Nye last night report
Wed, 01/02/2013 - 03:25
p.s. apologize for the typing. i am in commute and typing on my mobile station and a little hung over.
the general theme of the night: was enforcing the will, putting myself as the "leaders" - something literally clicked lst night . I dont know what it was otehr than i felt 2012 went by quick.
it started off as me trying the "usual" method -- me chatting her up and then bailingi take the number and bail. i nside i cringe. later on, after that it went different.
i just kept re-opening her. there was a time where she said she was going to the bathroom but never came back, i went over to her as she was talking to some white dude, and started going off on her like we were married " i leave you alone for 2 mins, and your all redy talking to someone else" lol
at this point, i know i am pissed off she went off to the other dude, but i know i have destiny in my hands and i have to "make" whatever happens. Enforce her RAS. I know I have to lead the fuck out of her, and to the bar we go. then were at the bar, chit chat a bit , i tell her lets go downstairs. She starts to object saying " it wil be boring down there' I ignore her objection, tell her, "it doesn't matter, were going downstairs". Walk off like A president. put her in the chair opposite me, i plop in next to her. LIke a BOSS
at this point i also go on and tell her , i am the expert at "northern drinks" I am going to take her to "union square' and fed her samples of diffrent northern sytle drinks. lol
at this point , i dont remember the exact conversation but it went like " i dont know what (she) wants" and some other blah blah indicating her luke warm or unsure nature of our relationship. Shes acting liek this becuase I didn't set the frame. and she feels that. SHE NEEDS TO BE TOLD AT THIS POINT what the terms of our relationship are , and have anothers WIll enforced on her,
we sit down, i tell her something along these lines. " listen , i know what the best thing for you , and i am going to give ti you. I am the best person for you in this entire room " saying this half jokingly and half serious. Yea! BAM !!! she was luke warm to me, i needed to say this, because it showed, i was trully in command, and in charge . she was testing to see if i was 'in charge" of the situation. IT didn't matter what i said but the way i said it showed I was in command. Being in command feels more natural than ever once u "understand" it deep inside. i believe this could have been a shit test and i never even saw it, but maybe not, but it allowed me to project the over confidence, that "i know what she wants and i am going to give it ot her. I am the best for her" credit MW for telling me how to enforce the frame, your will on to her. this really turned her on for some reason because she started to tell me how much she liked me after wards.
I go on and tell her " , i just saved you from that white boy etc"
. i felt her get wet from this alone. at this point, there are two things going on, a)i am coming from the frame of leader/ b) i am free expressing myself unhibitied. c) i have surpreme assurity and conviction d) i am enforceing it shoving it down her throat. so awesome.
were then cuddling ourselves next to each other, we leave together. we go on the train and she comes up to me and cuddles.
if it wasn't for the getting lost this would have been a sleepover & fuck
the general theme of the night: was enforcing the will, putting myself as the "leaders" - something literally clicked lst night . I dont know what it was otehr than i felt 2012 went by quick.
it started off as me trying the "usual" method -- me chatting her up and then bailingi take the number and bail. i nside i cringe. later on, after that it went different.
i just kept re-opening her. there was a time where she said she was going to the bathroom but never came back, i went over to her as she was talking to some white dude, and started going off on her like we were married " i leave you alone for 2 mins, and your all redy talking to someone else" lol
at this point, i know i am pissed off she went off to the other dude, but i know i have destiny in my hands and i have to "make" whatever happens. Enforce her RAS. I know I have to lead the fuck out of her, and to the bar we go. then were at the bar, chit chat a bit , i tell her lets go downstairs. She starts to object saying " it wil be boring down there' I ignore her objection, tell her, "it doesn't matter, were going downstairs". Walk off like A president. put her in the chair opposite me, i plop in next to her. LIke a BOSS
at this point i also go on and tell her , i am the expert at "northern drinks" I am going to take her to "union square' and fed her samples of diffrent northern sytle drinks. lol
at this point , i dont remember the exact conversation but it went like " i dont know what (she) wants" and some other blah blah indicating her luke warm or unsure nature of our relationship. Shes acting liek this becuase I didn't set the frame. and she feels that. SHE NEEDS TO BE TOLD AT THIS POINT what the terms of our relationship are , and have anothers WIll enforced on her,
we sit down, i tell her something along these lines. " listen , i know what the best thing for you , and i am going to give ti you. I am the best person for you in this entire room " saying this half jokingly and half serious. Yea! BAM !!! she was luke warm to me, i needed to say this, because it showed, i was trully in command, and in charge . she was testing to see if i was 'in charge" of the situation. IT didn't matter what i said but the way i said it showed I was in command. Being in command feels more natural than ever once u "understand" it deep inside. i believe this could have been a shit test and i never even saw it, but maybe not, but it allowed me to project the over confidence, that "i know what she wants and i am going to give it ot her. I am the best for her" credit MW for telling me how to enforce the frame, your will on to her. this really turned her on for some reason because she started to tell me how much she liked me after wards.
I go on and tell her " , i just saved you from that white boy etc"
. i felt her get wet from this alone. at this point, there are two things going on, a)i am coming from the frame of leader/ b) i am free expressing myself unhibitied. c) i have surpreme assurity and conviction d) i am enforceing it shoving it down her throat. so awesome.
were then cuddling ourselves next to each other, we leave together. we go on the train and she comes up to me and cuddles.
if it wasn't for the getting lost this would have been a sleepover & fuck