9 from the mall, texted first
Tue, 11/13/2012 - 04:27
So heres this girl. She sold me an iPhone 2 days ago and we were talking some irrelevant crap for an hour while she activated the phone (she's new).
I said im about to go party, she said she goes to clubs and gets wasted from time to time. I gave her my number saying "In case you want to hang out and have fun".
Today 11-30 am
Her: Hey it's christy from the sprint store:) how's that new phone working for ya?
Me: Its amazing lol, love it
Her: So glad to hear!
Me: I suppose you wanna meet up?
Her: When?
Me: Drinks tonight?
Her: Hmmm I have to pick my friend up from the air port later tonight but I'll text u when I get back. I work till 645
Me: Nice. Ill be home by then, hit me up Christy
Her: Will do! Have a good day babe
Me: You too :)
7-30 pm same day:
Me: Just got home. Text me if you are looking for an adventure tonight
Her: Lol I'm stuck doing homework tonight hun :/ rain check?
Me: Ok Beb no problem. Do your homework, cuz if i find out you have bad grades i will spank the shit out of you >:-) i hope you like it.
Me: Lol
Her: Haha! I'll exceed no worries ;)
Me: Cool ;) what are you studying for?
Her: International business
Me: Oh must be fun.
Her: Ha it's hard
Me: I bet lol
Her: :) I'll get it done
Me: I believe in you honey bunny
Her: Aw cute :)
Thoughts?
I said im about to go party, she said she goes to clubs and gets wasted from time to time. I gave her my number saying "In case you want to hang out and have fun".
Today 11-30 am
Her: Hey it's christy from the sprint store:) how's that new phone working for ya?
Me: Its amazing lol, love it
Her: So glad to hear!
Me: I suppose you wanna meet up?
Her: When?
Me: Drinks tonight?
Her: Hmmm I have to pick my friend up from the air port later tonight but I'll text u when I get back. I work till 645
Me: Nice. Ill be home by then, hit me up Christy
Her: Will do! Have a good day babe
Me: You too :)
7-30 pm same day:
Me: Just got home. Text me if you are looking for an adventure tonight
Her: Lol I'm stuck doing homework tonight hun :/ rain check?
Me: Ok Beb no problem. Do your homework, cuz if i find out you have bad grades i will spank the shit out of you >:-) i hope you like it.
Me: Lol
Her: Haha! I'll exceed no worries ;)
Me: Cool ;) what are you studying for?
Her: International business
Me: Oh must be fun.
Her: Ha it's hard
Me: I bet lol
Her: :) I'll get it done
Me: I believe in you honey bunny
Her: Aw cute :)
Thoughts?
Tue, 11/13/2012 - 04:31
#1
Re: 9 from the mall, texted first
So, im used to feeling butthurt and rejected. And the second part of the text i was writing way longer (thinking). What should i feel as a man, when she says she can't tonight, but will want to do that another day?
Tue, 11/13/2012 - 05:27
#2
Re: 9 from the mall, texted first
You flipped the script and now are chasing her.
What you have to understand is girls have an inherent sense of this as well, and they will follow it.. so if they sense you have the value and she's already been chasing you, all you have to do is allow this dynamic to be, don't chase her too hard or attempt too hard to meet up, and the chase dynamic will be maintained.
What you have to understand is girls have an inherent sense of this as well, and they will follow it.. so if they sense you have the value and she's already been chasing you, all you have to do is allow this dynamic to be, don't chase her too hard or attempt too hard to meet up, and the chase dynamic will be maintained.
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Tue, 11/13/2012 - 05:34
#3
Re: 9 from the mall, texted first
I really liked the i assume you wanna meet up line. Couldve phrased it in a more boss way but it came across cool. Shes down for you, no need for you to sweat this. Keep texting and itll work out. Quit taking stabs too and just ask when shes free ... Not now but further along. Shes enjoying the dance, as should you. Conversely it was faggy for you to say ' i hope you like it '. Own it. Progressively became less boss as the interaction dragged on.
Tue, 11/13/2012 - 05:37
#4
Re: 9 from the mall, texted first
Thank you. I thought so. I thought i'd try to provide her the opportunity to meet up. She is still behaving tho, so i'll implement what you said.
Tue, 11/13/2012 - 05:47
#5
Re: 9 from the mall, texted first
Aequitas;1521.9872;11 wrote:
Conversely it was faggy for you to say ' i hope you like it '. Own it. Progressively became less boss as the interaction dragged on.
Thank's dude. I may try it with a different chick. I feel that without "i hope you like it" it may get more sexual, rather than nice.
Only on pickup forum you can say "Thanks" to a person calling you a phaggot lol :)