The 5 Paradigm Shifts For Immediate Success

Basically, as I get down to the most important components of Game, and life in general, I am coming to the following conclusions.

​1. Game is about who is dominating the interaction, and all "dominating" means is exerting more influence over the other person than

​they are exerting over you. In this restricted sense, Game is a "competition". If you can exert more influence over the other person than

​they are exerting over you, you are at THE CAUSE and NOT THE EFFECT. Thus you have set an OPTIMAL prescedent over the interaction. As the RSD fags say, they are "reacting" to you. Beautiful. 

​2. A more accurate and "advanced' way to look at the seduction process, rather than just a competition is a DANCE. If you're truly powerful, the outcome is ALREADY decided before you even opened your mouth. The unconcious "script" should be that she's there to "resist" to "test" and you're just this force of nature, the dance is just happening, taking place, but you both know that bitch is going to let herself be captured. How could she not? You are the CAUSE, the powerful one, and she is at the effect. All it is, at it's most highly developed, is a DANCE unfolding, and she falls right into your hands, willingly. Todd and others often talk about not being a "forgone conclusion". What that means is you're not supposed to let her know too early on that "Yes, this is going to end up in sex, very soon". The logic behind this is that if you put sex out there first in an obvious way, you've taken away HER fun by taking away the DANCE element. Todd is right, and in my estimation, you should have SO MUCH CONFIDENCE that the "forgone conclusion" is going to happen anyway, that there is NO NEED TO ACKNOWLEDGE IT. Let that stay in the back of her mind, in the deepest corners of her unconscious, and let your influence FUEL it and bring it into REALITY with your actions, rather than just mere words. 

​3. Oftentimes, we get too caught up with trying to project certain images of ourselves that we learn are attractive. "Dominant' or "cool" or

​"high status" or "Alpha". Instead of projecting, you could just follow the two above points and actually BE. For all intents and purposes,

​it's not that she's thinking "Oh he's so Alpha, gee I like that". It's that she's already fucked you, and thats because you LED her to

​your bed. THATS WHY SHE LIKES YOU. BECAUSE YOU FUCKED HER. I am an AVID beleiver in that NOTHING counts until you fucked the girl, up until that point, your PROJECTED "traits" and "qualities" are irrelevant in the overall big picture. You either made it happen, or you didn't. When you try to PROJECT an image, you're also trying to PROTECT it, thus you play it safe. It's not that it's "bad" to project an image because it's fake, because humans do a lot of things that are fake but that are required. My point is that it's better to IMMERSE yourself in being the CAUSE and in the DANCE, than to carefully project some bullshit that you have to protect from falling apart. It's a waste of energy, it's limiting and it's a security blanket above all else. There is no security. You are going to die. 

​4. You're going to die very, very soon. There are so many limitations and small little trifling issues that block most humans from doing

​what they want to do in this life. Nothing should be stopping you from living how you want to live. IF you let anything stop you, then it's

​because you WANT IT TO STOP YOU. If you really want something, you just put that above all else and get on with it. Go do what you want to do, fuck the outcome or the consequences. Really, what do you have to lose? Like even if you gained the world, it wouldn't make

​much of a difference. Same with if you lost the world, it's all in your head. Truly and utterly it's ALL in your head. Like none of it really matters, so just have fun, enjoy it, why sweat anything. You're not going to live forever. 

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​5. This life is simply a dream. It's a big, lucid dream where you technically have more control than you think, so just do everything in your

​power to enjoy this dream while it lasts. There really is no higher purpose or big overarching theme in your life than what you want to make of it. There might very well be other things that you're "meant" to do or were called to do, but if thats really true, you're not going

​to find that by just walking the beaten path and doing what society says is the correct thing to do, or just soaking in any old mainstream

​thinking or whatever else people try to influence you with out there. The only way you'll ever find your higher purpose, if indeed there is one for you, is by taking control of your life and doing what you want to do, living on your terms. Only then will things make more sense to you, if indeed there is any sense to be made of it. You have to LIVE to find out whats important to you, and it'll come with time. No need to rush to FIND your purpose. Just live. It'll come to you, but not if you're traveling the beaten path. Purposes and passions come to those

​who venture out on their own, deciding what they want to do for themselves. As long as you're happy, it doesn't fucking matter.