Advice on Ending it w/ long term fuckbuddy.

Bring her into your apartment.

Hand her a glass of bourbon

And say, "You'll want to sit down for this"

Then sit there and don't say anything for like 5-10 minutes

Then say, "You're Fired"

Get up and motion for her to dot he same.

Place her jacket over her shoulders and as she's walking out the door slap her on the ass.

Only Donald Trump could pull that off effectively

Did you really do it that ?

That just fucking made my day. Now I want to go get a fbuddy just to be able to that.

OMG.

I'm going to offer you a different perspective on this.

Most dudes I've seen get into this stuff segregate relationship mode and single mode. I think this has different pros and cons. I'm going to outline the benefits of MERGING them in this post as I've been very successful in doing so.

First let me explain this difference.

Single mode
-All girls are considered fuck buddies
-Normally only fuck girls once or twice
-Longest relationship is around 1-3 months MAX before you get "bored." **I want to add here that it's pretty obvious you will get bored with any girl no matter how hot if you have no emotional connection**
-Completely ignore most attempts by the girl to emotionally connect further than fuck buddy status
-Will bail on most relationships when get the question "what are we ect..." First sign of trouble will result in 0 effort and result in the girl blowing out.

Relationship mode
-Only one girl
-Can be FULLY open with her eventually. Share everything with her
-Bring her around your friends/family
-Committed to make things work long term

I've seen a lot of dudes with this mindset bang lots of girls but they can't have anything close to emotionally intimacy unless they go full relationship mode. I was a virgin coming in 2 years ago and made a commitment that hell or high water I was going to stay in game hard for 3 years MINIMUM. I really wanted to experience a relationship so I had to mix the best of both worlds. Instead of me rehashing it...you can read my full writeup here. Goes into the type of frame control you need to pull it off...what's even better is my example is over TEXT. Which is so much more complicated than in person.

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/217934/forum?page=18

It's the third post down.

The basic premise is that you make her more than a fuck buddy. You expand the relationship with no fear of getting "hurt" because of how connected you get. You embrace it...and trust me I have been HURT badly by this. At the end of the day it made me stronger. The AWESOME benefits of this are:

-Intimate relationship with a girl. Far deeper than anything you could establish with a girl on "fuckbuddy" status.
-Girl to bring to events with your family or friends.(sometimes just family)
-No feeling of emotional intimacy not being fulfilled. This has multiple levels to it. To keep it simple, even not being needy this is very nice to have around to help you expand your personality. Or at least it has for me. In my mind this will help me stay in the game long term. There is NO reason for me to stop gaming until I want to dedicate 13+ hours a day to a business. At that point I will probably shack up and move in with a girl to make things easy for me.

There are many many more than this. For me though, this is probably one the HIGHEST joys of game. There is nothing in the world like keeping a girl that you fall madly in love with around while her still being cool while you bang other girls. I currently have one year and 9 month relationship, a year relationship, and a 5 month relationship. I love all these girls to death. It's very strange...whenever I hang out with them I remember how much I like them and get those thoughts where I feel like I should just shack up with this girl because she's so fucking awesome.

This comes down VERY strongly to your ability to frame control, loving the girl enough to go through the amount of BS to actually make this a reality, and not being willing to settle for anything less than what you want. You have to set the frame IMMEDIATELY or it will not work. A great way to do this is invite her into your life but have a strong pimp hand when anything drifts to "monogamous mode."

Anyways, something to think about.

Cheers,

Steve

Yes that's the shit right there Steve. Didn't you post that on my site as well at some point? Pretty sure I remember you writing on this topic before.

Grizz you should tell this girl a bit about what you're going through. Without allowing her to become a crutch for it, or an excuse.

@manboob

I'm not sure if I did post that one up here I can't find it. Would be cool to split up a person's posts vs replies when you're looking at their account. Not sure if this would be worth the work though.

p.s. Had my first Devil's threesome last night. High five'd while pounding like a boss. LOL

K thx for the input.

Lol at Buddhagames

Buddhagames is on point.

I would handle business as usual. You’re busy...blah blah blah. You should be hooking up with other girls anyway. I feel you about getting detached. Emotionally I’m the same way.