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2nd F**** date set, then.... "Can I get a Raincheck?" How to best handle

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This woman I banged two weekends ago. Last weekend I couldn't hang out with her due to my work schedule, but she asked me (last weekend) for a specific day that I could come "visit her". I told her Friday (this weekend). This was set up on Monday morning. Come Friday (yesterday) 1:30pm she sends me a text asking if she could get a raincheck on "tonight". I really struggled on how best to respond to that. It seemed like a trap or test of some sort. I decided it best to not respond at all. Then, she texted me again at 9:30p with "Hey". I didn't want to come off as the guy whose waiting around or willing to drop everything to come see her. So, I didn't reply to that text either. Then, she texted me again at 1am with "Really? No response......"  It's Saturday morning and just curious as to how to best play this one.

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Do you even know what you

Do you even know what you want at this point? What are you aiming for 

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Ideally what I'd want is a

Ideally what I'd want is a FWB / Casual relationship sort of thing with the option of developing into more over time. I regard all my lays as potential girlfriend material. (otherwise, I wouldn't have fucked them to begin with, as I don't go for low hanging fruit.) And, by girlfriend I mean open-relationship, because, let's face it - whether explicitly stated or not - all relationships are esentially "open" - in this day and age where a new fuck buddy is just a mouse click away. Especially if you live in major metropolitan area like I do. (SF) So, why not just call it what it is? In my opinion, the moment a man agrees to exclusivity/monogamy - he's lost his "edge". It's so much easier for a woman to indulge in occasional flings and get away with it. So, a guy has to take that factor into account if he wants to retain his edge.

BTW - I replied to her text this morning at 11a with "You did ask for a raincheck for the night"

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Ok so to make that develop,

Ok so to make that develop, what do you think needs to happen. Let's say at first broader picture.. e.g. certain points you have to hit with her, and then give your thoughts on what should happen next. 

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I wound up fucking her the

I wound up fucking her the next night. And, she was super hot for me. I played it perfectly the day before.