3 Years Learning Manwhore's Text Game: A full-on exploration of what it means to successfully communicate with women

My text-game, is pretty fucking good. I've worked on it since the beginning of this site, and I know Manwhore has mentioned a couple times that I was one of the original people who really "picked up" on what he was doing, and made an effort to really learn this shit.  I was also lucky to stumble upon it at a time when Manwhore was really able to give me some serious one-on-one style training with this stuff. I'd say my text-game, at this point, is leagues better than a lot of what's already been written. That is to say, I've worked on it a lot, and def. see the results.

It's paid dividends. One thing you notice in this game is that "real" progress is made in terms of months and years. You'll notice some spikes in progress on a "monthly" level, every now and then, but the real shit is when you look back to where you were 2 years ago, and it's just like, holy shit, I am so much closer to being//doing what I was born to be, on a daily basis, than I ever was before. 

Manwhore's text-game has actually impacted me as a person, in a way that one wouldn't typically expect something like "text-game" to effect someone. You see, since I first got into the scene, I was making posts about authenticity, and it's always been my focus. Becoming the best man I can become, and a result being naturally attractive to women, has always been my goal (That's the first thing I sent Manwhore when he asked what I watned out of trianing. This isn't about the girls. This is about me, and being/./living the life I'm supposed to be living...). I honestly think that, despite the fact that I sometimes clash with Manwhore, and we have to hash shit out sometimes, at the end of the day, since my first post in the game, my deep-level mindset has always been right on target with where Manwhore is at. It's why I've been around here so long. 

Anyway,  when learning Manwhore's text-game, I started out just seeing it as a tactic. I'd ask for individual lines from Manwhore, without really thinking about it. Slowly, I looked to become more independent and started posting full conversations, not necessarily because I thoughtt hey were perfect, but because I wanted to develop the courage to be independent, and then get feedback that I could learn from for future conversations. 

But then, the text-game started to have an interesting effect. I noticed myself start to use some of these lines in person. I started to talk to girls in-person, similar to how I was talking to them over text. I was practicing so much, and noticing how potent it was, that I just naturally developed a "quicker wit".. And I want to point out that it's not just a "Quicker Wit", but a wit that is tuned into the right frequency. 

Then I had one final mind-shift: "Final" is probably not the operative word, as "game" is about developing ourselves fully, and it never "ends". But this shift actually occurred over time, and then it finally clicked while reading the samples of Manwhore's text-game manual that he sent me to look over and review

Manwhore's text-game is not just about "Individual Lines". Don't get me wrong, if that is entirely what you're looking for. You will find it in there (more than you can read in one sitting). But if that is your only goal, I would suggest you take another look at what you're trying to get out of all of this, because there's more to be offered. 

Manwhore's text-game is about allowing people to do a deep-dive into the material, and actually understand the fundamenatl backdrop of the kind of mind-set that is successful in communicating with women. This isn't just an e-book on texting. It's an exploration of what it means to really communicate with women. 

The shift that happened for me was in understanding that any sort of "sarcastic//combative//ego-driven meanness" is what I now like to think of as "Poinson Frame". The shift that happened for me, was understanding that everything coming out of girls' mouths is funny//cute//playful

There's a masculine softness in the way that I interact with women now that didn't exist before. "Masculine Softness", in the sense of tackling a girl to the ground, but ensuring that it all happens in a domminanet fashion, and where I'm making sure the girl doesn't get hurt. 

So much of life is freeing ourselves from our subconscious habits: 

This is something else that I noticed about Manwhore's text-game. In his e-book, he actually provides an explanation for the mind-set that the different of styles represent. If I had simply been able to read that shit 2 years ago, it wouldn't have taken me 3 years for these mind-sets to develop. 

But in practicing my text-game, I started to notice specific instances, specific subjects or categories of texts from women, that created a habitual response in me to be a dick, or want to "retaliate", or take the frame combative. I noticed these reactions, because I was practicing a style of game where none of that needs to exist. Everything is fun. Everything is playful. We're all on the same team, and as Manwhore says in his book, "We're just playing in the sandbox with these girls"

So by practicing text-game, my mindset and some of my subconscious habits//reactions were brought to the surface, and I've started to understand why I react certain ways to certain responses, and uncover the deeper layers that cause these reactions.

You see, in the past, I would react and blow up the conversation. I would unsuccessfully communicate with the girl, and not because I wanted to, but because I was being controlled by habitual response patterns. My emotions were dictating how I responded. Because of my life-story, I was projecting artifical and distorted meaning onto texts that were actually probably meant to be "cute". Like girls would be trying to flirt with me, and I'd be coming at them with texts that, essentially amounted to, "Fuck you bitch"

Because of the work I've put into learning Manwhore's text-game, I now can see that girls are usually just "Tryna be cute". Anything//Everything can be made playful. Everything can be turned into a fun adventure that you and the girl are having together. The girl doesn't get any of what's going on. She's operating on an unconscious level, so it's our responsibility to navigate the conversation to a safe-place for both of us to play together. But if you create a hostile communication environment, you're giving the girl no choice but to respond in kind. 

Also: This isn't the only way to Text:

This playful//silly way of texting is really just the style of texting that I've adopted because it matches up most closely with how I am in person with everyone I communicate with. There's other styles of texting that Manwhore goes over, and for someone who those styles click with more, I can only imagine you'll have a similar progression. I also will mix//match different stylesdepending on what makes sense. 

The key take-away I've gotten from my experience learning and adapting Manwhore's style of texting, to my own life:

This is about more than just "texting". It's about creating an understanding of what it means to successfull communicate with women, and abolishing our predictive, subconscious, habitual reactions from our repitoir and replacing them with constructive forms of communication that are a more accurate reflection of reality. 

-Peace