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Me: Hey (name), did santa bring you all the gifts you wanted this year, or did he put you on his naughty list.

HB: Nope, I was good this year

Me: Thats not what he told me....

HB: Lol well he's a liar duh Me - 6 mins later: Calling santa a liar....thats why your on his bad list HB - 3 mins later: Lol whatever. How was your Christmas Me - 14 mins later: It was awesome. I got a RC helicopter but I suck at controlling it. You should help me. HB - 3 mins later: Loll of course Me - 15 mins later: Cool, straighten your hair before you come. HB - 3 mins later: Can't tame me Me - 5 mins later: Come at 6:30. HB - 3 mins later: I'm at work freak Me - 1 hr 23 mins later: It got stuck in a tree, lol...its your fault HB - 7 mins later: Loll retard

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Where did I go wrong?

I think I did pretty good, never let the conversation get off the meetup. I think I should have replied with trying to get her to name a time and a place since she didnt give me a counteroffer. Its just kind of annoying that girls try to get guys to handle all the logistics stuff. So im wondering where to go from here?

BTW, the initial text I sent is a good reengagement text after Christmas. Ive used it for 2 years and ive gotten a few dates from it...it doesnt get awkward to use for a text until about new years so field test it and let me know how it goes.

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You could have set up the

You could have set up the date a bit better the first time then you wouldn't have this slight awkwardness now. Her "I'm at work freak" was something you should have figured out beforehand. Honestly it was weak texting.

Her: Loll of course

Derp: Ok I got flights leaving at 6:30, 8:30 and midnight. Which one works for you. The late flights come w/ free complimentary cookies

Instead of "Cool, straighten your hair before you come/ Come at 6:30" (which honestly was pure bait and switch) make SOLID plans that she AGREES to. You can't somehow magically trick a girl into a meetup and then get pissed when she's not accountable to it lol

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But yeah other than that it

But yeah other than that it was a fun text convo 

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wtf

Me: Hey, I'm not going to be able to go until later this afternoon.
HB - 3 mins later: Lol that's fine, I'm in bed
Me - 5 mins later: Lol. Such a slacker!
HB - 1 hr 17 mins later: Busteddd
Me - 4 hrs 45 mins later: Does 7 sound good?
HB - 45 mins later: lol noo, we'll have to do it another night
Me - 9 mins later: Alright, cool.
Me: What's your schedule look like this week, I'm out of school for the 4th of July week
HB - 14 mins later: I don't work Monday but work the rest of the week
Me - 16 mins later: Yeah I don't think I'm doing anything monday. I'll call you tomorrow when I think of something to do.
HB - 39 mins later: Okayy
Me - 1 day later: Hey. Let's go around and up stone mountain tomorrow!
HB - 34 mins later: Okayy, sounds good
HB - 3 mins later: Okayy, sounds good
Me - 14 hrs 18 mins later: So can you be at my house by 12:30, or will you still be asleep. Lol.
HB - 2 hrs 35 mins later: My bed<333
Me - 13 mins later: Lol.
HB: Lol omg hush
HB - 5 mins later: I did I did! God, finally lolol
Me - 7 mins later: lol, your like a hibernating bear. Well I'm about to eat something real quick. Text me when you are on the way.
HB - 5 mins later: Lol I am, and plus the thunder was perrfectt. I'm gonna eat to and
HB: then I guess I'll try not to look like death����
Me - 25 mins later: Yeah, we are flirting with death. Climbing up a mountain with a 30% chance of thunderstorms
HB - 1 min later: I rather pick my noes
Me: I'd rather cry.
HB - 4 mins later: Lol so done. I guess I should put clothes on
Me - 4 mins later: *Facepalm
HB - 49 mins later: Leavin hoe
Me - 22 hrs 29 mins later: I just pulled a you....sleeping in until 2PM. Lol.
HB - 7 mins later: Lolol no shame! It's ok here and there ahah
Me - 3 mins later: Yeah, I feel like a million bucks. Haha.
HB: Yassss!!
Me - 2 days 4 hrs later: Hey, what are you doing tomorrow?
HB - 7 mins later: Dunnooo
Me - 7 mins later: Come with me to the lake tomorrow at like 12.
HB: Prob won't happen el oh el
Me - 55 mins later: Yeah cuzz you will probably be sleeping, llo
HB - 36 mins later: Swervy swerve swerve

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So you went on this hike and

So you went on this hike and didn't escalate..

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