Am i just too robotic/ emotionless??
Fri, 07/13/2012 - 11:26
Ok as most of you guys know im notorious about meeting cute girls and fucking everything up afterwards. I have been thinking about it a lot because i have never been frustrated that much in my life. This morning something just clicked... I guess i have focused so much on certain principles that i actually forgot expressing myself. No emotions involved. As i result when i create my text after brainstorming for 3 hours trying to convey some humour, when the girl receives it she is like wtf? What is he talking about?? Because it wasnt me, it was just a random guy trying to be funny/ playful. So i end up being the weirdo that she met on the street.
Instead!!!
Why shouldnt i just express myself. It is real, contains emotions, authentic and gives girls chance to experience real me which creates the real attraction. For instance i met a girl last week (i fucked up with my texts later on) she has fracles on her face and i really like them. So why not sending a text like this to initiate a convo;
Me: no matter what people say, i think ur fracles make tou look prettier
Or with the girl who approached me on the train, she has really beautiful eyes so;
Me: i feel u have really nice eyes. Hope they are not contact lenses...
Or with the girl that i met yesterday. I spoke to her in the car park lol. So
Me: it was an interesting meeting buti really enjoy it. However i still dont believe that u are English (she is too cute to be english lol)
Or imagine im in the office, very bored and wanna text a girl;
Me: whadup babe. Im in the office getting absolutely bored. Luckily i will be free in 2 hours. Party time is that close!!.
I only expressed myself on above examples. Buddhagames, sick-cunt and orhers who know my shit texting. What are ur thoughts about that??
Instead!!!
Why shouldnt i just express myself. It is real, contains emotions, authentic and gives girls chance to experience real me which creates the real attraction. For instance i met a girl last week (i fucked up with my texts later on) she has fracles on her face and i really like them. So why not sending a text like this to initiate a convo;
Me: no matter what people say, i think ur fracles make tou look prettier
Or with the girl who approached me on the train, she has really beautiful eyes so;
Me: i feel u have really nice eyes. Hope they are not contact lenses...
Or with the girl that i met yesterday. I spoke to her in the car park lol. So
Me: it was an interesting meeting buti really enjoy it. However i still dont believe that u are English (she is too cute to be english lol)
Or imagine im in the office, very bored and wanna text a girl;
Me: whadup babe. Im in the office getting absolutely bored. Luckily i will be free in 2 hours. Party time is that close!!.
I only expressed myself on above examples. Buddhagames, sick-cunt and orhers who know my shit texting. What are ur thoughts about that??
Fri, 07/13/2012 - 12:00
#1
Re: Am i just too robotic/ emotionless??
@hkmt:
Pm sent
Pm sent
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Sat, 07/14/2012 - 14:59
#2
Re: Am i just too robotic/ emotionless??
@Manwhore:
Pm responded... I will record an audio and upload it shortly. Any other comments?
Pm responded... I will record an audio and upload it shortly. Any other comments?
Sat, 07/14/2012 - 15:51
#3
Re: Am i just too robotic/ emotionless??
Sat, 07/14/2012 - 16:22
#4
Re: Am i just too robotic/ emotionless??
@hkmt:
When you meet these girls, are you talking to them in english... or your native language?
When you meet these girls, are you talking to them in english... or your native language?
Sat, 07/14/2012 - 16:24
#5
Re: Am i just too robotic/ emotionless??
@buddhagames:
All english. I live in England atm
All english. I live in England atm
Sat, 07/14/2012 - 16:29
#6
Re: Am i just too robotic/ emotionless??
@hkmt:
Okay, so obiously, I am not a pro. But what I can do is simply tell you what I thought...
I thought you were actually very articulate. You were very... precise?... maybe too much so. It's as if you're not relaxed when you're talking... kinda "stifled"
Also- there was this overarching hint of "condesencion" in your voice... Like just a slight hint of cockiness... like you're better than everyone else. I could be totally wrong man, but like I said, all I can do is tell you what I thought I heard.
Also- it's tough man, cause english isn't your native language, so it doesn't quite... roll off the tounge, the way it would for someone who was born and raised in an english speaking country.
Also- there is no humor... no self amusement... like you're not enjoying the conversation.
Anyway- that being said... I thought you were very articulate and precise about your word choice and what you wanted to say. I thought that, for not being a native speaker, you have INCREDIBLE english.
Okay, so obiously, I am not a pro. But what I can do is simply tell you what I thought...
I thought you were actually very articulate. You were very... precise?... maybe too much so. It's as if you're not relaxed when you're talking... kinda "stifled"
Also- there was this overarching hint of "condesencion" in your voice... Like just a slight hint of cockiness... like you're better than everyone else. I could be totally wrong man, but like I said, all I can do is tell you what I thought I heard.
Also- it's tough man, cause english isn't your native language, so it doesn't quite... roll off the tounge, the way it would for someone who was born and raised in an english speaking country.
Also- there is no humor... no self amusement... like you're not enjoying the conversation.
Anyway- that being said... I thought you were very articulate and precise about your word choice and what you wanted to say. I thought that, for not being a native speaker, you have INCREDIBLE english.
