The 10/10 Trainer - Could use expertise

Naw I'd say you're leaning this the wrong direction. You work with this girl why you trying to set this up like a formal date? A girl like this will usually run far away. This shit should be much more low key you guys hanging out should be on the dl not this shit. It's why she's bringing it up so bluntly, you're not acting right. 

Got it. I shoulda scrap the whole thing and restart? Let it simmer off a few days and say let's just grab drinks

I never said dinner though. I only asked her to come grab food with me at like 2 am when we got off shift and were both hungry. Drinks was a different thing as well. She's already asked me out for drinks as well. I agreed.

She leaves on the 16 of December. She doesn't live here and she isn't staying too long. So I don't have the most amount of time.

Mang I'd just make up reasons to go over to her house. With the uber hotties this is really the way to go. Or have her over to yours. Seems counter intuitive but just remember these girls do WHAT THEY WANT, WHEN THEY WANT.

I gotcha man, maybe I'll just say after work drinks and bounce to her hotel room. Sunday is a day where i can set that up since she works during the day and I'm free all day. I feel like she's playing a bit of an angle where she's trying to get what she wants when she wants it. I'm going into work today for beers and shit with a bud. Will see her there tonight. 

For validation and what not, do you give these girls less? I know you have tons of experience with them. I thought I was doing pretty well considering she was originally the one to ask me out.

I know what you mean by that whole, they get what they want when they want it. I will work this in my favor asap some way. I have a lot of social proof at work too it's ridiculous. She also knows about the girls I been boning. 

Thanks for your help, boss.

You banging girls at work? Good stuff. Don't make the mistake of getting resentful of her "lifestyle", no reason not to play along with it. Banging her should be relatively straightforward it's keeping her afterwards that's a bitch. Obviously that's not a concern here so just don't throw up stumbling blocks that don't need to be there.

Fair enough, I think it would be best to bang her and let her go. I don't think I could keep her around especially when she isn't even from around here. A lot of these chicks from work are chasing me around like puppies now so I have this ever growing supply of abundance. So, if I don't pull this shit off, I don't care very much. I'm trying to be discrete about sleeping with these girls but they are talking to each other obviously but it hasn't hurt me yet. They keep inviting me to chill with them. It's like they are competing lol... 

I don't mind the lifestyle, I'd be lying if I said I wasn't doing similar things. Banging the hottest ones and keeping the others on the back burner. I genuinely like the girls though, no hate or anything from me. Just love women lol 

Have you had any success keeping these girls after? I know a lot of guys just aim to sleep with these girls cause of their looks but they date the lesser attractive ones.

Right, sooo.. don't be trying to take this girl to dinner like it's a formal date. She point blank asked you why you were trying to do that lol.

Ha! That's awesome. She flat out said no dinner and drinks bullshit. Green light broski.

I agree.  Fuck that. Will try to just close. 

Update - 

So, went in last night for the football game and beers with my buddy. Of course this little stunner of a trainer was there. Here's the field report of my night, nothing crazy but I have a text convo to go along with it that is taking place atm.

I'll try to keep this short...

So, just chilling with my best bud. We walk in and I'm immediately rushed by all the hosts and servers saying hi to me and even a few bartenders. I'm clearly well liked(not trying to be cocky, just the way it is...it's different for sure). The servers will not leave my side for the life of me, even when I get my food and start eating. My friend is loving this as they are equally as nice to him. My buddy is a natural, non-game guy and he's blown away by how attracted these girls are to me. It's so funny and it feels pretty awesome. This smokin' hot blonde server I'm supposed to have drinks with is the one that visits the most. Then in walks the manager who is also super flirty with me and she gets us to come join her at her booth. She's cool. So, this whole night I have this rotation of servers and this manager and a few buds just circling me and making my value just sky rocket. This trainer chick obviously notices and eventually makes her way over to say hi. After eyeing me up for a while that is. 

I'm hanging out with a few servers and the manager and my bud at this booth for a while, we are all talking and they are all flirting with me and engaging with me. They are qualifying themselves and talking about how creepy guys are when they are sexual but how it's charming when I do it. I feel like a million bucks right now, validation is a scary drug haha. 

Eventually the trainer gets cut and she makes her way over, of course she's sitting beside me. We start chatting and flirting right away and she's got her eyes locked dead on mine the whole time, slight kino as well, leg's touching as well. Then the blondie shows up and she's been cut. She sits beside me as well and I start engaging with her more. I figure it would be best to run a jealousy plotline considering I might have fucked the whole thing up by the whole dinner thing. I'm gaming this blondie fucking HARD. She's loving it and eventually makes her way home. 

Meanwhile, I turn back to the trainer and I can sense the tension and the negative vibe off her. She's jealous as fuck. She talks to me a bit and I make sure to give her simple answers and not game her. She gets a little bit more upset and says she is going to sit across the table after she gave me a "I heard you were a bit of a saint amongst these girls" shit - test. I'm clearly labelled as a player but the other girls don't mind. This hottie does though lol.

I let her go without any fuss. I make my way outside with my friend so he can have a smoke. I come back in and sit down, start watching the football highlights. She's gawking at me and starts wondering why I'm so quiet and why I seem worried. I just laugh and say, I'm really into the football highlights and I'm not sure what she's talking about. The servers start approaching me again and giving me all this attention. It's awesome. The trainer starts looking at me and we are literally having eye sex for minutes on end. I eventually just left after saying goodbye to everyone but her. 

I'm currently in an interesting text convo with her. Will post up later for reference. Good learning experience for me either way. Don't deal with these hotties too often, hopefully that's about to change.