4 Month Check-In: Puts it all in perspective: This is what happens when you're ready

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TiFPaNDjxnk

Wow... I guess that's all I can say right now. Wow...

You see, I sorta lost track of how long ago I really started to focus on this shit, in a serious way. It kinda felt like a while and the mindset I have now is just so remarkably different than anything I could have imagined 4 months ago, it's actually kinda wild.

Honestly guys, sometimes, you just gotta say YES to life and go with the fucking flow because the truth of the matter is that the flow is moving faster than you could possibly move on your own so you let go and just let it take you and don't resist it. You just accept that you have reached a point in your life where you're ready to explode. You're ready to achieve your potential and when you're ready, trust me, it happens quicker than you can imagine. It happens at flow speed.

So what does this mean? What does it take to do this? You say YES to the ridiculous nights, YES to the insane amounts of improvement. YES to the daily habits that make you proud to be living the life you're living. YES to the thoughts inside your head asking, "Am I really this fucking cool?" "Am I actually ready to be going on dates with stunners?" You don't even give this shit a second fucking thought. You just fucking DO IT god damnit. That's it. Seriously, fucking god damnit you just say YES.

Like it's so fucking simple. You just say YES to being you. You say YES to the fact that you are awesome. You say YES to the fact that you're hair is sexy as fuck.

4 months ago I wrote my first post in my field report journal.

Here are some snippets:

"I approached the hottest girl there. It was pretty weak, not gonna lie, but I had solid eye contact lol I was literally expecting her to not tell me her name so when she did tell me I literally was like, "Wait, what?" then she quickly told me she was going downstairs"

"My first sober #... OOOOO YEAHHHH... it's been like 2 or 3 nights so wtvr, it is what it is. Maybe by the end of this challenge I'll get a makeout!"

"so, I'm shitting a brick and I pull her off the dance floor and I'm like, "What's up" and literally like my legs are fucking shaking haha"

Okay- also... this all took place in a CRAPPY ASS lower east-side bar where the girls aren't even that hot. The "hottest girl in the bar" was probably an 8 at best and there was like 1.

That was 4 months ago.

Fast forward to my last two field reports: Let's take some snippets:

"We walk over to griffin and get in line and I talk to the doorman... he lets us in and then I chat him up a bit and he gives me his card and tells me to text him if I'm rollin through with girls and he'd hook me up"

"Anyway- me and my buddy walk back to the jane and on our way we see two chicks on the street and I stop one of them and I go, "What's up" or somethin and she's hooked... have her in a close embrace and she's like, "How did I already end up in your arms"

"we each isolate and chat up our girls... I'm acting very aloof, ignoring my girl and standing at the bar by myself at times, rather than go over to her"

" just kinda avoid the question and act aloof... she starts qualifying herself and telling me how big her boobs are and how she got a breast reduction (she still has HUGE HUGE HUGE tits) so then I tell her, "okay, I'll tell you something about myself" (at this point she really really wants to know) so I grab her hand, go sit on a chair and she sits on my lap "

"his natural tried to do just that... as soon as I was talking to this girl he grabs her by the shoulder and pulls her in and starts chattin her up- she's into him and I realize I have one of two options

1. Become a spectator
2. GET HER THE FUCK BACK

So in the middle of their conversation, I just grab her arm and pull her into me and say, "Come here"

She comes over to me and I isolate her on the side opposite the natural so that my body is in-between me and her... he is DONE- he just stands there not knowing what to do- his reality has been shaken because up until now, whenever we have gone out, girls have been WAY more into him than they are into me... this guy ONLY dates models but tonight the moons changed.. tonight was the dawning of another era, sotospeak... tonight I stole my girl back and hooked her HARD"

"So I tell her, "I'm going to finish this beer and then we're going to go grab some food"- mind you, it's her friend's bday party. She says, "Okay"- zero resistance, zero negative feedback- just says "okay" and texts her friend that she is leaving... so I chug my beer and grab her wrist and tug her in my direction as we leave"

Oh- and these last two field reports happened in meatpacking. One of them was at one of the toughest doors in new york city where 8s and 9s are a dime a dozen.

4 months.... Are you shitting me.

I go from shitting a brick and having shaking legs and not even being able to have a girl say hi to me.... to pulling a fucking STUNNER russian chick in less than 10 minutes from one of the most exclusive clubs in new york.

I don't even know what else to say right now.

Thanks to Manwhore for all of his coaching//skype chatting//general life-advise over the past 4 months... That guy has been a huge help to me and basically chats with me on skype every fucking day. It's a little absurd.

I'm not amazing at this.... But I'm def. gettin there.... definitely getting there. I mean it took me 4 months to get to this point... even if it takes me 2 years to go the last mile.... That's cool with me, I'll be 25 slayin stunners every week.

Just this past weekend alone, I pulled 2 chicks back to the bedroom. First time I ever pulled 2 chicks in one weekend.

So yeah, say yes to the progress and let yourself achieve your potential... It doesn't happen instantly but it certainly feels that way when you're moving at flow speed