For All You Fellas Who've Had Girls Call You Out On Being A Player, Or Gotten The "I'm not that kind of girl" Line.. Take a Peek
This is my old high school wrestling buddy who's now a doctor, married, and has his lil flings on the side which his wife is 100% ok with. He's clearly got a great thing going. Never learned game or anything.
This is the first part of the conversation over Tinder.
As you can see this girl flipped from being nice to outright bitchy and insulting. Is it fair or right? No, but it's the world we live in and as a man you simply must come to terms with it and deal with it correctly. He handled it magnificently, met up and banged her first night.
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sounds sick. I cunt wait.
Wait so your buddy is a doctor AND a software engineer? Is he the ubermench? Does he inject cash into his bloodstream like Magic Johnson?
Yeah I've got a couple buddies that are rather... interesting. He's a doctor codes on the side
My impression is that the girl took 'I'm not looking for a serious relationship' as 'I'm not looking for a serious relationship with you'. She lashed out because of what she incorrectly interpreted as a degraded attitude towards her. Probably texted something brilliant to turn it around.
It's great for people in niche feilds to do software, because they know exactly people in that exact field need. Been working on a project for scientific/engineering research. Being a coder in America, a little leadership/entrepreneurial skills can go a long long way.
It's great for people in niche feilds to do software, because they know exactly people in that exact field need. Been working on a project for scientific/engineering research. Being a coder in America, a little leadership/entrepreneurial skills can go a long long way.
Nice! Yeah I've narrowed myself so far down I need to start expanding again. But want to get at least one book out first.
My impression is that the girl took 'I'm not looking for a serious relationship' as 'I'm not looking for a serious relationship with you'. She lashed out because of what she incorrectly interpreted as a degraded attitude towards her. Probably texted something brilliant to turn it around.
This is actually very possible I'll point this out to him.
This is actually very possible I'll point this out to him.
I think is a problem most guys have. I guess you may not have much issue with it; I think I remember reading that in college you got the nick name Manwhore so you were just 'that guy' and women could tell you don't really think less of women when you hook up with them, it's just what you do. But most guys don't express themselves that way.
Most regular guys all know a couple girls who they would be down to hookup with but not have a relationship with. And girl would get great value out of hooking up with him too, but some how get the impression that if the guy were to do that, he think less of her; feel that he thinks he's 'above' her.
The dynamic in that text message could have been 'oh he thinks he's better than me? I'll communicate that I'm actually better than him'.
It's somewhat of a common experience among women that they liked a guy, guy tells her he's not looking for a relationship and they hook up. A while later she reads he's in a relationship with another woman on facebook. She starts to wonder what's wrong with her when there's nothing wrong with her, it's just that the guy used the 'i'm not looking for a relationship' as a cheap shortcut to try to communicate that he doesn't think less of her if they hookup. Obviously doesn't work out in the long term.
Most women have experiences like that and start to develop a boarderline schizophrenic approach towards men. Doing stuff like waiting for sex to show him that she's equal to him. It's compensating for lack of chemistry.
Many girls thinking sleeping with a guy too fast will lead to him not thinking she's relationship worthy. Because they had an experience with a guy they slept with 'too fast' and didn't end up in a long term relationship with. She correlates those two and she thinks if she waited, he would have. But in reality he would never would have considered a relationship with her, hooking up didn't make a difference.
Yes I think that's a common perception men have of women in the "dating/relationship" game. But I think it's somewhat narrow in its scope