Alexis the Spinner
Met this girl off daygame, she was actually really early for a date and I instadated her. Interaction was pretty good. We jokes about LARP, axe-murdering and other nonsense. Then she left for her date. Although I didn't like how she said at the end, "Thanks for filling up my time..." This means I got be more social dominant and push things more.
Me: Yo wildelf96, totally saw u on a bates article on LARP. Nerd alert! -WS
Her: Funny cause I saw the same thing about you in a tufts article- and that you're wanted for murder
Me: Pssh, woman. dont make me whip out the scented duct tape
Her: I think I will take my chanes as I have my own batch of scented duct tape as well
Me: Bullshit, my scent and usage of the product is vastly superior
Her: I highly doubt it
Her: But seriously yo should start watching dexter
Where should I go from here?
Meetup txt would be too soon?
Could say," Teach me about it, I'll test your serial killer techniques."
and then segue that in a meetup
Also, let me know if I did good at the beginning. MW said I needed a greater margin for error with my txts. I need to shoot from the hip and be more challenging and not care if she gets turned off by that. If so, fuck her
Her: I think I will take my chanes as I have my own batch of scented duct tape as well
Me: Bullshit, my scent and usage of the product is vastly superior
That is NOT the way to handle that dude. Come on she's throwing you a beach ball and you're friendzoning yourself. Geezez. You take something that's sexual and you make it not sexual. Escalate her escalation
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Damnit MW. I feel like an autistic kid, trying to figure out human interaction. But its all good. I WILL learn this shit.
I do agree. I was actually thinking of being sexual for a second and then backed. But this all has to do with creating a large margin of error on texts and being social dominant through text. You just do what you want and by doing this we will rant/be challenging in default and then be sexual when the emotions of the interactions go there. There will be no hesitation or fear.
For my next txt, I might say,"Doubt it, you'll have to duct tape me to a chair to watch that shit"
You've unsexualized the duct tape once again with that. In this case it's too late but I'm just trying to get you to see what I'm referring to.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Well, i sent that txt anyways. Here's how the rest of the convo went
Me: Doubt it, you'll have to tape me to the chair to watch that shit.
No response
Next Day
Me: Pic of Boston Commons
Me: Retiring mystery section
Me: Bringin victims here instead(I jokes that I bring girls to mystery section of barnes&noble before eliminating them)
Her: I think you will have much more success there...lots of places to hide the body too
Me: So ahead of you pmpkinbutt
Me;Body count- 3.5
Me: LARP experiecnce points- +350
Me: So how unproductive are u right now?
Her: Haha, I am this unproductive:
Her: Pic of barely her legs taning in quad
Her:Tanning the quad
Me: Damn, didnt know you could tan in grannypanties...should be illegal
Her:This is granny panties friendly campus
Me: I see why i didnt go to bates, lol
Me: You wouldn't last very long in those around me
Me: Even w the vecroe straps
Her: I was aware granny panties had vecro straps..
I think I need to reel this one in and setup a meetup.
I could say, "That's cause no one has been taking them off right". Or is it too much and not getting me anywhere?
Maybe, "Well someone obviously needs to be taken granny panty shopping?"
You write two completely asexualized texts then throw mine in there? Wtf dude. I feel like taking your texting privileges away.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
"You're jealous I don't have to use a tanning bed. I know"
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Sent the txt and it didn't get a response
2 Days Later
Me: You lose 10 LARP pts for newb grannypanties
No response for 1 hr.
Me: Don't just ignore me loser, say something
Her: Good thing I don't actually wear those
Me: Ha, prove it
Her: :p don't really care if you believe me
Not really sure, how to go about this. Maybe, " Pssh, girl ill tell you to care, when I want you to ;)
I really need to take a step back and see how I'm approaching all my convo, they petter out in very similar places
Ha, prove it doesn't have a good chance of working that was a throwaway text and it also kept you from using it more effectively at a later time. That was a fuck up. She's also expressed her dismissal of you just like the last girl. You're not coming at these girls high value enough.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Me: Yeah, i deal w denial, too
Me: So are you a night owl too
Next day
Her: Normally more so but I was exhausted last night got class realy now!
Me: Been in class since 8
Me: Ready to go back to sleep in 20 min
Her: Rough
Me: Not really, im just working on my spanish, and zoning the fuck out
Me: Shouldn't you not have class anymore
Her: I have one class
Her: Meets twice a week
Me: Literally no one is paying attention right now
Me: Poor speaker
Her: Hahahaha
Me: Felt same way when I was talking to you ;)
Her: Good one
Me: Until you switched to axe murdering
Me: Speaker just apologized, feel lk getting her a beer
Me: What u up to for the rest of the day?
Her: Haha poor prof. I have class till 1 then who knowsss
Me: Come up to boston, we'll gran a drink. And you'll chance to get out of the bates bubble, lol
Me: As a former liberal arts college man, I know leaving the bubble can be quite freeing :)
Her:Haha it def is a thing. I was just in boston though! Graduating in two weeks so I'm going to push through
So, Im only here for 2 weeks also, I don't really have time to play the long game. Any way to convince her to come?
" But unemployment, in your parents house -far away from b-town"
Hm interesting. It was a good convo and you handled it pretty well I think the meetup suggestion wasn't strong and qualified enough. You want to be the prize. When I asked you earlier to come up with reasons, they were to spin them into that sort of thing.. not to resort to some default "please come hang out with me" type vibe.
"Well it's ok Boston and myself will be fine without you, you're probably a marathon bomber anyway. But now you sound as boring as this prof lol" that sort of thing. Challenged and you've rebalanced the dynamic.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Actually ended up asking this girl how far bates was from boston. Turns out it 2.5 hrs away. Did not know that.... I think that changes the situation and logistics of this. i'm probably gonna have to put this chick on the backburner.
But I still sent your txt.
Her: Haha it def is a thing. i was just in boston though! Graduating in two weeks so I'm going to push through
Me: How dar is bates from boston ?
Her: 2.5 hrs.
Next Day
Me: 2.5!! Well, it's ok Boston and muself will be fine w/o you
Me: you're prob a marathon bomber anyway :P
No response
In retrospect, I don't think that last txt was good, bc of the logistical problem. She could've actually been interested but then the last txt may have been too harsh. Bad judgement on my part.
Yeah that was no longer a false barrier that was more a release from duties. E.g. you excused her/released the tension completely.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Ok, so if you're saying that by me asking a logistical question(w negative/unpreferable response) after her rejection, I basically let her off the hook and made her feel justified in her rejection.
It's like giving an excuse for her bs.
Where as if I had asked for her logistics before even going for the meetup its fine, cause she hasn't exactly rejected your escalation of the interaction yet.
So asking, "How far is bates from boston?" was stupid and it made the next statement (Boston marathon shit) come off as more butthurt, even moreso with my time delay. Its like I needed a day to come up w a comeback, would've gotten shat on in the schoolyard for that shit.
Actually I didn't even see that but that's also a good point. I was more looking at the cadence of your texting. The linguistic rhythm was off. But if you were to look at it objectively, yes you'd see your point first.
I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male