Almost lured into rejection by an old fling
So I literally went through old text conversations that fizzled out and just didn't work out for whatever reason. Found one and texted her some funny shit and sent her a picture. This girl gave me all kinds of shit. I've been texting her for about two weeks because I know she is interested but she just continues to throw obstacles my way. Well I finally shifted the tide by sticking with it and making her feel "special".
She actually is fucking hilarious and beautiful so she is kind of special/worth my time. Keep in mind she is a massage therapist. Tonight at about 8 pm she sent me a text saying "are you studying".
I said ,"not yet." " Why you wanna come help"
She said, "no I need help. I need someone to massage my legs so I know what it feels like."
Keep in mind I have never met this girl in person. (POF)
I said, "sure I can help you with that. I need to be quick though so I can come back and study" (make it look like I have no agenda of getting laid even though I had a boner while texting this).
She said, "lol I wish I had time to do it before I go back tomorrow. Oh well I just need to apply pressure to my legs."
i said, "you just want to meet my beard in person"
She said, "No I'm not consistent with my pressure. I'm afraid to inflict pain in the legs."
Immediately I felt like I was losing her but this was her game. She wanted to see me squirm, see me in an act of desperation. I began to fall for it.
I sent, "Girl my hands are like the terminator's, I always get compliments on my massages."
11 minutes later: She sent, "I just need to feel some of this stuff so I can get a better idea of how it feels. Grr head hurts. I'm about to take a pill."
I almost begged because I was in my head thinking about massaging her thighs, getting close to her pussy, and kissing her neck at the same time. The part that was most tempting is that I know she lives very close to me.
As long as I keep pursuing the lower my value becomes.
I sent back "ok"
"I'm gonna take a nap"
she said, "Me too"
So lesson learned here?! Girls will test you in the craziest ways. They will fuck with your head because they know so many guys are impulsive to just jump into sex. She wants to make sure you are a guy with emotional control, a man.
Anybody have any suggestions on how I could have handled it better or just opinions in general? Was it a test?? My instincts say yes but my bawls say no. Prior to this convo we agreed to hang out on Sunday.
Read that last text message convo I emailed you- it's right on point for this, as well as the "Fast & Furious" texting style, plus some of Bateman's stuff. With these types of girls many times it's a good idea to be heavy-handed- the attitude you slam her with cuts through all the bullshit and lays out logistics really well. "Fast & Furious" mang.. learn it.
Read that last text message convo I emailed you- it's right on point for this, as well as the "Fast & Furious" texting style, plus some of Bateman's stuff. With these types of girls many times it's a good idea to be heavy-handed- the attitude you slam her with cuts through all the bullshit and lays out logistics really well. "Fast & Furious" mang.. learn it.
gawd dammit. Looking back on this I knew what the right answer was. I guess I was used to her testing me before it became a pattern.
Yeah. Over and over again with the hot industry girls/hired guns.. really forceful and emotionally dominant with them. Works amazing because that's the kind of girls they are