Lay report - post Manwhore Skype sessions

Back-story on me. I’ve done street game for about a year, on and off, mixed results. I’ve only gotten one lay, and that was months ago and I had to see the chick 3 – 4 times before it happened. Last month, I took up Manwhore skype sessions. And I’ve noticed an interesting momentum gain with my results…as you’ll see below.

So back-story for this chick – met her during street game. Took her on a first date – got as far as making out but nothing really beyond that. Got a lot of resistance when I tried to take it sexual. In a way, Manwhore and I figured there was a chance I could’ve lost the window of opportunity when it came up and so she resisted. But somehow I managed to get another date with her, so here it goes.

I headed out of the station and saw Romanian chick sitting down on a bench, waiting for me. I go in and start things off warmly right off the bat by hugging and kissing her on the cheek. Said what's up and asked her if she waited long, to which she replied "a few minutes". I give her a sly smile and say "haha now you had to wait for me" as she was late to the previous catchup.

I tell her we're grabbing a sandwich first so we hit the local sandwich shop, and sit down to catch up. I start to amp it up a little bit by touching her leg when speaking, hi5s, all that stuff. We fluff it, talk about things she needs to do in London, etc. After we've munched our mini dinners, I say "come on" and lead her out of the shop.

We walk down to a bar nearby, and on the way I grab her hand. Caressing it as we walk, pushing her away when teasing, pulling her back in when I wanted her close to me again. I was determined for this to be about what I wanted, and not to do what I did last time where I would look to her and assess whether she wanted something or not.

Now I love this bar that we've arrived at. Taken a few dates here already, as well as a female buddy. It has a few fussball tables and is basically a fussball bar. So I take Romanian chick in there, grab a drink, and we chill because this place is super-packed for some reason and all the tables are taken up. We sit close to one so we could grab it as soon as it became ready. In the meantime, we totally cosy it up. I’m getting in there, squeezing her leg, poking her side, teasing and fluffing, pushing and then pulling away if and when I realise I’m giving her too much attention (I’m not so good at push-pull, so for now I just stick with the rule that if I think I’m too into her, I pull away to ensure she’s not smothered and feels an empty space where my attention used to be). I then just feel like kissing her, so I bring myself closer to her and just kiss her. She’s into it – awesome.

The fussball table becomes available so I proceed to whoop her ass at it, naturally. Beat her 3 games to 0. I try my best to keep it chilled and show that it’s no biggie that I’ve won, but it takes me a LOT of restraint haha. There were a couple of innuendos thrown in, naturally. For example, if the ball got stuck in between players and wouldn’t move, I’d just be all nonchalant and say “it’s your turn to blow on the ball now”. At one point a dude comes along and asks if we want to play doubles against him and his girlfriend. I’m thinking it’ll be fun, and after my winning streak I’m confident. When we started playing against them though, that confidence soon became horror lol. These guys were like fussball pros or something – I’ve never seen the ball fly so fast. Needless to say, we got murdered. Even when she sucked during the game, I’d claw her in and say things like “no worries” / “you got this girl!” / etc. But anyways, as humiliating as the defeat was, and probably not all that attractive to her, I took it like a man and gave them both a strong hand-shake of congratulations.

We grab more drinks, and after some kissing (I completely forget that we got beaten bahaha), I bounce her out. Now Manwhore told me a little about RAS. I’d known about it from RSD for a while, but honestly I was RAS-ing for secluded spots like crazy. I’d pull her in, just stand in said secluded spot, and we’d make out heavily. I’d grab her ass, her waist, hips, squeeze her up against me, just getting really intense. I don’t go for the crotch-grab / boob-squeeze just yet since the last time I tried that on the previous date, I got resistance. I wanted to keep her on her toes because I had this feeling she was just tensing to resist for anything that sexual. So I didn’t give her the chance ;)

We kept strolling around random alleyways, dark corners, but there’d always be someone walking past. That phased me in the last date, so this time I would squeeze her ass and really pull her in but I noticed she started to tense up when people walked past. She’d push away slightly so I could tell the public thing actually did phase her lol. Cool. I grabbed her hand, and we walked. Girl knows central London like the palm of her hand so she becomes my tourguide for the night. I’m still RAS-ing for secluded spots but it just isn’t happening. Then suddenly she says “you know what would be awesome – if we explored London for the whole night”. My face is chilled, but inside I’m like WTF GIRL IS YOU CRAZY. But my dick starts to think, and it believes this would be a good choice. I concur with dick. So I tell her “Haha girl you’re crazy – but I like crazy.”

