OKC gal
Thu, 03/07/2013 - 09:25
-OKcupid
ME: Psst! Want to join my new gang?
HER: New gang... depends on how exclusive it is... :)))
ME: Fuck yeah.
We roll around town throwing up gang signs, vandalizing idiotic things like shopping carts or dumpsters, maybe even robbing a bank
Can you handle that?
HER: You should be aware that they monitor all conversations here, you're gonna have FBI at your door tmr morning :)))) well I can offer some czech skills :)
ME: Oh snap! That's right we can't compromise
Text me your name and resume, I'm clearly unaware of any Czech specialties!
805 *** ***
HER: You don't need my resume... I'm a cute girl older than you... and lady... so there is my number 805-***-****
-Phone
ME 10:24 PM: Psst! So it looks like we have 12+ hours to mingle before the FBI comes to fetch me ;) _Guru
HER 10:26PM: Shall I just wait if they will come for you before saving your number?
ME 10:37PM: I need you come rescue me. I'll be disguised as a beach bum enjoying his pinkberry ;) What is you schedule looking like this week
HER 10:39PM: Lol... I gotta go to the gym don't have time for rescuing guys... even cute guys
HER 10: 40PM: Why? Are you planning on breaking into a bank? I could use some money
ME 10:51PM: Haha I love your enthusiasm for adventures. You live downtown?
HER 10:52PM: Yep... two blocks from *** st.... You? Do you go to *community college*?
ME 10:58PM: yes *community college*, it's beautiful. I work on *** st, perfect to grab tasty meals nearby
Please feel free to critic folks.
I hit her up last night and that;s what went down. She only had her pics up so I didn't have much to work with,
Then a buddy advised me to cut the BS towards the end and ask her out normally.
I just can't seem to read between the lines at times.
Anyways she stopped responding after that last text, it was weak and I still don't know her name.
ME: Psst! Want to join my new gang?
HER: New gang... depends on how exclusive it is... :)))
ME: Fuck yeah.
We roll around town throwing up gang signs, vandalizing idiotic things like shopping carts or dumpsters, maybe even robbing a bank
Can you handle that?
HER: You should be aware that they monitor all conversations here, you're gonna have FBI at your door tmr morning :)))) well I can offer some czech skills :)
ME: Oh snap! That's right we can't compromise
Text me your name and resume, I'm clearly unaware of any Czech specialties!
805 *** ***
HER: You don't need my resume... I'm a cute girl older than you... and lady... so there is my number 805-***-****
-Phone
ME 10:24 PM: Psst! So it looks like we have 12+ hours to mingle before the FBI comes to fetch me ;) _Guru
HER 10:26PM: Shall I just wait if they will come for you before saving your number?
ME 10:37PM: I need you come rescue me. I'll be disguised as a beach bum enjoying his pinkberry ;) What is you schedule looking like this week
HER 10:39PM: Lol... I gotta go to the gym don't have time for rescuing guys... even cute guys
HER 10: 40PM: Why? Are you planning on breaking into a bank? I could use some money
ME 10:51PM: Haha I love your enthusiasm for adventures. You live downtown?
HER 10:52PM: Yep... two blocks from *** st.... You? Do you go to *community college*?
ME 10:58PM: yes *community college*, it's beautiful. I work on *** st, perfect to grab tasty meals nearby
Please feel free to critic folks.
I hit her up last night and that;s what went down. She only had her pics up so I didn't have much to work with,
Then a buddy advised me to cut the BS towards the end and ask her out normally.
I just can't seem to read between the lines at times.
Anyways she stopped responding after that last text, it was weak and I still don't know her name.
Thu, 03/14/2013 - 02:01
#1
Has a successful 2hr date
Has a successful 2hr date downtown on Friday; ass smacking, make-outs and wrestling at the beach ensued. She responds well to aggressive kino, much less to the lovey dovey shit. I could not pull that day due to logistical issues on her end.
