexes were slightly off, so I suspected she's had a bit to drink....whatever. With time progressing, Blondie was trying to dig her hand down my jeans and struggling. I eventually pushed her hand out because I didn't want my dick out in there, admittedly. So my eyes started scanning around for a place to isolate her in this unfamiliar venue. The only option I had was to leave the venue altogether and my car was no more than 200m away. So I attempted to lead her out but it took a few attemtps. The first time we didn't even make it past the security guards. Blondie resisted hard and dragged me back into the crowd. The 2nd time we FINALLY made it past security and onto the curb, before she threw the same shit. I was like "You want it? if you want it you're coming with me" and more. I definitely could have been more aggressive here and done something like lift her away. I won't lie though I rationalized the guards coming after me for it lol, I chilled. I knew she was playing hard to get but i was getting a bit frustrated inside. I wanted to cut my losses and settle for the number, but she wasn't having it. I was baffled.

We got back inside, I guess some other black dude Blondie met earlier called her over and she went. I walked off only to later find out they were baking out :/... Sloppy second ass motherfucker.

Ironically, 10mins later I caught her walking through the venue like she's looking for something. I made a lousy attempt to avoid her but she grabbed me. She tried to kiss me which I dodged, she was kissing all over my neck. My attitude changed back, so I grabbed her to make a final pull attempt. I got resistance at the exit again, so i threw a gamble move... FUCK IT. I squeezed out of her grip, carelessly told her "I'm leaving" turned my back and I walked out without looking back. I've pulled this off before as a test to see if she'll follow, but I was also fed up. She didn't and I was honestly surprised. Because I did this once before and got laid off of it, still need to write the LR.

Anyways I parked my car right in front of the club and told Nick to hit me up when he's ready to leave. 20mins went by, the club started emptying, and Nick wanted to stand around to hit up leaving sets. Blondie inevitably came out with a male friend and dismissed him when she saw me. She walked straight to my car and had him hop on the bus taking everyone back to our college town alone. At the time, my dumb ass thought she was going to join him as the bus was waiting. Meanwhile Nick was trying to get her to come home with us, and I was kind of retaliating... Won't go into the boring details. Blondie opened my passenger door and shoved me in the backseat, closed the door behind her. We started making out and I got her top off but sex/BJ was a no-go. She didn't seem comfortable right outside the club between my car alarm constantly going off and Nick trying to come in the car. I ended up taking over the lead and driving us home. We got to my house where I fumbled a little along the way but we fucked. I came quicker than I wanted because she was tight as fuck.  Throughought the night though she kept on waking me up all romantic and kissing me/caughing/wanting to go for another round. I had already kicked my roomie when she came so i resisted since he was getting fed up after my 2nd round. I could have taken her to the bathroom in hindsight but I had a limited sense of imagination that night. She left that morning leaving me with her panties on my bedpost (will take pic later) What baffled my mind that night is that i've never met a hook-up that acted so attached in the bedroom, solid gf material.

I managed to find her off of FB several days later. I did initially hesitate going for the number when she left considering that she also refused to hand it out prior to getting into my car. I sent her a lame message which she viewed without response. I'll try and invite her to something exciting.