She doesn’t seem to believe I’m down for this for some reason, probably because it’s a work night and we’d be risking going to work feeling like zombies. But I’m like “Yo – let’s do it. Be spontaneous”, I say this with a wink because it’s something she tried to use against me before hahaha. She laughs and says “Alright, but if we do this I need to get more layers back at my place, it’s too cold”. My dick starts to think uncontrollably. I chill and I say “That’d be a smart idea girl – you look like you’re about shiver your teeth off”. I say this whilst clawing her in and getting her to snuggle up to me.

So we grab a bus and bounce back to her place. I notice that on the way, she would occasionally glance at me – as if assessing my reaction to us going back to her place. I, of course, do not give a damn and am just in the present, enjoying the moment and teasing and fucking around with her. At one point she says “by the way, two things I want to bring up. One…don’t expect anything too fancy. My place is a bit of a dump.” I reply “cool – I’m not expecting this to be MTV cribs”. She then says, “…and two. Don’t try anything while we’re there.” She says this with such seriousness that I almost burst out laughing, but instead I just reply “I have no idea what you’re talking about”, with the most slight of sly smiles.

We head into her place, being really quiet so as not to wake up her roomie. I get her to give me a mini ‘tour’ of her room. Tease her on her teddy bears. I then make out with her in her bedroom. I start stroking her back and all that good stuff. She’s smiling like she knows what I’m up to. That’s cool, I’m not exactly trying to hide it. I pull away, and tease her about other nonsense in her room. Once she gets wrapped up for the cold, I sit down on the bed and try to pull her close. She resists and says “Haha I don’t think so”. I respond “That’s cool, I’ll just lie here and get comfy for a little bit”, to which she says “You do that”. So I lie down on the bed and get comfy. For a whole minute. Then I get up as she throws on another layer or two and I make out with her again, kissing her neck, etc. I could feel she may resist again so I figure I’ll change things up a bit and decide to myself that fuck it, I’ll sexually escalate behind a bush outside if I have to. So I spank her and say “come on, let’s go” and lead her back outside.

So essentially we didn’t explore the WHOLE of London, because that would’ve taken weeks. But she knew her side of London well enough that we would walk from famous station to famous station, e.g. King’s Cross, etc etc. I’d fluff with her, tease her, take her to creepy dark alleyways, looking for a spot where it’s actually isolated and no one will disturb us. But it’s so weird because even at 2am people are walking around in these creepy places lol. So I never really get far, and even when it is quiet enough, she resists any touching which gets sexual. But I’m chilled, quite literally on occasion. We talk about some funny topics – at one point we talk about girls and their fantasy of rape lol. I’m all like “don’t get me wrong – rape is just plain bullshit. But it’s funny how actually a lot of girls fantasise about it”. Yadda yadda ya, we discuss it and other stuff, etc. I could tell that she was starting to get a feel for what kind of person I was, that I wasn’t the kind of guy who would let his ego take over, that I was a genuine and I acted with my intentions in mind. There was definitely a lot of trust being built. When we would get to a junction, she’d say so and so was to the left, and so and so was to the right. I would pause, look both left and right, and then just randomly choose a direction with mafuggin conviction and pull her that way. So I was definitely developing a leadership dynamic with her.

But after walking around the edge of Regent’s park for a while, I start getting super cold and I tell her “okay let’s get sensible about this girl – where’s the nearest bus to get back to your place, because we will need a backup plan if things get too cold”. She agrees and points. It’s in the direction we’re walking so all is good. When we arrive at the bus stop we’ve already agreed by then that it’s time to call it a night and head back. At one point she says something like “I won’t fall for your tricks”. This pisses me off a little as I’m not doing anything ‘tricky’ lol. But I tell her straight up, grab her arm and say “Girl, know this – there are no tricks here. I’m in the moment, and that’s all I care about right now.” Something like that anyway. She nods and we grab the bus. Seriously, I’m preaching some serious Eckhart material to this cutie. I even tell her about it and recommend she check it out.

We get back to her place and I take my shoes off because quite frankly I want to make myself at home in her room. She gives me a funny look but I pay it no mind and pop my feet up on her mini-radiator. Ah it felt soo good. London has gotten crazy cold recently, it’s silly. As she takes her coat off, I just think fuck it, get up and go straight for her neck. We have a running joke that she’s a Romanian vampire so I do a gentle bite of her neck – she doesn’t resist. Her neck is so warm. So I kiss around it, and on the collarbone. I then slide her shirt up and she tries to resist and I keep going anyway whilst saying “girl, I’m just going to stroke your back”. She relaxes and I stroke her back while reaching up and kissing her.

