2 decent # closes, no reponses
Wed, 07/11/2012 - 16:33
Hey guys,
On Monday, I got numbers from 3 girls, all which seemed pretty solid, but I was only interested in 2 of them.
Girl#1
She just got a job at a publsihing company in the city, but still lives at home in the suburbs with her mom and siblings. I had a good chat, she thanked me for stopping her, yada, yada and numbre closed her.
Me(30mins later): Hey its xxx. Hope you got home safe(those burbs can be dangerous).
No response, thats fine that there wasn't a reason to respond.
Me(4,5 hrs later): Ahh, just worked out and had my luna bar, what you up to? I'm guessing you're prob doing your sibling math hw.
No response that day.
Me(next day, afternoon):Hey, u free around 7 tomorroe? Im thinking about robbing a bank and need a driver. Bring ur sibling, cause they might be able to help out, lol.
No response, Que paso?
Girl#2
Stopped this girl on the street, and after a short maybe slighly awkard ineraction, I went for the number close. She hesitated at first and then began to pull out her business card. While she was fumbling for it, we actually starting having a good conversation, touched upon how we both we were both thinking of teaching English in Spain. I told her about a program for that and she became really interesting learning more about it. We had some banter about me being a pathogical liar, drug dealer and "robbering" people. Anyways, we exchanged numbers and she seemed interested in meeting up after the initial hesitation.
Me: Hey xxx, its xxx. Google spanish ministry of edu, teach english. You can pay me $10 on paypal for hat info. Its what I use for my drug dealing and robbering.
Me(next day): Hey, what u up to? I just took a 4hr nap after work, so i feel amazing but slightly confused as to how that happened.
No response
Maybe my first text gave off too much value. For this girl, I'll maybe use one of manwhore reinitiate texts and see where that goes.
On Monday, I got numbers from 3 girls, all which seemed pretty solid, but I was only interested in 2 of them.
Girl#1
She just got a job at a publsihing company in the city, but still lives at home in the suburbs with her mom and siblings. I had a good chat, she thanked me for stopping her, yada, yada and numbre closed her.
Me(30mins later): Hey its xxx. Hope you got home safe(those burbs can be dangerous).
No response, thats fine that there wasn't a reason to respond.
Me(4,5 hrs later): Ahh, just worked out and had my luna bar, what you up to? I'm guessing you're prob doing your sibling math hw.
No response that day.
Me(next day, afternoon):Hey, u free around 7 tomorroe? Im thinking about robbing a bank and need a driver. Bring ur sibling, cause they might be able to help out, lol.
No response, Que paso?
Girl#2
Stopped this girl on the street, and after a short maybe slighly awkard ineraction, I went for the number close. She hesitated at first and then began to pull out her business card. While she was fumbling for it, we actually starting having a good conversation, touched upon how we both we were both thinking of teaching English in Spain. I told her about a program for that and she became really interesting learning more about it. We had some banter about me being a pathogical liar, drug dealer and "robbering" people. Anyways, we exchanged numbers and she seemed interested in meeting up after the initial hesitation.
Me: Hey xxx, its xxx. Google spanish ministry of edu, teach english. You can pay me $10 on paypal for hat info. Its what I use for my drug dealing and robbering.
Me(next day): Hey, what u up to? I just took a 4hr nap after work, so i feel amazing but slightly confused as to how that happened.
No response
Maybe my first text gave off too much value. For this girl, I'll maybe use one of manwhore reinitiate texts and see where that goes.
Wed, 07/11/2012 - 17:30
#1
Re: 2 decent # closes, no reponses
@WanderingSoul:
Lol @ lets rob a bank being default line when there is no response :P
Such is life bro, you never know which girls will actually respond. Some may just give you the number so you leave. I don't really do daygame but in general I'm just like "you should text me" to the girl, and then most of the time she will be like 'yea! whats ur number?' then we exchange numbers. But that's only when I want to have the girl sort of 'invest' a bit more, since if she don't invest you will likely be fucking it up. It all depends on how i'm feeling.
Idk tbh, I don't like being serious. Read Julien's article about communication and read the article and try to understand it. I'm trying to fully grasp the concepts right now because I've noticed I read them but don't understand most. Its about the subtle layer of communication which the girl is focusing on, not the logical layer like guys focus on. If your initial interaction sucked its likely she won't reply to you. Also some instructor suggested getting physical with the girl to sort of anchor the interaction.
http://www.julienlife.com/being-emotional-the-new-way-of-communication/
Lol @ lets rob a bank being default line when there is no response :P
Such is life bro, you never know which girls will actually respond. Some may just give you the number so you leave. I don't really do daygame but in general I'm just like "you should text me" to the girl, and then most of the time she will be like 'yea! whats ur number?' then we exchange numbers. But that's only when I want to have the girl sort of 'invest' a bit more, since if she don't invest you will likely be fucking it up. It all depends on how i'm feeling.
Idk tbh, I don't like being serious. Read Julien's article about communication and read the article and try to understand it. I'm trying to fully grasp the concepts right now because I've noticed I read them but don't understand most. Its about the subtle layer of communication which the girl is focusing on, not the logical layer like guys focus on. If your initial interaction sucked its likely she won't reply to you. Also some instructor suggested getting physical with the girl to sort of anchor the interaction.
http://www.julienlife.com/being-emotional-the-new-way-of-communication/
Wed, 07/11/2012 - 18:37
#2
Re: 2 decent # closes, no reponses
@Sick-Cunt:
And you kinda escalated each text. You asked more of her investment each time when she wasn't responding. Like the first girl you asked a question then asked if shes free tomm at 7.. Next time you don't get a reply, scale back and just give value, send a ping. Get her following you before you start leading
And you kinda escalated each text. You asked more of her investment each time when she wasn't responding. Like the first girl you asked a question then asked if shes free tomm at 7.. Next time you don't get a reply, scale back and just give value, send a ping. Get her following you before you start leading
Wed, 07/11/2012 - 22:34
#3
Re: 2 decent # closes, no reponses
That. ^
Wed, 07/11/2012 - 23:05
#4
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Thu, 07/12/2012 - 23:40
#5
Re: 2 decent # closes, no reponses
@Alex123:
^ That article blows
^ That article blows
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