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Hey guys, need some advice on this one

I met this girl at a techno party where she was really into me and we talked for quite a while. Got her number and then even took her with me to the afterparty I was going. After like 1-2 hours at afterparty she left with her friend and I went to say goodbye. Tried making out with her but she said "I'm not that easy" but just tried again anyway and I got a kiss on the lips -__-

Told her we should grab icecream sometimes and she told me she was busy the whole week so I said we'll figure something out

Me: Daaamn...what a night that was!!

Me: you get home in one piece?

Her: so you survived your drug initiation (I'd taken some x for the first time)

Her: Yes got home all in one piece

Me: yeah what an experience that was

Me: Are you up to anything tonight partyanimal

2 days later

Me:  Hey I'm pregnant and think it's yours.

5 hours later

Her: How cool!

Her: Do you have a name yet

5 hours later

Me: Yes, I got 2

Me: Alexander and Gary

Me: But I don't wanna decide too soon, so need some more

Me: You have any suggestions, it's your child as well you know

Her: Arnold and Ferdinand

Her: How do you know it's gonna be a boy?

Me: Because of my prehistoric fatherly instinct

Me: And the magical powers of this man

Next day

Her: Oh so this is family of yours?

Me: I would be nice to him. He's the village sorcerer

Me: What have you been up to today

2 days later

Me: Fine, I didn't like your haircut anyway

Her: I'm a career tiger you know

Her: Busy busy busy

Her: I didn't like your haircut either

Me: ok little tiger, when are you free to grab some icecream

Me: and to do something about your haircut ;)    (I had teased her about her haircut during the interaction and told her I was a barber and I was going to dye her hair green or some shit, btw I'm not a barber at all this was just me fucking around with her)

Her: What are you going to do with my haircut then?

Me: No worries

Me: 

Her: Then you need to put on extentions first

Her: You have any experience with that?

Me: Pfff...girl don't tell me how to do my job

Her: yeah yeah that's what they all say

Her: my barber said that as well

Her: and look at the result

Me: yeah you got a real cracked up barber

2 days later

Me: Hey booger you still alive

Next day

Her: Dude

Her: I am, you?

3 hours later

Me: Dude yeah duuude totally chillax

Me: I was just surfing dude (I was just fucking around with the dude thing trying to mock a surfer)

Me: Yo but when are you free this coming week. I just wanted to see you for a bit

3 hours later

Her: I'm working till thursday night 10 o'clock

Her: and friday morning I'm going on vacation

Me: ok cool

Me: Do you have any other day in mind

3 hours later

Her: I have to work everyday, wednesday and thursday 13 hours so it's not gonna happen

Man this girl seems like she's trying to dodge the meeting everytime I go for it. During the live interaction she was really into me and hanging on every word I said but damn...what's the best way to go about this now.

And where do you guys think I fucked up in the convo, if I did.

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I'm not sure what the context

I'm not sure what the context of this interaction is because I don't know what happened when in person.  You're definitely taking too long to setup a date and you're not being specific enough.  Asking if she wants to grab ice cream isn't good enough.  "Meet me at xyz for ice cream at 8:00 on Friday".  Also follow it up with something banty to get her to laugh when she reads it.  Double texting is golden.

One big thing for you just going through your texts is that there is no man-woman.  You're being too funny and not direct enough with your intentions.  Girls don't want to hangout with a dickless clown..they want to go out in 'fear' of being sexually exploited.

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rogan wrote:I'm not sure

rogan wrote:
I'm not sure what the context of this interaction is because I don't know what happened when in person.  You're definitely taking too long to setup a date and you're not being specific enough.  Asking if she wants to grab ice cream isn't good enough.  "Meet me at xyz for ice cream at 8:00 on Friday".  Also follow it up with something banty to get her to laugh when she reads it.  Double texting is golden.

One big thing for you just going through your texts is that there is no man-woman.  You're being too funny and not direct enough with your intentions.  Girls don't want to hangout with a dickless clown..they want to go out in 'fear' of being sexually exploited.

Thanks a lot jigga, this definitely makes sense.

I thought I already had this one in the bag, which is why I was being more relaxed about going for the meetup. She was really into me at the party and complied pretty well with everything. 

I definitely need to be more man to woman, but I've noticed (especially with Tinder convo's) that when I go for the meetup too quickly the girl shuts down and I don't get a reply or something like "No"...

Btw do you mean to send the "Meet me at xyz for ice cream at 8 on friday" before finding out if she is free that day?

Cuz the text I sent was because Manwhore says you need to ask if she's free that day/time first in the Text game article before inviting for a meetup

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I haven't looked at the whole

I haven't looked at the whole thing but I suspect Rogan is more right in this context. 

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Brrrr wrote: rogan

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rogan wrote:
I'm not sure what the context of this interaction is because I don't know what happened when in person.  You're definitely taking too long to setup a date and you're not being specific enough.  Asking if she wants to grab ice cream isn't good enough.  "Meet me at xyz for ice cream at 8:00 on Friday".  Also follow it up with something banty to get her to laugh when she reads it.  Double texting is golden.

One big thing for you just going through your texts is that there is no man-woman.  You're being too funny and not direct enough with your intentions.  Girls don't want to hangout with a dickless clown..they want to go out in 'fear' of being sexually exploited.

Thanks a lot jigga, this definitely makes sense.

I thought I already had this one in the bag, which is why I was being more relaxed about going for the meetup. She was really into me at the party and complied pretty well with everything. 

I definitely need to be more man to woman, but I've noticed (especially with Tinder convo's) that when I go for the meetup too quickly the girl shuts down and I don't get a reply or something like "No"...

Btw do you mean to send the "Meet me at xyz for ice cream at 8 on friday" before finding out if she is free that day?

Cuz the text I sent was because Manwhore says you need to ask if she's free that day/time first in the Text game article before inviting for a meetup

If something is "in the bag" you never take your foot off the gas pedal.  The old game motto applies "strike while the iron is hot".  Being relaxed about going for meetups is a sure way to lose an opportunity.

Regarding the Tinder situation..if you were expressing your masculinity more you won't get that response.  You need to get her (vaginal) juices going..just being a funnyman isn't going to do that.  Make her feel sexy..make her feel like a woman.  When you do that right she will be jumping at the chance to meet you.  I mean horniness is a wonderful motivator.

I have gotten dates without asking when she's free but I have also asked what days she's free as well.  This is really scenario dependent and also done by gauging the amount of interest.  If this girl was as into you as you say she was..I would've just straight up told her to meet me on the day of my choosing.  Girls that are that interested will accept or will reject but immediately suggest another day.  If you think it's not as solid go with the other way..either way though will work.  I'm preferable to less texts to set a date up though if I have my druthers.