I then pull away and sit myself down. She gives me a funny look again but then sits down next to me. I kiss her again, and this time I let myself stroke right up her back under her shirt, and up to her shoulders, giving them a little squeeze. I tell her to turn around. When she doesn’t I lead her around myself by squeezing her shoulders until she does. I then start massaging her back because it’s damn warm and it feels good to my fingers. I’m sure she wasn’t complaining much either. I then reach down and go to unfasten her bra, to which she pulls away and says “I don’t think so”. I shrug and just pop back on the bed, and chill. She seems a little phased by this, but again I pay it no mind. She gets changed into her PJs out in the bathroom and walks back in.

I start talking to her about her room, little things I’ve noticed, I comment on how her room looks really organised, and how I figured she was the practical sensible type. She scoffs at this and starts telling me that I’ve caught her on a good day because usually her room is an absolute tip. I laugh and get comfy on her bed. Then I sit back up, and kiss her again. I pull away, and lie back, then pull her into me and we lie down on the bed together. She snuggles up, and man it feels good – haha. But there’s no way I’m stopping there. This girl is cute, and I’m railing her tonight. After a few minutes of snuggling and making out, I get up and lie down on top of her, propping myself up with my elbows. She smiles, and I pull my shirt off. She gives me a funny look again lol. I reach in and kiss her, and we continue making out. She starts running her fingers up my back, and I instantly know it’s ON. I don’t know what it was, but this whole time the only reason why I kept pushing to get sexual with her was because in the back of my mind I had this assumption that it WILL happen. I just have to help her get there. I had never felt so sure about something like this before, but hey – my calm escalation was clearly turning her on. I kept giving her strong eye contact throughout, sexual predator look and all, but at the same time either using humour or a little smile here and there to indicate to her that I was going to take care of her tonight.

I reach in underneath her shirt, and start squeezing her tits. I continue making out with her, and I don’t just stop at her tits. I squeeze her shoulders, above her hips, and then I reach down and try to kiss her waist, but she pulls me back up. Whatever girl, it’s going to happen one way or another. We basically do this for another few minutes, when I just pull her shirt off and keep going anyway. I could tell she was very turned on. I reached down and started massaging her between her legs over her bottoms. I continue to stroke up and down her leg. I tell her “you know – it’s funny, it’s like this is a test of how disciplined we can be”. She smiles and says “yeah, whether we can control ourselves”. When she said this, I smile and squeeze her tits, her ass, and then we’re basically dry humping at this point. After a minute, I take everything but my boxers off.

I take off her bottoms, and start kissing her all the way down her legs, and then she takes her thong off. I go down on her, teasing and all, a little concerned in my head because it’s been a few months since I’ve been in a bed with a chick, but I shake it off, get present, and start eating her out. She tastes hella good, I’m pleasantly surprised. It gives me more incentive to go to town on her, so I lick that hard and the most epic thing happens. She comes within a minute. I felt so fucking PIMP. She’s totally writhing, waves hitting her, and totally not faking it. As she’s coming, I try to go for it again but she keeps me away as her orgasm continues. Well, cool girl, you’re getting fucked next.

Of course by this point I realise I have no fucking condom. DAMN IT. I wasn’t prepared. Rookie mistake. I go up to kiss her and she kisses me passionately, so I squeeze her bare ass and kiss her hard. She then reaches down under my boxers and squeezes my dick. Oh female touch how I missed thee. I pull my boxers off, but I tell myself that I’m NOT fucking her without a condom, despite how good she looks.

I tell her, while sliding her leg to the side so I’m kind of spooning her, “I hate you right now. Getting me so turned on.” She laughs and kisses me while turning her head around, and my dick is right up against her ass cheek. She then gets up suddenly, marches to her drawer, and pulls out a condom. Halle-fucking-luiah. I pop that bad boy on, push her down on the bed, and push myself into her. FUCK YES. I start to mentally do an Oscar speech. Thanks to my fam, my mentors, my imaginary pet dog that I don’t really own, etc. I was a little concerned that I would bust my nut within a minute myself, but for some reason I’m a little more relaxed than usual. I bring myself to the present, focusing on all the sensations, my body, her body, her gentle moans, etc.

She has the most fucking sexy sex-face, it’s awesome.

Of course, as it’s been a few months since the last time I had sex, despite all my Tolle-practice I come within 3 – 4 minutes anyway. But fuck it, it was damn good sex. I tell her “damn you feel good”.

We clean up, she hands me spare basketball shorts, and we snuggle for the remaining hour of the night. Yup, I was going to go to work with no sleep. But fuck it – totally worth it.