Anyone know the "significance" of this woman's traumatic sexual experience with Aziz Ansar?
Not to downplay or make light of the woman's situation, because Aziz fucked up, and put her through a pretty shitty experience. But there's something big to be gleaned here..
What's interesting is I landed on this story because of another story detailling Mark Wahlberg donating his reshooting fees of 1.5 million for his latest movie that had to be partially redone because of the removal of Kevin Spacey over sexual assault claims from a few decades ago. So essentially Mark took advantage of their bad situation (their removing Kevin Spacey) to make more money then once it came to light he donated the money. To the "Times Up Legal Defense Fund".
That's a "legal" fund tasked specifically with going on a witch hunt for sexual assault cases. Holy fuck
But Michelle Williams is lauding his gesture of donating his fees, highlighting the involvement of Andrew Rapp, the kid who originally accused Kevin Spacey and started this whole campaign against Spacey by detailing a drunken Kevin Spacey trying to kiss him before being rebuffed and removing himself. Nothing more, nothing forced.
Yet Mark Wahlberg...? Assaulted two men and partially blinded one man for life after knocking the other one cold. While screaming racial obscenities at them. Not to mention he was known for not just bullying black youths but straight terrorizing them. Chasing them with his buddies on bikes and throwing rocks at them.
“It was 30 minutes of me getting up and moving and him following and sticking his fingers down my throat again. It was really repetitive. It felt like a fucking game.”
This was cringeworthy lol
Everything was rushed starting from when he quickly asked for the check so they could walk home after dinner. Then his escalation was far too low value for someone of his status, too much groping going on. He tries to recover by bringing his dick into it but it's far too late. Then he's hung up on the kiss and the fingers down the throat thing. He never takes a second to chill out and his dirty talk is just all wacked out for someone getting massive resistance.
I don't know if there is one glaringly obvious problem here but the whole thing was awful lol. It sucks because he's probably not a predatorial dude at all.
Yeah you basically nailed it. She wanted to be with this guy. He fucked it all up
Someone sign Aziz up for my coaching program.
Do you think his fuck up has anythng to do with him being a comedian? Seems like "funny guy" type personalities may not take themselves seriously. Stand up comedy is like 95% self deprecating humor. Aziz is a fucking star though, damn.
No that's a total fallacy. That someone who's a comedian wouldn't take themselves seriously. Lol
I'd say his fuck up has to do with this stuff having worked before and this time it didn't and it blew up in his face.
I remember before dick pics were rampant I used to send them alot. It worked to get me laid almost like clockwork. Yes I had harsh rejections and shit but when I figured out the pattern
on who and WHEN to send that someone on facebook, it was easy, then I upgraded to dick videos lol. It worked even better. I could look at a girls status or her photos or even her
pattern of what times of the day or night she liked my statuses and know that I could get away with this method of screening/closing with a relatively high probabaility, and being
"exposed". rejected, critcized or even threatened were an absolute joke to me. I just disarm it and laugh to myself.
Then when every perv out there started flooding these girls dms and inboxes with this kind of shit, I lost one of my best online tools. I still send them from time to time but only under
very well calibrated and special circumstances. And yes, I send them very early on but I have a sense of when. Sometimes it works as a tool to cut through the BS and the girl will
automatically fall into place or give one last test, which is an easy test just so she can tell herself she resisted.
There are times when acting like a 18 year old works very well, and anything else and the girl labels you as weak. Some girls NEED to be manhandled and almost forced to
fuck you, because they like that shit. There are girls that will NOT do anything unless you practically "rape" them. And sadly, this method gets a lot of success because a lot
of girls just give in so guys think this is the only way, so if you get into a flow of girls responding well to this, you'll only know how to do this.
Honestly, I was never this bad, I'm great at building comfort but I escalate early as possible, however when a girl doesnt even respond to that, I do revert to the groping shit
if I have nothing else to fallback on, it never works for me with the kind of girl who won't kiss early on either. It's like you have to build sexual tension with them in this convoluted
way so that it seems like it just happened, that it was their choice because you are so high value.
The girl in this case was probably expecting for him to be a guy who knows how to game in a more relaxed and comfortable way, he instead went for her like a piece of meat, and i love
girls who let me treat them this way but she just wasnt that way, at least with him, so his game was lacking.
Not as a rule of thumb lol, lots of comedians admit to be suffering from depression