Sat, 07/14/2012 - 16:51
#7
Re: Am i just too robotic/ emotionless??
@buddhagames:
Well i dont think im cocky but it might sound because of my accent. In fact i often times insult myself when im interacting with a girl ;) what do you mean by precise? In texting or when im talking??
Humour is a major issue for me. I still cannot take smthing from the interaction and play with it... As i mentioned on the record when i try i end up being a weirdo. I guess...
Well i dont think im cocky but it might sound because of my accent. In fact i often times insult myself when im interacting with a girl ;) what do you mean by precise? In texting or when im talking??
Humour is a major issue for me. I still cannot take smthing from the interaction and play with it... As i mentioned on the record when i try i end up being a weirdo. I guess...
Sat, 07/14/2012 - 17:30
#8
Re: Am i just too robotic/ emotionless??
@buddhagames:
I think the only reason you think he's condescending is cause he introduced himself as "notorious on the forum", it made him sound snooty. It was probably just a poor choice of words.
Other than that your speaking skills are really good - no brain farts, i.e. "umm, ahhh"
You was humorless in your recording, but i doubt that's the way you approach girls. I think you need to record an audio of what you say to a chick, or have a sharper look at how you're making them feel in set.
I think the only reason you think he's condescending is cause he introduced himself as "notorious on the forum", it made him sound snooty. It was probably just a poor choice of words.
Other than that your speaking skills are really good - no brain farts, i.e. "umm, ahhh"
You was humorless in your recording, but i doubt that's the way you approach girls. I think you need to record an audio of what you say to a chick, or have a sharper look at how you're making them feel in set.
Sat, 07/14/2012 - 17:44
#9
Re: Am i just too robotic/ emotionless??
@Gogo:
Yes yes yess awesome analysis bro. Obviously i dont approach girls like that (serious voice, no joke etc...) and here i wasnt making jokes because i was talking about my main issue with girls. So dont judge my approaching based on the audio, it was mainly for manwhore to show my english level.
Coming back to the topic what do you think about the concept of focusing on expressing myself when texting??
Yes yes yess awesome analysis bro. Obviously i dont approach girls like that (serious voice, no joke etc...) and here i wasnt making jokes because i was talking about my main issue with girls. So dont judge my approaching based on the audio, it was mainly for manwhore to show my english level.
Coming back to the topic what do you think about the concept of focusing on expressing myself when texting??
Sat, 07/14/2012 - 23:03
#10
Re: Am i just too robotic/ emotionless??
@hkmt:
Ok got this.
I had a client just like this. He was actually worse off than you we skipped stage 1 of drills and went into stage 2 to soothe and soften out his rattling staccato. Good news for you, you DO speak right at times, but your natural propensity to sound harsh WHILE speaking with a slight foreign accent is killing you. It doesn't help that the accent you're immersed in mixes just right to accentuate the harshness. It's that proper London-town aristocracy way of pronouncing words.
Girls are bunnies. They act all tough, but they aren't at all.
Listen to yourself starting at :56 minutes in. THAT is where you want to spend a lot more of your time.
Ok got this.
I had a client just like this. He was actually worse off than you we skipped stage 1 of drills and went into stage 2 to soothe and soften out his rattling staccato. Good news for you, you DO speak right at times, but your natural propensity to sound harsh WHILE speaking with a slight foreign accent is killing you. It doesn't help that the accent you're immersed in mixes just right to accentuate the harshness. It's that proper London-town aristocracy way of pronouncing words.
Girls are bunnies. They act all tough, but they aren't at all.
Listen to yourself starting at :56 minutes in. THAT is where you want to spend a lot more of your time.
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I go in and I'm crisp, clean and my vocals are fucking coming out like music. - Anonymous MW student
- Autismus Terminus Finis (Root Cause/Cure of Autism Epidemic)
- Called Off My Wedding & Other Turn Tail Signs Of The American Male
Sun, 07/15/2012 - 07:31
#11
Re: Am i just too robotic/ emotionless??
@Manwhore:
Word- THATS what it is... I love how I'll hear or see something and like I'll KNOW that something is off and I'll try to explain it... and then manwhore will just NAIL it....
It's just a slight, "Harshness" not necesarily that you think you're better than anyone else...
Like in the beginning of the video it's like all of your words end with this slight hint of just being "pissed off"... uhmm it's like all your words end with a "sharp" ending.... like, "hey guys so apprenTLY I am having difficultTIES with talkING to girLS and gettING solID numbeRS"
idk if that makes sense.. but yeah, it's EXACTLY what manwhore said.
Word- THATS what it is... I love how I'll hear or see something and like I'll KNOW that something is off and I'll try to explain it... and then manwhore will just NAIL it....
It's just a slight, "Harshness" not necesarily that you think you're better than anyone else...
Like in the beginning of the video it's like all of your words end with this slight hint of just being "pissed off"... uhmm it's like all your words end with a "sharp" ending.... like, "hey guys so apprenTLY I am having difficultTIES with talkING to girLS and gettING solID numbeRS"
idk if that makes sense.. but yeah, it's EXACTLY what manwhore said.