tinder convo...dealing with serious flakiness, I may have worked it out
I have made plans with this girl twice, and both times she just dissapears and doesn't get back to me. It became clear that I had to shift my style and add some drama to grab her attention. There is some evidence she may be going through some shit in her life because she did at one point say her life is a mess so I am just trying to manage whatever her head set is. Oh yeah she may have a kid too lol not sure about that! Anyways, this is my fourth time reenaging her.
Me: send meme that says "do you realize that we live in a world where people lick each other's buttholes yet some of you still complain about double dipping chips"
Her: oh my
Her: those are both bad bad things
Me: yeah your right
Me: I would get pretty mad if you double dipped chips around me
Her: Now im going to make sure I do
Me: yeah but we never hang
Her: its sad
Me: we've been close
Me:if im too weird for you its okay you can tell me
Her: if you were too weird I would have blocked your number
Me: oh it seems like you never wanna hang
Her: no im just always doing stupid stuff
Me: Same here lol
Me: we should find a time that actually works for us its worth a shot
Her: yeah I agree
Her: I feel like we're both equally weird
Her: might mesh well
Her: or we might hate each other
Her: all part of the fun right
Me: sounds interesing to me :)
Me: so next week is so busy with finals, however, we should grab a quick coffee/tea
Her: or the week after if thats better I mean even when you're home your close
Me: As long as its quick like starbucks I can take a quick break from school
Me: what about thursday?
her: I work 3-10
Me: hmmm how about friday night thats the only other day that works for me
Her: that should worlk
Me: kewl, we will smooth out the details mid week
Not very gamey at all, but when I framed some fun dates she just didn't bite. I went on a little bit more of a serious route here and called her out for never hanging out.