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Just curious if this rule Alex has can apply to college game. Say for example, I see a girl, I approach and vibe and I don't close or anything and I carry on. I know for sure I'll see this girl again, in fact most of these girls that are super attractive have the same break as I do (lucky me), so would it be possible to do something like that and maybe another day if I re-approach go for the close then? Especially if I feel like the interaction isn't going well or I'm strapped for time? What do you guys think?

Since I'm building my abundance back up, I'm not exactly sure if it's a good idea to run around approaching at school and trying to close everyone ahaha, even though I'm getting so many IOI's and what not... Mental thing I'm working on

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Yeah sure. That's just a

Yeah sure. That's just a natural dynamic that goes down. Unless I'm mistaken all Alex is saying is that you don't have to pester a girl or go for the close right on the spot if you think it'll be better if you wait. Just remember this is Rsd, the hotbed of Frankenstein pu weirdos and wannabe rapists. 

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Hahahah that's true, I was

Hahahah that's true, I was just hoping I could apply it to daygame plus in psychology we learned the more a girl/people see you, the more comfortable they will feel around you since they've seen you so many times. Which I feel could help in a college setting (I.e going to pub nights, clubs, just being seen around campus, socializing).. That's where I figured the 4 approach rule could come into play especially since I know I'll see them again.

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So you're banking on seeing

So you're banking on seeing the same girl to daygame approach four different times on a college campus..

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No, just speaking in general

No, just speaking in general if I happen to run into them several times which is what has been happening. Been seeing a lot of the same girls due to class schedules, breaks, same classes, etc. Number closed a few girls on break today and one girl from my class. Nervous about the escalating and hitting on the girls from class since if it goes downhill I'll be seeing them/working with them for quite a while lol..

My college doesn't have residency or anything it's not that big. It's more like a bigger high school, which is why you see a lot of the same people, often. When I transfer to Uni, it'll be a completely different ball game as I'll most likely be staying there plus the Uni's here are monsterous in size.

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Ok wait a second.. what are

Ok wait a second.. what are you worried about? This is SO weird, I've seen this before and I'm sort of confused on the source. I did NOT have this concern in college so let's flesh this out. 

If WHAT goes downhill.. in what way? What are you afraid of. How would it go downhill? You're worried about some really petty shit you should be above that. You stick to your integrity, you stick to your guns, you got NOTHING to worry about.

You need coaching man, you're retarded. 

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I mean.. not to make this

I mean.. not to make this seem like my coaching is strictly for retarded people, it's definitely not, but yeah you need help buhbster. 

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Lol man if you've talked to

Lol man if you've talked to them and gotten their number it should be pretty natural to talk to them again if you see them on campus. I've approached alotta chicks there and don't even recognize some of them.

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By downhill I mean if we hook

By downhill I mean if we hook up and things just get weird after, I've had it happen a few times now where if I hook up with a chick and have no intention on being with her they get really weird and start tl really dislike me. Especially if it's a chick I have to spend lots of time with (girls in my class, the program I'm in has a lot of group work)

Also, can't get training until I'm able to work again, have no source of income due to the car accident I was in!

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By downhill I mean if we hook

By downhill I mean if we hook up and things just get weird after, I've had it happen a few times now where if I hook up with a chick and have no intention on being with her they get really weird and start tl really dislike me. Especially if it's a chick I have to spend lots of time with (girls in my class, the program I'm in has a lot of group work)

Also, can't get training until I'm able to work again, have no source of income due to the car accident I was in!

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AP_Grappler wrote:By

AP_Grappler wrote:
By downhill I mean if we hook up and things just get weird after, I've had it happen a few times now where if I hook up with a chick and have no intention on being with her they get really weird and start tl really dislike me. Especially if it's a chick I have to spend lots of time with (girls in my class, the program I'm in has a lot of group work) Also, can't get training until I'm able to work again, have no source of income due to the car accident I was in!

If I hook up with a girl and decide I dont like her aftwerwards then I couldnt give a fuck If shes awkward about it. Youve dont nothing wrong. You decided you dont click with that chick and she wont be a part of your life. Thats perfectly fine.

However from the prior post I had the impression that you were more worried about the pickup itself going bad and the girl labeling you a weirdo or something. Is that part of the issue too?

edit: Also you dont just completely ignore these girls after you fuck them man. You stay friendly and cool with them. If they still have an issue its their problem. Thats how I see it anyway

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No man, I just meant after

No man, I just meant after the initial hook up. That's the main concern. I'm not creepy or anything with approachs haha I've never had that problem. Usually just go in friendly and confident, clear mind.

I always try to be respectful, friendly and chill after the hook up especially if we are in the same classes, but more often than not they aren't chill about it. Especially if I have already turned them down in a relationship/dating sense. So it makes it a little awkward. Few chicks are in fact cool with it though and we have dope friendships

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Why arent they cool about it?

Why arent they cool about it? Whatcha mean?

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I'm not quite sure if I gave

I'm not quite sure if I gave them the impression that I would like to date them at any point (This was last semester btw), but they assumed that I guess we would and when I broke it to them it didn't go over so well. I was of course respectful, but they just didn't take to it too well especially when I'd be gaming/talking/hanging out with another girl around campus or giving them attention in class. Shit just didn't fly with most of them. Some were really chill and cool about it but then again others weren't..

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What has that to do with alex

What has that to do with alex 4 approaches rule

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Why limit yourself to these

Why limit yourself to these rules? Just do whatever the fuck you want but be smart about it. Also, start setting up expectations as soon as you hook up the first time to show you respect the girl's time and it allows you to set the best frame from the get go.

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By the approach rule I meant,

By the approach rule I meant, approaching the same girls on campus you didn't have time or thought it was better to close with another time. (i.e. late for class, catching bus, etc.)

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Sure. I don't get a phone

Sure. I don't get a phone number from every girl I talk to that would be retarded. So that's when you got to ask yourself.. are you getting what you want from women? 'Cuz if you are, cool. Otherwise you need to step it up 

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But naw you're in fucking

But naw you're in fucking college, buddy. You should definitely be pushing it. You're surrounded by opportunities that will be cut to about 5% of what they are now when you leave. If I were you I'd be convincing your classmates and ass.t wiminz surrounding you to have their first threesome experience. They're very impressionable at such a tender age ;). Yes I'm still pulling this shit and I'm out of college (I'm an old fogey). But if you think you're capable of achieving this after college yet you're surrounded by it now and you can't get it done, you're just retarded. Sorry I can't help be a little sardonic. But stacking two girls on top of each other and ramming your cock into one and then the other then cumming on both their faces at the same time is heaven. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise 

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Hahahaha well when you put it

Hahahaha well when you put it that way how the fuck can you not want to push it? I am going to step it up a notch, there really is no reason why I shouldn't be. These are going to be the easiest years of my life for this stuff after all.

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I'm in my last semester of

I'm in my last semester of college and it's honestly so Fucking easy it's a joke. My foot is off the pedal because I'm focusing on getting a badass job and building meaningful relationships with people I care about and also bartending but MW nailed it
You also hear the same thing from chodes all the time. College is literally a playground for adults, take in every moment because you will,never have the opportunity to meet this many people in this short of a time frame unless you become famous or are incredibly outgoing, which most people are not.

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Yeah I'm going to kill it.

Yeah I'm going to kill it. You guys are right, this is not a proper way to take advantage of the college experience. I'm going to kick it up a few notches.

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