3-4 new girls a week make me emotionless
Hey guys, I've been closing about 3-4 new girls average every week for the past 2 months and the quality is acceptable. I have a Srs question though. Do you ever start to feel dead Inside? Like losing all emotions and feelings for girls. I have a girl or two in my life that I Think about being in a relationship with But just can't Commit to them and whenever I spend more than 3 days with them I no longer want to see them for another week or two. Almost every girl That I fuck I have no interest in afterwards.I'm quite young "19" and have spent the last two years of my life dedicated to cold approach. Getting massive results Blah blah blah But Feel Like I'm slowly turning into a sociopath. Would really appreciate Your input on this.
Ok man when you say closing 3-4 new girls per week what do you mean exactly.
What else do you have going on in your life?
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
I wanted to talk about this myself on the conference call during my intro but I did not have the technical equipment to make that happen.
My progression through game:
1. Read "The Game" at 16 years old and found it mindblowing and awesome.
2. Became somewhat of a theory junkie. Sought out multiple resources and learned about them.
3. Never actually applied what I was learning, hence making girls out to be something "scary" or "intimidating".
4. Lost my virginity at 17 from a stripper my uncle paid for in another country.
5. Realized sex and talking to women was NOT a big deal. Started closing. Closed my first gf in high school senior year.
6. Moved to college and went on a "rampage" of sorts. My lay count is now between 35-40 (stopped counting).
Towards the end of those lays I started feeling exactly how you do. Do you feel an empty, hollow feeling when you're done with sex sometimes? Do you ever catch yourself having thoughts like "I don't care about this shit" when a girl is explaining something important to you. Do you ever get tunnel vision and text 10 girls in a row just to get laid that night? Do you ever seek out the next high stimulus activity you can find (sex, weed, alcohol, sports, etc.)? I often looked at my number as it steadily increased and felt a slight sense of disgust and apprehension but I kept fucking new chicks. I liked getting laid. Until I got laid, that is. This is what it boils down to:
The problem is you're using women as an outlet for all of your pent up wants and needs as a man. No woman will ever truly fulfill you. EVER. You need to accomplish things within your life that make you happy, aside from women. Women should be the added bonus of the success you're achieving. Two resources that really helped me were "The Power of Now" and "The Way of the Superior Man". Pick these up if you have the resources. These books will make you appreciate life and women to a degree you haven't experienced yet. Women are beautiful, captivating, and full of amazing energy. But this is something that must be rewired into your brain and learned.
Now, I derive my happiness from all aspects of life and just enjoy life for what it is. I guess the biggest takeaway is that no matter how many women you fuck, how much money you make, where you live, what you drive, means absolutely nothing in the long run and you are indistinguishable from the billions of other people on this planet who will eventualy die. You need to strive to achieve happiness for yourself, whatever that may entail.
PM me if you wanna keep talking, this topic is something that is super interesting to me.
Also, I've often had thoughts like "Am I a sociopath?" I can almost guarantee you're not one. Sociopaths represent a very small fraction of the general population and if you're asking yourself that question, you care too much to be a sociopath lol
Well that pretty much sums it up. Thread closed lol
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
That is a great post gmoney. I have had that feeling also, and could not agree more. Ironically when you start loving yourself and doing more things that fufill you it sets an upward spiral which attracts more girls. Go figure
Another thing to strive for is upping your quality in women. Focus more on quality and less on quantity. You will be much happier.
Maybe keep the girls you're super attracted to around longer and don't sleep with the 6's and 7's as often.