Also at the time I couldn't go around her objection to come to my college town because she says "all the girls there are sluts and all the guys have STDs"
We've been texting then I managed to get her on the phone a couple of days ago.
Holy shit, I don't remember enduring so many shit tests and objections in the span of 10 mins straight.
I was doing A LOT of reframing, keeping intent and trying to run over all of her objections.
I said we were going on an adventure, that we're going bowling. I went on to exaggerate how much I miss it and how I haven't played in a long time.
She asked if we were going to be alone. "FUCK YEAH!" is what I replied with.
She tried to throw me off "it's more fun when you have friends around blah blah blah", I said "i'm already hanging with my friends today, it's his birthday. When we bowl it's just going to be me and you"
To top that off she threw things like "You're still trying to get at me? I told you I wasn't going to hook up with you haha"
A variation of "I'm not sure about hanging out with you, you're weird blah blah blah"
I remained composed and pushed on, never got defensive because my gut tells me this is false resistance.
She's a big teaser and admitted it on the date, saying she'll say fucked up shit (to tear self-esteem) but not actually mean it. Good thing I was in a playful mood that day.
She's doing A LOT of push with minimal pull... constantly trying to see if I'll bend and snap.
Another objection was the location of the bowling place. It is closer to my college town where I live, the only place where I could actually isolate. She lives downtown and it's 15 mins bus ride which takes the freeway (I don't have a car) 15 mins!!!
She was like "it's too far, I don't want to go all the way out there blah blah blah"
Then there was a talk of us going back to my college town. She brought back the "all the guys have STDs" bs, I told her "You wouldn't have to speak with them, I'll fight someone in my boxers chivalry is not dead" That got her laughing a bit but damn man....
Anyways I told had I had to go and wrapped it up by asking her when she's free. She said she would be studying for her finals which are on Thursday and is not out until 10PM.
I told her WE ARE hanging out on Friday regardless, she said she would think about it and let me know.
How do I deal with this one folks?
Also at the time I couldn't go around her objection to come to my college town because she says "all the girls there are sluts and all the guys have STDs"
We've been texting then I managed to get her on the phone a couple of days ago.
Holy shit, I don't remember enduring so many shit tests and objections in the span of 10 mins straight.
I was doing A LOT of reframing, keeping intent and trying to run over all of her objections.
I said we were going on an adventure, that we're going bowling. I went on to exaggerate how much I miss it and how I haven't played in a long time.
She asked if we were going to be alone. "FUCK YEAH!" is what I replied with.
She tried to throw me off "it's more fun when you have friends around blah blah blah", I said "i'm already hanging with my friends today, it's his birthday. When we bowl it's just going to be me and you"
To top that off she threw things like "You're still trying to get at me? I told you I wasn't going to hook up with you haha"
A variation of "I'm not sure about hanging out with you, you're weird blah blah blah"
I remained composed and pushed on, never got defensive because my gut tells me this is false resistance.
She's a big teaser and admitted it on the date, saying she'll say fucked up shit (to tear self-esteem) but not actually mean it. Good thing I was in a playful mood that day.
She's doing A LOT of push with minimal pull... constantly trying to see if I'll bend and snap.
Another objection was the location of the bowling place. It is closer to my college town where I live, the only place where I could actually isolate. She lives downtown and it's 15 mins bus ride which takes the freeway (I don't have a car) 15 mins!!!
She was like "it's too far, I don't want to go all the way out there blah blah blah"
Then there was a talk of us going back to my college town. She brought back the "all the guys have STDs" bs, I told her "You wouldn't have to speak with them, I'll fight someone in my boxers chivalry is not dead" That got her laughing a bit but damn man....
Anyways I told had I had to go and wrapped it up by asking her when she's free. She said she would be studying for her finals which are on Thursday and is not out until 10PM.
I told her WE ARE hanging out on Friday regardless, she said she would think about it and let me know.
How do I deal with this one folks?